Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

My fiance and I are getting married this weekend. She has a 4 year old daughter with her ex - and up until recently, he always treated her very poorly. (He left her when he found out that she was pregnant. And wanted nothing to do with his daughter for the first two years of her life.) And then we found out that she was pregnant, and we announced our engagement... and he has come around full circle. Suddenly, he is very supportive and has gone out of his way to build a relationship with me. While that was hard for me to swallow at first, I appreciate his support, and want the best for my step-daughter. So then, he gets my fiance a wedding gift... this bracelet that "symbolizes the union of a man and a woman". AND IT NEVER COMES OFF. I can't help but feel some kind of jealousy over it. And I need to figure out a way to ask her to remove it on our wedding day. In my mind, he is figuratively holding her wrist. We made love last night, and she wore nothing, except that damn bracelet.

2006-10-03 03:51:02 · 33 answers · asked by Jon M 1 in Weddings

I know some women do like it but some women take offensive to it. please give me some answers. Do you like porn women ?

2006-10-03 03:51:01 · 9 answers · asked by Demon Eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my exboyfriend about 7 months ago, cause i had met someone else that made me happier ( my ex made me miserable) and in September he found out i had hooked up with my current bf while i was still with him (he found out cause he started talking to my bfs cousin, in my opinion to spite me, but then he found out i dont care) and told me he hated me and not to worry baout him trying to get me back anymore cause he never wants to be with me again, which is good for me cause now i dont have to keep saying no. i had found a pic he sent me of his penis like a year ago and sent it back to him, and now he keeps sending it to me on the computer and writing things like i know you miss it, and i dont understand why is he doing that if he hates me , do you think its cause he is trying to get me to say something incriminating so he can tell my bfs cousin and she can tell my bf,cause i just dont understand this

2006-10-03 03:50:41 · 4 answers · asked by LISA M 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

And I have no regerets

2006-10-03 03:50:40 · 10 answers · asked by Kate J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for over 4yrs and I feel like I don't exist. He says I talk too much, ok maybe I do, so I try to moderate it but end up not knowing when I can talk or not. He's always trying to get away from me, always has to have people with us to be happy. He says he loves me but wants to leave his boxers and dirty socks lying around, go out and stay out and not call. Like a single guy or what? He says he'd be miserable if he moved out. I don't get it, he wants everything and isn't even happy when he gets it. Meantime I'm busy doing EVERYTHING and getting nothing in return! I love him very much and I'm sure he's not doing this on purpose cos I don't think he knows what he thinks or feels or anything. I feel like I'm not being fair on myself by going on like this. What can I do?

2006-10-03 03:50:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 03:50:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sweet Dreams

I want this girl can’t you see
How much she means to me
And I can’t get her hard as I try
But my feelings for her will never die

I just wish I could get the chance
To take her to one last dance
So I’ll pray now to the man up above
To spend one night with the girl I love

(Chorus)
Many chances I have had
None end good all end bad
But if I could get that one night
I would make everything right
I’d give the world to this girl
Diamonds, clothes, jewelry, and pearls
Do anything to see her smile
To have a chance
I must be in denial

Somehow I passed the test
Asked her out and she said yes
Perfect is how it has to be
If not then she’ll forget about me

Eight p.m. rolls around
I pick her up for a night on the town
Walk up and knock on the door
It opens up and the crowd starts to roar

She’s so beautiful it’s almost painful
Cause I’m in love with an angel
She’s perfect: smart, funny, and kind
I could stare at her till the end of time

(Chorus 2x)

Now it’s time to take her home
Ignore the calls that I get on my phone
Spend as much time with her as I can
Because a chance like this will never happen again

She says what a good time she had
I reply it wasn’t half bad
And in for the kiss I lean
That’s when I wake…
Up from my dream

2006-10-03 03:48:46 · 18 answers · asked by Zach S 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but my best friend already went ouit with him and i think she still likes him buut she said it was ok to date him(me and the guy are reallyu close friends)but if something happened to my realationship i would want our friendship to go down tooo....what do i do?please HELP!

2006-10-03 03:48:46 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♪♦♫ ♥♪♦♫ ♥♪♦♫ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 03:46:42 · 11 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

I Met a guy at the weekend we got on really well, i ended up kissing him and since have seen him again and found out that he is 18 and im nearly ten years older than him, what shall i do?

2006-10-03 03:44:52 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have not come accross one man that has not cheated. I have been in a committed relationship with my new love for about a month & the more time I spend with him the deeper my feelings get and I can't help but anticipate something bad happening based on what I have already been through. (betrayed, lied to, cheated on).... I am struggling with this fear.

2006-10-03 03:44:24 · 19 answers · asked by akiastatz 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am invited to my fiance's cousin's bridal shower this weekend. What I want to know is do I sign both our names to the gift and card or just mine?

2006-10-03 03:43:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what do I do to get someone I love so much back. He broke up with me and I feel as if someone told him to, because it happened all of the sudden. Help!!!

2006-10-03 03:43:53 · 14 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 03:43:23 · 10 answers · asked by princess30 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was in this relationship for like 3 months and everything was great until we started sleeping together. After the first time he didnt call me or anything. We hung out a couple of times after that but...we were never alone. I got a feeling he didnt want to be with me anymore so we called it quits. I think i Love him. I dont want to let go. Maybe it was because i wasnt on "Supply on Demand" Ya know, I wasnt there when he wanted stuff to happen. I dont know what to do. I know wveryone is going to say "let go" but i have such strong seelings-i just want him to know that...what should i do to try to get him back...I need him.

2006-10-03 03:41:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a while a go. Now he is back. I'm not sure what he wants from me, he's acting all indifferent, almost arrogant. Which makes me wonder why he's looking for me again.

2006-10-03 03:41:19 · 20 answers · asked by Julz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 03:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

CRAZY! I know it's wrong of me to think like this, but sometimes I can't control it! When I call my b/f or text him and he doesn't answer, I start thinking things....he gives me no reason to, but I do it to myself b/c I'm scared! Obviously, I'm acting co-dependent and can't draw my attention elsewhere. Why am I so scared all the time?? I love him and want to trust him but it's just so hard!! Help me!

2006-10-03 03:39:33 · 11 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 03:39:27 · 18 answers · asked by helena w 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, so an add on from the question yesterday. when i got home my husband was still super pissed at the whole strip club thing that just to piss me off he went out with his friends and went to the one down the street,(we live right over the bridge in cinci). I didnt want to say anything because i didnt want him getting angry and taking more **** out on me. i feel like he did some things that could ruin our marriage. I want to ask him but im afraid he will then accuse me of not trusting him ECT and a big argument will break out. i feel really bad about this whole situation and hate it that he is pissed. i kinda want to give in to him just so this whole thing can be over..what would you do in this problem?

2006-10-03 03:38:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This is mainly for girls to answer, but guys may comment.
Would any of you girls tell the truth if a guy you were interested in asked "How many guys you been with"? Be honest, and if you would lie, why? Shouldn't honesty be important?

2006-10-03 03:38:53 · 32 answers · asked by Kickster 1 in Singles & Dating

frustrated?
my boyfriend wont have sex with me .. and i like to have sex and i dont want to please myself.. my boyfriend should be pleaseing me and well he wont ... i would give him oral or a hand job and when i do this i get nothing in return ..he would just say he is tired ...we been together for 5 years or longer now and he just kinda stopped ... what am i suppose to think .. is he cheating is he not into me any more ...i ask him if he wants to break up but he still wants to be with me ...

2006-10-03 03:37:47 · 11 answers · asked by nonya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like men in uniform.Everyone who knows me will tell you that.
It is like I'm entranced when I see one.
The problem is when I see a man in a uniform a minute later I want him without it.
Now I have a boyfriend but he doesn't wear a uniform and tommorow is my birthday.
Will he mind wearing a uniform on my birthday-there will be just the two of us.
I just want my b-day to be special.
What do you think?
btw: is there any chance I can cure my obsession with uniforms,
I often find myself in wierd situations ...and weird positions as that matter.

2006-10-03 03:37:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

charan,vij............first time suffering with deadly and truely deep love.....

2006-10-03 03:37:32 · 5 answers · asked by charan 1 in Singles & Dating

God create animals in different colours, beautiful,
eg. a dog it is a beautiful animal A black dog, a borwn dog, white dog, mixed colour.......
it never cuts hairs or nails. never comb his hairs, or iron his trousers.
whithout doing all these it is a very beautiful animal.
A naked dog is 1000 times beautiful than a naked human being.
what is your idia?.

2006-10-03 03:37:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

landlord is about to evict him schould we let him evict or tell him that hell leave?

2006-10-03 03:36:05 · 11 answers · asked by missluvsharleys 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so he was really crazy bout me and told me it all the time and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me,i met his family and friends , things were going so great then one day he leaves me for another girl that he "likes" and like 2 days later asks this other girl out, do you think he is gonna come running back or what?

2006-10-03 03:35:36 · 12 answers · asked by LiL♥R0CA QT <333 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Who should give more affection? The guy or the girl in the relationship?

2006-10-03 03:35:13 · 4 answers · asked by Jenna S 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 03:34:24 · 13 answers · asked by jking0912 1 in Family

I discovered today that a girl I know is my half sister- we have the same dad. I confirmed my suspicions by saying I know her mum & finding out her mum's name. I don't know if her parents have ever told her about me, but I want to say something to her because she's going to live in Canada, and I really like her. I don't want to upset anybody, so what should I do?

2006-10-03 03:31:35 · 17 answers · asked by Twisty 4 in Other - Family & Relationships