frustrated?
my boyfriend wont have sex with me .. and i like to have sex and i dont want to please myself.. my boyfriend should be pleaseing me and well he wont ... i would give him oral or a hand job and when i do this i get nothing in return ..he would just say he is tired ...we been together for 5 years or longer now and he just kinda stopped ... what am i suppose to think .. is he cheating is he not into me any more ...i ask him if he wants to break up but he still wants to be with me ...
2006-10-03 03:37:47 · 11 answers · asked by nonya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ouch! Shouldn't you be married after 5 years? Did you gain a lot of weight? I'm not trying to be shallow, but guys are very visual. Turn him on and tease him- don't just "service" him when he wants. Hold out and make him want you.
If that doesn't work, see a counselor.
2006-10-03 03:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by chilean_sea_ass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he has a low sex drive, may be it is time for him to visit a doctor. or he is just not into sex. sit down and have a talk with him. it is time. Now if this is more important to you, then you have to move on, But if you feel, that you have invested to much into this relationship, then work on trying to fix it.
2006-10-03 10:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you perform oral on him hop on top. Yes he may be tired but once you get going he will suddenly have energy and you both will be fulfilled.
2006-10-03 10:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!! He is being selfish or he may be cheating! Honey, cut him off! that's not right that he does that to you!!!! doesn't that make you feel horrible inside???? STOP GIVING HIM SEX! If he doesn't want to 'make up' with you then he's probably being unfaithful. You deserve better.
2006-10-03 10:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him for someone who will meet your needs.. Sex is the most important part of a relationship...
2006-10-03 10:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be cheating but next time dont pleasure him if he wont pleasure you and make sure he does it first or he might say he will and then again after say he is to tired
2006-10-03 10:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by aleym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop........ don't lay a finger on him until he asks and make it damn clear that you expect the same!. Don't give in..... he may just realise how selfish he is being.
If he doesn't notice ... time to move on - he doesn't fancy you anymore.!.
2006-10-03 10:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SELF-CENTERED person, He sounds like.
Five years and cuts you off.
You don't need anyone to answer this question-you know the answer.
MOVE ON!
2006-10-03 10:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take him to some specialist may be he's facin some problem that hes not ready to tell or he himself is noy aware of..best of luck..
2006-10-03 10:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy pretty undies.
2006-10-03 10:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by Proud Liberal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋