telling a girl that u love her if u were unsure of how she felt about u?
2006-09-30 19:18:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont love her just for sex. im thinkin about marriage either though. i just know that i love her and im not sure if i should tell her cuz im not sure if she even feels anything for me.
2006-09-30 19:32:42 · update #1
i meant that im NOT thinkin about marriage
2006-09-30 19:33:45 · update #2
A guy who wants to use the "L" word! I admire that! I sure wish I was in her shoes now, as the average guy hates verbal affection. If you feel nervous about telling her just yet, buy her a rose or some kind of flower.
I'd go for it, and if she wants to be with you, she won't dump you for it, and if she does, then there wasn't really anything there. But wait until you been together for some months first, for safety. But she may not be upset with you. Or, you can do like the other poster advise, and see how she feels about you first!
Good Luck, dude! ;-)
2006-09-30 19:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't the romantic answer but sometimes telling a girl you love her when she is uncertain of her own feelings may driver her away. Remember actions speak louder than words, SHOW her how you feel. Please don't be her puppy dog by following her around and obeying her every command. Instead keep things light, fun and interesting. Don't be afraid to be a little mysterious or playfully challenging. Through in some romance when she least expects using it as a spice not the main ingredient. If you do this well she will reveal her feelings to you and that's when you can lay on the mushy stuff.
2006-10-01 02:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for a walk, hold her hand, kiss it lightly then tell her you really like her, or love her. See how she responds. There are many risks one takes in a life time. Take that risk. Remember it is better to have loved than to have never loved at all. Love makes the world go 'round. Girls respond to love and romance. This is how my husband told me he loved me, and we ended up getting married. He wasn't sure if I loved him the same way, but I did, and we had the best marriage until he got cancer and died. I miss him, and will always love him. Go for it and good luck.
2006-10-01 02:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by bobbie e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definantly tell her b/c if you dont you could lose her & u will spend the rest of your life wondering what could have/would have been....if she doesnt return the feeling or says to slow down respect her wishes & keep yor head up...someone will come along
2006-10-01 02:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you care, but at the same time be prepared to get your feelings hurt. After all, nothing ventured -- nothing gained!
2006-10-01 02:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by waytooeasy67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good to show how you feel, but if it's only been like a month I would say hold off a bit
2006-10-01 02:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the sittuation..
2006-10-01 02:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by dogowner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her then yes I hope you mean for marraige not just sex ?
2006-10-01 02:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you've known her... and be sure to differentiate between love and lust. :)
2006-10-01 02:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. Why bother.
2006-10-01 02:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋