Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

i went through divorce and i am preparing up for my forthcoming marriage. Whomever i meet, they seem to advice me. I am not looking for their advice, all i need is their old friendship in which we freely enjoyed our relation. Nowadays my friendship seems to be extra heavy with my divorce? Everyone seems to be bit negative towards me...Any thoughts why ?

2006-10-03 05:47:41 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 05:47:28 · 13 answers · asked by hog4ubaby 2 in Singles & Dating

Are ur bills tight?? Is ur family happy???

2006-10-03 05:47:09 · 30 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been going out with my bf for 7 months. He shows that he cares about me spends alot of time with me. but i still question if he loves me or not. weird thing is i know he does. i ask myself will he ever love me as he loved his ex- girlfriend. is he going to treat me differently because his ex cheated on him and therefore he might not want to get to serious with me. Its not healthy thinking the way i do but sometimes i cant help it.

2006-10-03 05:46:44 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica R 1 in Singles & Dating

um..
my brother died like a couple months ago! its really hard with out him! he was always here for me and stuff i dont know wat to do with out him! can some one help me!

2006-10-03 05:46:20 · 7 answers · asked by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 in Family

..... how do I give him hints I wanna get married?

2006-10-03 05:46:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whenever my boyfriend calls, I seem to have nothing to say to him. It doesn't make sense because when we're together, it's nonstop talking. I'm 25, he's 29. Can someone give me some simple, yet thought provoking topics to talk about when he calls? Thank you!

2006-10-03 05:45:05 · 11 answers · asked by ~Nick'sWifey~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 05:45:03 · 12 answers · asked by radiancia 6 in Weddings

glass of wine every day before dinner. I never go beyond that.

My 2 year old child watches this and she says that daddy is drinking juice.

So is it OK for me drink before child every day?

2006-10-03 05:44:44 · 16 answers · asked by John 1 in Family

Sean and Jason were in a bar, and they went into the toilet to take a leak.

While standing at the urinal Sean confessed, "I wish I had a dic*k like my cousin James. He needs four fingers to hold his."

Jason looked over and pointed out, "But you're holding yours with four fingers."

"I know," said Sean, "but I'm peeing on three of them."

2006-10-03 05:44:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am worried about my fiance's 8 year old niece. I'm not living with her yet. Her sister and niece live with her for the time being. I'm very concerned about her niece, after a recent conversation with her. My sister-in-law is a 24 year old "career bartender" (c o k e s l u t), and doesn't know who her daughter's father is. She married a guy when she was 18 and he accpeted the little girl as his own, but she cheated on him and they divorced. The little girl calls that guy dad - and he tried to get custody of her with no success. My fiance let them move in with her, for the sake of the niece... but it's not working, because the sister is pretty worthless and disrespectful. Now, my fiance and I are getting married, and expecting a little boy in Feb. So the sister has to move out. I'm afraid of what will happen to the little girl, but need to focus my energy and resources on MY new family. The little girl is well on her way to becoming just like her mom. And it breaks my heart!!! :(

2006-10-03 05:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by Jon M 1 in Family

i dont understand why we need our space he assured me that he isnt talking to anyone.He tells me its just because he feels trapped and he needs some space and time to him self but its so hard to forget about it just like that after being together for almost three years.I need advice in what i should do? Do you think that maybe there could be a chance in us getting back together,has this ever happened to anyone out there? how can u over come this horrible situation? help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-03 05:43:55 · 22 answers · asked by chunkybug2005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know a lot of the time the attitude that white women are stealing black men comes out, but I was curious if any white women felt that way about the many black and spanish speaking women with white men.

2006-10-03 05:43:50 · 11 answers · asked by Nyema 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

for example gifts/places to go/how to express feelings

2006-10-03 05:43:05 · 2 answers · asked by FlossyQ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm seeing this guy who I like alot instantly when I met him. He's been through bad past relationships. His last relationship the girl still calls and wants him back. He doesn't want her back in his life. He wants to move on. She live in a different country.I told him that I like him. And he got scared and ran. Three times!!! He says he has feelings for me but he's scared of relationships. But he's back now. He admit he likes me. We been seeing each other for the past 4 wks. He wants to be friends first. But we're intimate. I only see him 1 time a week. He never calls me during the week. He cooks dinner for me and he been changing in a good way. He seems to be seeing things the way I do about us. I would like to see him more but I know he been through alot in his past relationships. I'm trying to be patient. I don't want to lose what is developing. But I'm also scared. What if he changes and he gets comfortable just being friends? any suggestions to fix this?

2006-10-03 05:42:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some countries have passed laws that say it is wrong for parents to hit or spank their children.

2006-10-03 05:42:06 · 17 answers · asked by bea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

sometimes i heard a person saying she is freakly but that was too much.when is it too much to freakly.tipps pliz

2006-10-03 05:41:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been living common law with my better half for nearly 16 years . In that time my husbands brothers and their wives have had kids and it is only family members that have a wedding liscence that are called aunty .I am called just by my first name and this really hurts. Does anyone else out there have the same problem.

2006-10-03 05:41:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-03 05:41:00 · 13 answers · asked by doris r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 05:40:27 · 19 answers · asked by hog4ubaby 2 in Family

My 15 years old son spent last weekend with me. He went outside to play with the neighbors' kids. Neighbor has a dog who got away trhough the gates by accident and then chased my son. My son ran, jumped over a fence, and then bumped onto another fence and hurt his arm. I moved his arm..it moved..so not broken. It's not swollen, it's not red or blue. It just hurts him. He can't use his left hand to write maybe for a couple of days. I put bengay...then a heat pad. Yesterday he went home and told his dad...dad got upset at me, saying i didn't do anything...hmmm...was I wrong? was I suppose to do something??? if yes, what????

2006-10-03 05:39:45 · 14 answers · asked by Natalie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 05:39:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do you think it is bad for you
or do you think it is good for you
PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR ADVISE!!!!

2006-10-03 05:39:36 · 14 answers · asked by ashley m 1 in Singles & Dating

yesterday i sent a letter to his houe he is stayin at.i put in letter kisses all over with my lipstick marks.and what i feel.i put in lil things like flakes of a candle from my house i liked and piece of our blanket he slept with and other lil things.we was together 2 years and he left me said he didnt want me or love me.im inlove so much with him.i know i need to move on.but i stopped finally callin .after yesterday.nomore for me.i wantto know will he miss me and when he reads the letter will he have reaction to it like happiness or sadness or will he just read it and say oh well i didnt want to lose him.i begged for him to stay with me he said i dont want to be with you.

2006-10-03 05:39:33 · 7 answers · asked by cbutterflyc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, Marriage...what if you have NO physical relationship but a wonderful everything else? What if you are bound to a horrible marriage somehow (children, finances, etc.) and you find someone special? What if you've only been dating for a short while and it hasnt even been established as a committed relationship and you "meet" someone else?

Why is cheating considered a bad thing when so many people do it? Why do men say "its natural primitive instinct" for them to cheat but if they catch their woman in bed with someone else, out comes the shotgun?

I know thats a lot of questions, but Im looking for a lot of different thoughts on this issue. I've been in and seen my friends in all-of-the-above types of relationships and situations and (I won't disclose what choices anyone made) I'm curious what the average person REALLY thinks, beyond religious beliefs and the everyday "never cheat!" responses.

2006-10-03 05:38:57 · 17 answers · asked by Sticky 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 05:38:47 · 2 answers · asked by blueeyes3313 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 05:38:04 · 14 answers · asked by kellybix87 2 in Friends

It's been 3 yrs since we've been married. My husband was an alcoholic which he hid from me b4 marriage. Now he's in AA & attends counselling.However,he still fails to care enough for me.I always get the feeling that he,his friends,his finance come first & I'm somewhere at the bottom on his priority list.I love him too much & am unable to accept this harsh reality. He says he is in AA only bcoz he cares & loves me too,however all his other actions suggest to me that he doesn't love me as much as I do.In a relationship is there always one who is the giver & the other who is a taker ? Should I live with this fact & feel happy that atleast I'm the giver ? I'm unsure if I'm making a big deal out of this, however, I just dont feel loved & cared for enough at the end of the day. Please help with your suggestions !!

2006-10-03 05:38:01 · 30 answers · asked by findinganswers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

boyfriend cheated. i always thought we'd get married. he promised me forever. now hes gone. i still love him. theres no other guys in my life. i dont know how to deal with this. please help

2006-10-03 05:37:20 · 10 answers · asked by curiousandhopefulsearchinglife 3 in Singles & Dating

So I wasted $40 and 2 hours of my life at a bar listening to a random girl blab about her Sociology mid-term while Sean Paul plays for the 30th time on the club system and how she wants to go into marketing when she graduates.

After a $35 dollar cab ride back to my friends apartment we finally go to work on a couch that was previously broke by a hardcore cooler surfing session across the carpet, but I digress. After some mindnumbing dryhumping, I con her out of her undergarments and its time for some strange. Wrong. She preceeds to take my kit and rub it against her bean. Finally she starts to put it in and I can actually enjoy myself. Wrong again. She slides just the tip in and pulls it out. This happens a few more times. She says she doesn't want to have sex. WTF? Its already in there? Eventually she makes a bad decision and I sleeze my way in, but this minor inconvience can get annoying. Why don't they just go for it? Your not a partial whore if only part goes in.

2006-10-03 05:36:55 · 20 answers · asked by aztris 2 in Singles & Dating