Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

i had this girlfriend for 3+ years and we broke up. i wanna go back out with her and we went out for 3days, and then she broke up with me again. i love this girl to death. she says she loves me, but she like to be single.....what do you think i could do to prove to her that i love her and that i would do anything for her, like yeah what should i do? its so confusing!!!!!

2006-09-30 19:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by mixed_wolf 2 in Singles & Dating

telling a girl that u love her if u were unsure of how she felt about u?

2006-09-30 19:18:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very unhappy in my marriage. I believe it is because my husband is so selfish. He expects so much from me and gives little to nothing in return. The only time he pays any attention to me is when he wants sex. Anytime I try to talk to him about anything, even day to day conversation, he gets a blank look on his face or simply walks away. Makes me feel like whatever I have to say is unimportant and not worth listening to.
We recently moved to another state where financial things were supposed to be improved, he lied about everything to me. Told me it would be better because he had a job lined up, housing and bills cheaper and his family to help with childcare. Every one of those turned out to be untrue.
I also have a son (not his) that he doesn't even try to bond with. He treats him like hired help. It hurts me to see all this and my husband not even care.
I want to leave him, but not hurt my kids. What is the right thing to do?

2006-09-30 19:17:56 · 27 answers · asked by Lynn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-30 19:17:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've lied to him alot abt me...i want to tell him eveything but i'm scared of loosin him....i dont want to loose him...we are not datin each oda but juss tht we know tht we love eachoda and cant stay widoda each oda...

2006-09-30 19:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help me, I kinda have problems in loosing my possesions cause last friday i lost my scientific calculator in school which was very expensive, I keep on blaming myself and I got grounded by my parent's. I was so careless they say, for now it's my problem on how to find it. could you give me any advices on how i start finding it and what is the proper way to do so i will never loose any of my things again.

2006-09-30 19:17:23 · 3 answers · asked by MarkAngelo 2 in Family

2006-09-30 19:16:35 · 15 answers · asked by BACTERIA RETURNS 1 in Family

Okay my boyfriend have been home for almost 2 months and don't have a job I feel like he isn't trying all he want to do is hang out with his friends, and play basketball today he called and I told him I found a job he said that's good but it didn't seem like he meant it so I said yea right then he got mad and hung up and said he will call me lata but never did he's always hunging up on me when things don't go his way I have a feeling he's cheating but I have my career plan and if he is that's okay I will be hurt but I don't need him to be bringing me down because he can't find a job or get his life together I need to tell him that he's not putting 100% into his life what he wants to do should I just forget about him or try to fix it I really love and care about him and he was my first

2006-09-30 19:16:32 · 4 answers · asked by Scooby_doo06 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

whatever i see, whatever i do... reminds me of him.. he's my collegue.. knew him for 5 months...seriously i'd never ever had a bf before.... but this guy made me so happy and the thought about him made me smile and i dunno how to express the feelings.... pls help me how to tell him that... he's my good friend

2006-09-30 19:14:15 · 5 answers · asked by Nalz 1 in Weddings

2006-09-30 19:14:04 · 13 answers · asked by GOBINDA S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is its shape
funny and make you laugh on man
or it is sexy turn you on
or it is gross and turn you off
do you find it beautiful shape or ugly?
or it is not important to you

2006-09-30 19:12:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 19:11:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for a year. We have been having a few problems lately, but for the most part I love him and I think he loves me. But, we live together and he says he is not ready to get married. I can't continue to live like this because it makes me feel really uncomfortable. We don't have sex anymore. I don't want to just make him leave tomorrow because I'll be putting him out in the streets. I care too much about him. But, I am hurting because I don't feel like we want the same. How do I tell him that we need to separate and make sure that it happens in a timely manner. Help me with suggestions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-30 19:11:27 · 23 answers · asked by destinyone 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to improve my English langauge, can any one help me
is there any one can talk to me on the msg to improve my English

2006-09-30 19:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by Cinderella 3 in Friends

why, i always do everything for this person, and i just cant trust him, he says its me that am imagining things, and when i want to ask him to clear my doubts, he never lets me talk and walks away.

2006-09-30 19:10:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I belieive my husband is cheating. we have been married for 1 year and been together for 10. we have been seperated for 3 months now and i'm not sure why. he gives me all sort of reasons but i dont beleive them. He still comes around and calls. He gives me money. He tells me all the time that he loves me. I'm not sure what to do about this. He wont admit to it. I work and go to school full time and I have been concentrating on just that and my kids. But it hurts becasue I am suppose to have a life with him and he is not there most of the time. Yesterday he took me to the movies and out to eat. But its just not enough I need him there with me and the kids. I need him to be faithful to me. what Do I do. Just continue like this. I love this man to death but i'm tired of my feelings being played with. So what do you think. am I the only that feels this way. I feel so alone sometimes. I trully need help.

2006-09-30 19:08:39 · 18 answers · asked by prettywomen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-30 19:07:44 · 8 answers · asked by M J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband cheated on me awhile back and I found out, he said he was sorry and it would never happen again, I am trying so hard to move on and fogive him , but I found *** in his underwear again tonight, and its starting to piss me off , you see he hardly ever touches me , says he is tired because he works so much, and when he gets the chance and im not around that he jacks off, what am I just plain stupid or am I smart for looking at his underwear

2006-09-30 19:07:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-30 19:05:26 · 12 answers · asked by BACTERIA RETURNS 1 in Weddings

2006-09-30 19:04:53 · 17 answers · asked by lucky k 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone notice that when dudes are in their trunks and they swim that when we get out the trunks seem to get suctioned to our penis. Am i the only one has this happen.

Also do any of u girls ever notice this. If so what are your thoughts.

2006-09-30 19:04:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My relative is very charming , sociable and has completed her management education., after doing advanced course in English Literature. She is in her late twenties and is from a good educated Hindu family. But she is somewhat overweight. She is also well employed and earning a fairly good salary.Nowadays , it seems, all qualities become secondary to a girl being ' tall & slim'. Her parents are getting really worried as they would definitely like to see her married and settled ,reasonably well.
Suggestions / advice / proposals are welcome , with details. Thanx.

2006-09-30 19:04:19 · 21 answers · asked by friend 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is 100% serious. I can find anyone online and I finally found papa after ten years of searching since mama gave me his name.

I really love/hate him, if you know adoptees you'll understand. I want to be like him and to kill him, but first I have to find out more about him.

I've found out the incident involved him drunkenly exposing himself to a underaged teenage employee at a department store. He served a few days of a 90 day sentance. The judge told him to get a job, so at around 60 he's still a huge loser.

But it's his fault mama couldn't keep me, and he never wanted anything to do with me or her, and his family told him to keep her away from them once she got pregnant. How messed up is that?

How can I be a good person, and I am, when my parents are such monsters? And how can I relate to them?

2006-09-30 19:03:16 · 9 answers · asked by filosoof 1 in Family

I asked this question before but too many people denied that this is true. Give it up, you know you have poop stains in your pants. A real man does anyway. Now my more 'prissy' boyfriends didn't.

My boyfriend now wipes his butt until the tissue is all white. But even he gets stains once in a while. I don't know why because I only get white stains from my poodie. I wore a white thong before and still didn't have any poop stains.

I think married men have the most, most of the older ladies I talk to have husbands that leave poopie stains; yes I ask questions like this. My brother, brother in law. Just admit it!!! Are there any women that get poopie stains? Please ladies, be honest, I'm trying to figure it out.

2006-09-30 19:03:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I have been with a lot of girls. I'll just be honest about that. I'm in college and there's just a lot of (safe) sex at my school. It's just the way it is. I've always liked girls and always will. I'm also very uninhibited sexually, meaning I'll try most anything once. BUT, I was recently in a "situation" with 3 girls and 1 other guy. That was all fine with me until the guy made the moves on ME down below. Being the selfish person I am, I just let him go for it, but also kept my focus on other things. Now this guy has mentioned this past week that we should get our group together again. This really is NOT my thing, assuming he may once again have his attention towards me at some point. I don't think he expects anything in return. But, this seems like I'm asking for trouble if I let anything like that happen again with him. I'm just in a awkward situation now because I was selfish at the time for letting something happen. (Let's just say he did a good job). Advice?

2006-09-30 19:02:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a week ago i was mis behaving so my mom got a belt and hit my thigh with it and left a welt on my leg then the next day i was bad again so she might say i can liv with my dad since she cant handle me n she hit me with the belt again twice on tha shoulder then on the leg then on my foot then on my a$$ and im only 12 yrs old and im terrified that 1 day my mom iz jus gunna hit me n hurt me sooo bad that im gunn get hurt reallllly bad......what do i do? and she is abusing me right?

2006-09-30 19:02:04 · 27 answers · asked by lovable angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean ive dated girls ive met at clubs and stuff...but they r all kinda the same...and it always seems like the nicer...umm more wholesome i guess is the word girls are clung to some d*ckhead that thinks hes sweet...and dont get me wrong...i mean ive got alot goin for me...im about to graduate college in december...but where is a good place to meet someone like that as oppose to the kinda girls at clubs and bars??

2006-09-30 18:59:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for $1,000,000,000?Me,well huh,probley almost anything.Best insane thing i read will get the pts! And if you are a wana be and pretend and say,"i already have that",folks i feel really fuking sorry for ya,cause if i had that i sure as hell wouldn't be doing this right now.**** i'd be doing a nice looking women,and alot of c________!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh well yeah fukinin yeah i'm boerd to,and *** spell ckeck,have a great day or night whatever it's where you're at=)

2006-09-30 18:59:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this friend who i am planning on asking out for the second time. i asked her out already last january and she said no but wanted to be friends. the weird thing is since then we sort of go on dates. i mean we go to dinner, movies, ballgames, and even picnics alone. i wanna know WHAT ARE WE DOING?is this dating? when we go i say "wanna hang out" how should i ask her so she gets the idea that my intentions are more romantic? do you think her feelings have changed since i last asked her out?

2006-09-30 18:59:19 · 6 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

A Girl who sleeps with her sisters boyfriend and then the boyfriends brother. Then she says shes pregnant and tells the boyfriends brother.

But she has had the baby and is now with her sisters boyfriend.

Who's really the daddy?

2006-09-30 18:57:58 · 17 answers · asked by manikred 1 in Other - Family & Relationships