2006-10-03 05:41:00 · 13 answers · asked by doris r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Break up with him now!!!!!
He clearly has anger issures and you shouldn't be still going out with him.
2006-10-03 05:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be submissive to anyone. Get professional help. Were you abused as a child? Do you seek out controling people? Why? You are not inferior. Don't allow anyone to treat you in that manner.
2006-10-03 12:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by George J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still abuses you because you already gave him all the will and power that he needed. It doesn't even matter that you are faithful anymore because he is always going to try to say that you are to make you feel unsecured and like he is going to leave...But really all he is doing is wrapping you around his finger because he knows that you will do anything and everything to try and prove to him that he is wrong....but then again you are giving him more power over yourself and he will use it all so that everything will work his way and his way only. If any questions please ask me. You are your own person don't let some loser try to take over.
2006-10-03 12:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by adriana.shawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abuse you how do you mean physically because if you do thats never ok no matter if your a slut or an angel my man abuses my trust frequently and im a good faithful women i guess people only do to us what we allow so lately ive changed my tune and have been pulling away from him more doing my own thing and letting him see what he will be missing
2006-10-03 12:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by lisaisfunn1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have issues of powerlessness with other people. The Bible and Quran speak of how a wife should submit herself and the husband should treat her with love and respect. Abusing your wife is the same as the husband abusing himself meaning he is angry at himself and needs some psych. counseling.
2006-10-05 11:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by DB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you let them! He doesn't respect you. Don't live with abuse. Get rid of the jerk! He's not worth it.
2006-10-03 12:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they need someone to make them feel good. beating down another makes some feel better about themselves.
You don't deserve that and YOU are doing that to Yourself by staying and allowing him to abuse you.
Love yourself more and get out!
You deserve to be happy and you are worth it
2006-10-03 12:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you aren't supposed to be submissive to them - that only makes them feel they control you and can treat you however they want
2006-10-03 12:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely its because you let them.
Only you can decide what you should or should not tolerate and act accordingly.
2006-10-03 12:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuz its an illness, they need professional help.
2006-10-03 12:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋