what do I do to get someone I love so much back. He broke up with me and I feel as if someone told him to, because it happened all of the sudden. Help!!!
2006-10-03 03:43:53 · 14 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darling, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Go ahead and feel hurt and angry and sad for a couple of days then move on and find someone who deserves your beautiful self.
2006-10-03 03:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to help you except by telling you that give it time. He obviously has some issues and you really don't know what is going on with him. He should have given you some sort of reason, but if he didn't - I'm sorry. Try not to let it get to you - someone else may be right around the corner. Good luck!
2006-10-03 10:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him.Honestly approach him and don't go to your friends and ask them to ask him. Go straight to the source. Only he can tell you his feelings.
Be brave. Strong. Even if you are scared, just pretend you are strong. Look at yourself in the mirror and say "I can do this. I am strong." (Even if you don't really feel brave and strong.) Have confidence. (Or pretend, it will come later)
Even if he doesn't get back together with you, you might feel a small boost of self confidence knowing you were able to approach him yourself and talk to him, not just sending one of your friends to do it for you.
Good luck, even though you still love him and he may or may not get back together with you, it won't be long before someone else will notice you and see how pretty and fun you are and you will be happy again! You can do it!
2006-10-03 10:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by 7aliens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing u or anyone can do, the ball is in his court. If someone told him to break up w/u and he does it, then u don't need this follower. He's not a leader. He doesn't have his own thoughts. He goes wherever the wind goes. Get it? He's not a man especially if he didn't even give u the reason. He's got no BALLS.
2006-10-03 10:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel as if someone told him to break up with you. If that's what happened, then you were so insignificant to him that he decided to just do whatever someone else said. If he is willing to do that, then he doesn't care about you. Since he doesn't care about you, stop trying to get him back and let go.
2006-10-03 10:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, people just break up because it's what they want to do. You were left hanging and your ego is hurting. Find something constructive to do to get your mind off this loser. Because that's what this person is. They don't deserve your love and attention - take care of yourself.
2006-10-03 10:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and found out why he owes you that and belive me if it was someone else telling him to and he really loves you he wont be able to stay away. when me and my husband was just dating a family member told him to break up with me and he did but he came back thre weeks later and now we have been married for three years
2006-10-03 10:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by aleym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you and be with you if they don't want to. Just sit down and talk to him and see where things went wrong. If it can't be solved than it may be time for you to move on!
2006-10-03 10:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down first of all; and if he really loves you he'll come back
In the mean time, act like you're not paying any attention to him
2006-10-03 10:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him if someone persuaded him to and if so then its obvious he can't stand on his own and you don't want him any way
2006-10-03 10:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋