CRAZY! I know it's wrong of me to think like this, but sometimes I can't control it! When I call my b/f or text him and he doesn't answer, I start thinking things....he gives me no reason to, but I do it to myself b/c I'm scared! Obviously, I'm acting co-dependent and can't draw my attention elsewhere. Why am I so scared all the time?? I love him and want to trust him but it's just so hard!! Help me!
2006-10-03 03:39:33 · 11 answers · asked by inlovewow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its alright..some people are just like that..just work on it..
Your right on the money about not drawing attention elswhere and being co-dependent..focus on improving those areas..get a hobby something you really enjoy ..If you have more going on in your life that makes you happy you will not be so co-dependent...
don't make yourself distant though...good luck ..time should help too..
2006-10-03 05:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how ya feel i do the same thing...but yeah theres really nothing you can do about it b/c you just have trust issues trust me im the same way but you can build trust so just work on it slowly....
2006-10-03 10:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have reason to trust him, then let it GO, otherwise you will drive him away! But if your gut is telling you something is off, you two need to sit down and talk about it, not in an accusitive way, but be honest.
2006-10-03 10:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to instill a little trust in your boyfriend and be more confident in your relationship
2006-10-03 10:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's that so many people have f*cked you over and you are scared that this guy might do it too.. Trust..
2006-10-03 10:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously have HUGE insecurity and trust issues. I suggest you talk to him about how you feel, and also--since this is really your hang-up--you seek counseling.
2006-10-03 10:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by JerseyGypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional therapy.
2006-10-03 10:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you don't trust him or you are having thoughts about being unfaithful to him!
2006-10-03 10:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just calm down and relax. He's with you!!
2006-10-03 10:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him. have your self happy.
2006-10-03 10:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋