i have been going out with my bf for 7 months. He shows that he cares about me spends alot of time with me. but i still question if he loves me or not. weird thing is i know he does. i ask myself will he ever love me as he loved his ex- girlfriend. is he going to treat me differently because his ex cheated on him and therefore he might not want to get to serious with me. Its not healthy thinking the way i do but sometimes i cant help it.
2006-10-03 05:46:44 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know this is really hard, but you have to look at the relationship the two of you have and not let what you THINK is still affecting him from his last relationship overshadow that. if things are good between you and he's not letting the past taint what you have, then the worst thing you can do is project problems that aren't there.
2006-10-03 05:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop being so down on yourself. Why do we as women put some much in to what another person thinks of us? I have learned that when you feel awesome about yourself, others do too. I am a super confident person with a lot going for herself (If I must say so myself) and I could care less what others think of me. Men enjoy women that exude that level of self-confidence.....
You have to set yourself apart from other women. Do not compare your relationship with that of his ex; she is an ex for a reason.
Relish him. Appreciate him. Show him you are hot stuff too!!!!
Seven months in these days and times is nothing to sneeze at. Some guys only want to spend the time during the commercial break of a football game with their girls, let him know that you appreciate him wanting to spend time with you.
Secondly, relax! That can also be a major turn off for him.....lack of confidence.
Good Luck!
2006-10-03 05:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not his ex. He will treat you the way he wants to and if he loves you, which seems like he does, he will treat you well. If you have been together 7months, aren't you serious? Only you can change how you feel about yourself. You just have to get confident that your boyfriends loves you for you and nothing is gonna effect that. Just be yourself and let things happens. Start doing things for yourself that make you happy. YOu can't be thinking about his ex and the only way to do that is to realize that you are not her.
2006-10-03 05:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is my belief that one shouldnt get into relationships until they have a healthy one with themselves. Because of ur low self esteem u are having doubts about u and ur boyfriends relationship, and worst of all u are letting him know it by bringing up his ex girlfriend. I cant tell u the secret to confidence, u have to learn that on ur own. Just know u are special, unique, there is only one of u, and embrace that, thats the best advice I can give.
Love urself first..................................When u love urself, u will tolerate less bullsh*t from people, and stand out as strong.
PS
Do u want ur boyfriend to find that powerful, strong, female that u can be?
2006-10-03 05:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not compare yourself to his ex girlfriend. They are not together for a reason. Guys do not like girls who aren't self-confident. They don't want to keep reassuring you that they love you or that you deserve them. Keep your head up, he wouldn't be with you if he didn't want to be. Make a list of all the good qualities you have, and keep reminding yourself of them! That always help! Wake up everyday telling yourself that you are beautiful, you're smart, you're funny... or whatever you do love about yourself, and in time, you will see and believe that!
But again, do not compare yourself to his ex! He has moved on from her, and has gotten something better... YOU! :)
2006-10-03 05:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to make yourself comfortable is to be open and honest with your boyfriend. Hiding things or letting issues fester will merely allow distrust and insecurity to grow between you. Talk to him about your concerns but make sure you don't accuse him of anything, just tell him you need some reassurance.
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