I have not come accross one man that has not cheated. I have been in a committed relationship with my new love for about a month & the more time I spend with him the deeper my feelings get and I can't help but anticipate something bad happening based on what I have already been through. (betrayed, lied to, cheated on).... I am struggling with this fear.
2006-10-03 03:44:24 · 19 answers · asked by akiastatz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are men who don't cheat. My boyfriend and soulmate Tony is one of them. Be careful about your fear because if you let it, it will come between your new love and you. It's all normal to be a little cautious, but don't go overboard and be paranoid about it. There's a risk of being hurt in every relationship. But we take that risk in order to find happiness. So the best thing is to discuss this fear with your partner, let him know that you're scared and of the past experiences that you've had. Communication is the key. Be careful and good luck!
2006-10-03 03:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly tell you, with all sincereity that not all men cheat, just as not all women cheat. I personally have never done so in any relationship. I have been the victim of infidelity and know first hand how much it can affect your outlook on relationships. From trust issues to insecurities. Know that not all relationships are the same, learn from the past and trust will come back. There is always fear of the unknown, but to answer your question, I am a man who doesn't and will not cheat.
2006-10-03 10:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes men do live on this planet that do not cheat. I would caution you, you say your "in a committed relationship with my new love for about a month". Can you really say a relationship is committed after 30 days? I don't think so. Time is the key. Don't rush yourself and don't allow another to rush you. Take things slow and if its real, he will wait. A relationship takes time to build and one cannot be built in a month. Good luck to you and I do hope you find you a good man.
2006-10-03 10:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Charles B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are, you may not have confidence in this new love because of past experiences, but have faith! Think of this person as a clean slate! If you doubt him, talk to him about it. The more in tune you are with each other, the less likely for that sort of thing to happen. So dont worry about it if you can help it,if you cant then talk to him. Im sure you wont have a bad experiance if you do that. Good luck!
2006-10-03 11:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Demosthenes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there always exemption to the rule,me and the father of my son ( cause were not married ) had been thousand miles away from each other for almost a year,but there's no time that he ever cheated on me,i think if you really love someone you will not do anything to hurt him/her.So I can say my partner is one of the guy who don't cheat.I know you can find one one day,maybe its the one you have right now.Goodluck
2006-10-03 10:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by kimy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no there all men are the same and never felling to love with any just have fun and learn to get over them when needed my ex cheated on me more than 10 times and he still is try to be with me hey what the point men jacka**
2006-10-03 10:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never cheated. My ex did. That's why she's my ex. You can live in this fear and keep focusing on it and it will likely create itself in your life. Or you can stop it, and live a life of love and integrity. If it happens... move on. God bless.
2006-10-03 10:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question i have for you is... Where do you go "looking" for men? What kind of men are you pulling to you? Are there girls who don't play games? All these question should help you wake up and pay attention!
2006-10-03 10:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Juliana M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont cheat if i am with a woman it is her only
2006-10-04 09:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ita natural n normal for u feel like dat...time is the only medicine that clears all kinds f scars ...so don't worry..and live happyly.
2006-10-03 10:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋