I was in this relationship for like 3 months and everything was great until we started sleeping together. After the first time he didnt call me or anything. We hung out a couple of times after that but...we were never alone. I got a feeling he didnt want to be with me anymore so we called it quits. I think i Love him. I dont want to let go. Maybe it was because i wasnt on "Supply on Demand" Ya know, I wasnt there when he wanted stuff to happen. I dont know what to do. I know wveryone is going to say "let go" but i have such strong seelings-i just want him to know that...what should i do to try to get him back...I need him.
2006-10-03 03:41:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are right. supply on demand.
2006-10-03 03:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jenna M:
The answer to your question can be found in a line from the oldies song "Everybody Plays the Fool", by "The Main Ingredient", and that lines goes "Falling in love is such an easy thing to do, and there's no guarantee that the one you love is gonna love you".
As you indicate,he started to become distant after you slept together. He "GOT" what he wanted, and then he wanted to move on to the next conquest.
Please remember this ALWAYS! Nothing causes girls / women more pain and agony in their life than the phrase "BUT I LOVE HIM" That means that some women are so needy, so desperate, so lonely, so obsessed with the need to have some male in their life that they will tolerate and endure the most deplorable treatment and abuse. Learn from this experience, and please don't become just another needy, desperate girl.
PS: From the answers you are getting you should be able to pick out the "needy" women from the ones who are not.
2006-10-03 11:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Peedlepup 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay 1st of all you are not in love with me.Human nature is a funny thing.Everybody wants what they cant have and that's why you think you love him. If the shoe was on the other foot and you were ignoring him, then he would chase behind you. So that's what you should do ignore him, don't make time for him. You have to get the upper hand.Make him want you.When you do talk to him,keep it brief.And he is going to start wondering what else could she be doing how come she isn't making time for me?I guarantee you that this is going to work.I did this on by boyfriend and we have been together for 6years!! Good Luck
2006-10-03 10:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you were in a relationship for 3 months; and yall were already sleeping together. Ok, that's what you call not committed. He just wanted to get some from you and then leave you hanging. He probably said the right words to you to make you feel good and then slept with you. Don't talk to him. He's NO GOOD!
2006-10-03 10:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, LET GO...this guy sounds like a jerk. Most guys fall head over heals for a girl...until they sleep with them, then all the mystery and thrill of the hunt is gone, and they lose interest I'm speaking from personal experience, don't waste your time thinking about this guy anymore. You will get hurt in the end. Find a guy who is actually decent...they are out there
2006-10-03 10:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jane D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do need to let it go. Why do you want to be with someone who very obviously does not want to be with you? You cannot MAKE someone want you. In the end you are the only one suffering. Get out there and have some fun and let it go.
2006-10-03 10:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by JerseyGypsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could you love someone that you don't even know that well?three months is not that long and he used you for sex.Let it go and be thankful that someone like him is gone. You can find someone that is worthy of your love. That last guy diffenately wasn't. Don't confuss sex with love either. YOU DO NOT NEED HIM! Good luck
2006-10-03 10:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know what to say did u sleep with him and then thats when he lost interest? if so then he just wanted a piece of ass im sorry to say or how is the situation? how did he stop calling or well paying any attention to u?
2006-10-03 10:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let it go. If after you slept with him he stopped calling than that's all hee wanted from you. You deserve better. You can find someone who will want you for you and not just for sex.
2006-10-03 10:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by mZgRoW*N*sExY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want the relationship to rekindle and ask him what if anything you could do to make that happen. You may have to be the inspiration to make it happen but give it a shot. Dress sexy to that always changes some minds :)
2006-10-03 10:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be brave go and ask him.If he really want to breakup with you,just let go.There are a lot of man which is more gentle and good than him.
2006-10-03 10:46:30 · answer #11 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋