Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

I had the date with this guy once. And after that he keeps in touch with me. He calls me and sending me text messages. He is being very inqusitive about my activities. He is asking me every details of where am i or what do i plan for the day. One time when we were talking on the phone, he mentioned that if he knows that i am dating with someone except for him, he will stop dating me. Sounds like he is looking forward for a serious relationship. right? and i told him the same, if i know that he is dating some other girls, i would stop seeing him. he said he understand because he knows that im looking forward for something. that is looking for a husband but i told him that im not on the rush. telling him that right man will come at the right time. even you look or search for him, and he is not the one for you, it will not happen. when i asked him if he is looking for a wife he said no. im confused. what do u think should i do? im starting to like him...

2006-09-30 20:46:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 20:46:15 · 19 answers · asked by lovey t 1 in Friends

No i tried to get him to a counslor but he refuse. I am not a nag. I'm seeking 4 advise. I'm currently saving 2 get out but @ the same time this is MY house & everything is under my name. He sign the quit claim deed meaning he had nothing 2 do with it. I think it is the kids that makes me second guess myself. At the same time I am afraid if i leave my sole property he will not pay the mortgage. I am afraid that my credit will be messed up. I don't want my credit go bad because i know when i am on my own w/ the kids than credit is very important. To get shelter, food, clothing & emergencies. That is 1 reason why i don't want to leave my house. I can sell but my area is not a sellers or buyers market. Everyone else in the area is selling but no one is buying the houses since the prices more than double of what it was worth 4 years ago. I am really hoping that i would get some pretty good answers & not just someone trying to message to get points.

2006-09-30 20:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by smartie2828 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-30 20:44:55 · 10 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

I like Asian women (my reasons are personal,) and I would like to meet a nice one. I'm wondering if anyone can suggest places many of them would "hang out" so my chances would be better (libraries, that sort of thing?) Please don't say bars, my type of women don't go in bars.

2006-09-30 20:44:26 · 13 answers · asked by DragonOni 1 in Singles & Dating

I realize that Asian woman from south Asian lack of taste when it come for white male, why?

2006-09-30 20:43:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone ever been adopted by their grandparents? If so, Have you noticed your raised very strict, almost to strict, that it makes you feel like you can't do anything right, cause what you do is not good enough for your adopted mother? I was a result of a rape, adoped by my grandparents..If anyone has been adopted and feel so alone, and really not
wanted? I would love to have some feed back
please..Thank you..Have you felt you are imprisoned in inviable bars?

2006-09-30 20:39:51 · 7 answers · asked by shea_harriet 2 in Family

what are the things you enjoy talking about

2006-09-30 20:39:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in a long distance relationship, have a stunning gf who does like to party she gets chatted up all the time, she tells me not to worry that she is safe and wouldnt do anything or kiss anyone or go with anyone, but i cant help worrying cos i love her what should i do??

2006-09-30 20:38:36 · 30 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you any ideas for something different apart from the usual domestic stuff. Thanks

2006-09-30 20:36:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in high school? please be honest.
and what are the chances of one finally getting that chance to prove my love to her?

2006-09-30 20:35:00 · 6 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Singles & Dating

I ask some harmless fun questions and they get all rude and nasty. Guys just laugh it off and don't take it seriously. Women get so offended and catty. I think they are just jealous because I'm able to express myself and they are too afraid to so they bash me. Also because I beautiful, sexy, and intelligent too.

They always call another girl a slut even if she isn't. At the same time they are expressing their insecurity about their own sexuality which is usually sleeping with too many guys. I have the guts to be silly, honest, and have a great sense of hurmor all at the same time. I have no problem getting my hands dirty and don't worry about looking good or being girly all of the time. Why are women so serious and jealous all of the time?

I don't like women, they nag and complain too much, it sucks that I happen to be one...

2006-09-30 20:33:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 20:31:45 · 32 answers · asked by Romeo 2 in Singles & Dating

I just spent all night talking with a guy, laughing, dancing. Then he just took off when the bar closed like, "nice to meet you." There was no real groping or making out going on, so I don't think it was a sex thing entirely. He was even in to me enough that when I talked to another guy too long he was commenting to my friend that he guessed that I wasn't "into him". What is up with this? I totally was into him. Now I'm going home smelling like his cologne for no reason. Help me guys!

2006-09-30 20:27:34 · 20 answers · asked by babyred 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother can be pretty violent with me, not often, but it does happen. Nothing too big of a deal either.. I probably deserve it, or at least provoked it. He is very strong, and has a horrible temper, but is truly a good person. Yes, it can be scary because he is around 6'1, and is very muscular and I’m about 5'4-5'5 and 97lbs. But I bring it onto myself. I should know when to get away, but I stay.
It has happened every now and then since I was little but just this last summer I visited some friends for a few weeks (I live in a different state & am going to college) and was at his house, I don’t really know why but he flipped out on me because he said I hadn’t spend enough time with him while I was there. He just threw me down the stairs, then against the door and started chocking me. Anyway it’s a long story, but what would you recommend I do when this happens? I have told my parents when I was younger, but they say it's my fault.
Oh, and I'm 19.

2006-09-30 20:26:25 · 24 answers · asked by jen 1 in Family

2 diffrent boys want 2 go out with me i like both of them but i dont know who i want 2 be with. 1 is very sweet, but not cute, and the otha is popular and wil make me look good if i go out with them, which do u think would be betta me? popular boy, or not so popular boy!!!!!????

2006-09-30 20:25:04 · 15 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in 6 days and at first I understood that my family and my friends weren't going to be able to attend the wedding due to the location. But the more i think about it the more pissed i get and hurt. I am fron Ohio and I move to Canada with my fiance (been together for 4 years) It is an 6 hour drive. And I just can't get over the fact that my own parents refuse to drive 6 hours to see their oldest daughter get married but will drive 2 days to go to some freaking church crap or some other event . Who knows .. I am trying ot be okay with it but I just can't shake this feeling of resentment for them. Even my best friends whom I have known since grade school aren't coming. I had to ask my soon to be sister in law to be my maid of honor cause my friends aren't coming to the wedding. I keep thinking back on all the crap I have done for them and never once ask for anything from them and now when I need the the most they can't do it .. Am I allowed to be PISSED at them ???

2006-09-30 20:24:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-30 20:23:45 · 5 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1 in Singles & Dating

I have acquired highest education in my country (Ph.D). but it is not enough that i feel happy and enjoy my life because degrees can not satisfy my soul and other requirements. thanks.

2006-09-30 20:23:25 · 32 answers · asked by banyamin12 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 20:23:13 · 15 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Weddings

I am sure at some point you have seen those pictures of women at hen parties or bachlorette parties stoking and blowing male strippers.

Have you ever seen something like that happen at a party? If so do the strippers ever finish?

2006-09-30 20:21:44 · 3 answers · asked by calidzyner 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in grade 8 and 14 and i luv this guy once i was a loner and i was being builled and this lady asked if i want to come with her to get away from thues bullys and she ook me to a hall to watch a vollyball match and asked if i know her son ( my crush) and showed me and said dont u reakcen he handsome and cute and i said nope and she
before that she said do u know my son and i said yah i mean no and she pointedto him and then i went to my class woundring what was that all about ? does that mean he likes me or really wishws i was dead or just plan hates me loads i am not popular he is he is in the same grade as me but not in the same class i startsed crushing on him half way last year then this year i had from a small crush to a maga maga crush i am confused

2006-09-30 20:20:34 · 3 answers · asked by Kara L 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend have nicknames like roxy and candy but they just calll me bri!

2006-09-30 20:20:10 · 6 answers · asked by brianne (: 1 in Friends

would like to be on the wed to do my faliy tree but i cant afford to pay for

2006-09-30 20:18:47 · 4 answers · asked by roscoe2penny 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-30 20:17:18 · 11 answers · asked by dragonslayer_141 1 in Singles & Dating

Not to mention out of dating scene for several years, and get the jitters talking to women. Ladies are too dam cute anymore...

2006-09-30 20:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by dogowner 2 in Singles & Dating

I know it sounds bad,but this guy is perfect in my eyes. They say love is blind and this guy blinds me. He says "be prepared cause I'm going to break your heart someday". Yet in the next breath he'll call me his girl, We've been seeing eachother for almost 5 monthsand in the beginning he said we'd be friends with benefits and since I had a crush on this guy for months before this I was willing to be anything as long as I could be close to him. Time went on and I am starting to fall for him. When I bring anything up about us and our relationship all as he says is "we're friends with benefits." Sometimes I think I should be the first to end things yet I'm afraid I would regret it cause I do have stronng feelings for him. Another part of me says hold on to him for as long as you can and maybe his feelings will change. What would you do in this situation?

2006-09-30 20:17:09 · 22 answers · asked by kd 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 20:17:06 · 1 answers · asked by K_D 1 in Family

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. how do I get her to tell me the truth if I ask her? any other way to find out?

2006-09-30 20:15:19 · 9 answers · asked by dustinr91 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 20:14:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce