2006-10-03 05:38:04 · 14 answers · asked by kellybix87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you a single male? Single female? Boyfriend/girlfriend?
It is difficult for single males to get into the Lifestyle because there are allot of single males trying to get in. Many have left couples with bad experiences or are just plain lecherous. Many think it is an easy way to get laid, they find out differently. Many are married men trying to cheat on their wife and thinking that swingers are just a 24/7 orgy and again, it'll be an easy way to get laid. They all are disappointed. It's not that way at all. Swingers just won't have sex with anyone any more than non-swingers will. The same rules of attraction apply.
If you are a single female your odds are better, especially if you are bi, since there are very few single females in the Lifestyle.
I think the difference is, in general, single females are looking for a relationship and single guys are just looking to get laid.
If you are a couple, but not married, you will pretty much be treated the same as a married couple and your chances of hooking-up with someone with mutual attraction is pretty good.
As you can see, swinging is really a couples activity.
Place an ad on one of the swingers dating sites, write a good profile, and email a few couples you are interested in. Good luck.
2006-10-03 08:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about meeting a good couple to swing with you without a big hassle. You have to make sure the people you meet are not caring STDs or anything. And you have to make sure you trust the people first. You don't want to jump into something you are going to have trouble getting out of. So just be careful.
2006-10-03 05:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Waterfairy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, find a couple to swing without a big hassle.. I think you answered your own question. Go on a dating site and look for a couple to swing without a big hassle. But the thing is if you are "swinging" it can't be that big of a hassle because they have a wide open relationship.... Just be prepared for anything good or bad. Hope that helps. Good Luck... Go on myspace.. there's a lot of freaky couples... Someone emailed my sister asking that, but she declined. different strokes for different folks.
2006-10-03 05:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
swinging IS a big hassle
2006-10-03 05:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by giddy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, advertise online. Trade pictures and chat, then meet.
2006-10-03 05:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the point of being married if you're going to swing. I never understood that...but whatever. I know you join myspace.com and in the search menu you can select swingers.
ew, to each his own.
2006-10-03 05:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by WiserAngel 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What about the big hassle of catching AIDS, VD, Fungus Infections, or Herpes?
2006-10-03 05:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Yes there is a way. get your brain checked by a good doctor.
2006-10-03 05:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by Atique 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
a sex news paper you can get it free at the local toy store
2006-10-03 05:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try craigslist.com casual encounters.
Be careful.
2006-10-03 05:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by missourim43 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋