i've lied to him alot abt me...i want to tell him eveything but i'm scared of loosin him....i dont want to loose him...we are not datin each oda but juss tht we know tht we love eachoda and cant stay widoda each oda...
2006-09-30 19:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Brace yourself and tell him the truth. If you love each other, this storm will pass...and maybe the rain will make things even prettier.
(Sorry, late nights I'm more poetic....)
2006-09-30 19:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell him anything. It will only hurt him and there is no sense in that. Just don't do bad things anymore. If your really sorry then it won't happen anymore. If he finds out, that's a different story. I think as hard as it may be, you need to tell the truth if he finds out you have lied to him. But I wouldn't say anything unless he found out. If you confess something, it is only to try to make yourself feel better, which is a selfish act when it hurts someone else. As time passes, you will feel less guilty and things will get better. Good luck.
2006-10-01 02:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave out the crack ***** part if I were you, that probably won't fly too good no? Just kidding, I think. If you don't think he will find out any of these things on his own, then let it be. He doesn't want to know, and if you tell him about anything you are ashamed of, you can kiss him bye. 98% of guys would rather not hear about a girl's sexual past. This is your guilt. Don't make it your guy's problem, too.
2006-10-01 02:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u both like each other n love, there's no such thing as losing. He may feel bad for some days but if he really loves u, he will respect you for telling him the truth. And then, u can live happily with him. Love wins! All the best.
2006-10-01 02:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by komal d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel guilty--rather speak the truth---as I feel it.As she loves you --I am sure she can understand your difficulties--why you lied to her.I am sure you will not loose her.Because from your writing it seems that you love her too much.And she also.So ask her to meet alone and get enough time to speak the truth--so that you both can share and comfort eachother.I am sure you will win her totally.Best of luck.God bless you.
2006-10-01 02:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies don't get you anywhere. A dictionary might help though. Tell the truth and if the truth hurts and he leaves, then it wasn't a good relationship anyway.
2006-10-01 02:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Fartbuster 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him truth, nothing will happen wrong, just say him sorry and it will not happen again.
truth is always truth and it woudnt heart him if u tell him , but if he will get all truth about you from others it will heart him too much.
2006-10-01 02:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by ARNY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him what youve been hiding, im sure he wont mind THAT much if he really loves you
plus relationship is all about trust right? =)
2006-10-01 02:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by BABBYK 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you truly loved him , you wouldn't have been lieing to him from the beginning . but its time to come clean and be honest , no matter what the outcome............good luck to you , i hope all will be well
2006-10-01 02:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by sindi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just prommis him sex and say every thing u want to say
2006-10-01 02:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋