Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

I am really at a loss here. I know soo many guys. I flirt with a lot of them. I have people (guys and girls) telling me that i am pretty, but i am really having difficulty getting a boyfriend. I cant get any guys to see me in that way. So what can i do? How do i get guys to notice as more than just a friend?

Please nothing gross. I am talking about indirect things.

2006-09-30 19:48:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats wrong with us?
as far as i can tell, we're stable, we're loyal. we're faithful.
divorce rates are the lowest in asian countries and cultures. and
asian guys treat their women like goddesses. why? whats wrong with us then?

2006-09-30 19:47:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 19:44:50 · 22 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

im sorta goin out wit this guy but i dont really like him that much....he really likes me and well he was kinda a rebound..he asked me out a couple of dayz after i broke up wit my bf..he knew this..i dont know how to dump him without hurting his feelinz..i still wanna be matez afta wardz but i dont think he will.,.can u help??!

2006-09-30 19:44:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend dont' talk much...but all of a sudden he is talking to me and calling me babe...next thing u know he wants to walk me to school...what is up with him he is so different...is he drunk??

2006-09-30 19:43:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 19:42:16 · 5 answers · asked by bekham 1 in Friends

2006-09-30 19:42:15 · 30 answers · asked by person 1 in Family

My boyfriend and i are deeply in love...but when ever we have sex it's less than a minute.... He's getting really bumbed out about it and i told him that it's fine, we'll get through this...we are a very strong couple...I sugested that we put off sex...because there might be too much pressure or nerves, for im his first sexual partner....I want him to be totally comfortable.....is there anything i can do to help him??

2006-09-30 19:41:21 · 24 answers · asked by Jvana 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok say there is someone that wants to leave a really nasty, unhealthy relationship but they have looked everywhere for a job including jobs like McDonalds, Pizza Hut, and Blockbuster and they didn't even call back. They applied to dozens and dozens of jobs but could not get hired. Why? Don't know. Could be lack of experience and professional references. They haven't worked for several years because of raising kids then not being able to find a job. After months of rejection from even lowly places like fast food and imimum wage jobs they can't take it anymore.They wanted to get a job then get their own place to live but can't do that without a job. There is no where else to go. There is 1 set of relatives but they are super controlling and were abusive. (Girls from abused relationships have tendencies to unintentionally get in new abusive relationships). So is someone in this situation doomed to be trapped for life or is there anything else? Children are involved or she would live incar

2006-09-30 19:41:19 · 19 answers · asked by BereaGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He insists on only wearing two or three things and tearing them up all the time. We have a neighbor who assumes I don't even buy him anything and just buy for me! It hurts, but it hurts more that I want to groom him nicely and he will let me for events and stuff but not at home.... Two of our children have commented on it and they dress nicely all the time partly because they think it's wrong he doesn't, it seems.

So guys...? Why do you not want to dress neatly and comfortably? Or is it just my guy?

2006-09-30 19:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by *babydoll* 6 in Family

2006-09-30 19:38:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what to do. My boyfriend, was cheating on me and now dumped me for the same girl. I love him so much, and he says he still loves me. I want to be there when this, "girl" break his heart, but it kills me to see them together. We have remained friends. I don't know if i shuold just go, and leave, and make him figure **** on his own, or if i should, just, stay by his side. I love him more then i love anything else, but God, and because of it i'm torn in two. My heart says stary and my mind says leave. I don't know if i can move on. Please help me. Please!!!

2006-09-30 19:38:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 19:36:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 19:35:48 · 11 answers · asked by roscoe2penny 2 in Singles & Dating

I am totally miffed by this one and I really don't know if this is a common occurance...but there is this woman I have been dating a few times now and been with constant telehpone conversations with almost nightly. Well, last I talked with her was on Thur night when she was just heading into the gym and she was going to call me back after she got out of there. Well, she wasn't distant or acting strange at all while talking and in fact seemed in a good mood....well it is now Saturday night and she hasn't returned my calls I made on Friday night and this afternoon. Is this a sign that she is done with me or am I looking into it too much ...it just seems weird after talking everyday she can shut me off just like that...when all I have done in that time was leave a message on getting together possible tonight or Saturday...im confused here and very upset

2006-09-30 19:35:43 · 16 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Singles & Dating

why?
whats wrong with us?
we're loving, good, clean, stable jobs, maybe a little dull and predictable, but stability is there. isnt that what matters? loyalty, stability, faithfulness?

2006-09-30 19:33:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 19:32:13 · 16 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 10 years, we are best friends, and we have 2 sons. The problem I am having all these years later is stability. My husband got a really good job over a year ago. We ended up fufilling our dream of moving out to the country and building a home. We put all of our savings into our new home and land. A month after we move in, my husband gets fired from his job for a positive drug test. He had sworn to me before that he had quit smoking pot and would never risk his career for it. He has been out of work for 6 months now and we are $50,000 in debt with credit cards and loans. My husband continues to go out and party with these people he was doing drugs with before, and sometimes he lets them stay over. I am a full time college student working towards 2 degrees and I cannot go out and work. I am worried that he just might not be the one for me anymore. I love him and he is good to me, but I need someone stable in my life. Any suggestions?

2006-09-30 19:31:58 · 12 answers · asked by lovetolove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

guys are just as confusing as girls and maybe even more. so what are the signs that he does like you more than a friend?

2006-09-30 19:29:42 · 15 answers · asked by Danielle W 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl in two of my classes, and we sit by each other in one of them. We talk before/after class sometimes, I am not entirely sure if she likes me like I like her, but she looks at me every now and then. But I would like to ask her out somewhere outside of school or for her #, but I am not sure how she feels about me and I dont know how to take it there exactly....can someone help me out w/ advice??

2006-09-30 19:28:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as u term it, the yellow fever?

2006-09-30 19:27:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 19:26:56 · 20 answers · asked by goodbye♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex girlfriend just told me that she would like to have sex with me when i come back home. when we were dating nothing ever happen between us i guess it just was a bad time for us. but know its sounds like if she wants to try me out. the thing is she has a boyfriend but she said that she can keep a scecret. so what would you do and be honest.

2006-09-30 19:26:48 · 12 answers · asked by leo 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl that gos to my school, me and her are friends and she alredy knows that i like her but she sead she dident want to go out. whenever we talk i get the feeling she likes me to so i dont see why she duzent want to go out. what am i doing rong?

2006-09-30 19:26:06 · 8 answers · asked by LostandConfused 2 in Singles & Dating

I've filed for divorce and I'm wondering what to do with my ring. I really enjoy my ring but won't wear it anymore. How about his? Does he keep his?

2006-09-30 19:25:21 · 16 answers · asked by delightfullyblended 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a problem. my ex fiance is trying to get back with me but i am talking to someone else. my ex knows about the other person i am talking to, but the person i am talking to doesnt know about my ex. i need help quick they both are coming home this month and they both want to get with me badly. i still have a little bit of feelings for my ex and i am not sure how i feel about the other guy cuz i havent seen him in 2 years.

this question is for me

2006-09-30 19:25:01 · 13 answers · asked by crazygurlizsexy 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok my friend was like so you want to see em and I'm yeah just dont tell my gf. So she took her top off and while I'm looking and touching her mom walked in and yelled "Oh my god get the hell out of her" So I left now what should I do? Oh by the way we are in our late teens.

2006-09-30 19:21:18 · 18 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

ill tell yall why i ask that after i get 10 answers

2006-09-30 19:21:05 · 32 answers · asked by spades c 1 in Singles & Dating

we fight bout everything but she make it seem like its always me and it aint it takes to we live so far away and we talk and **** but it always winds up into an argument

2006-09-30 19:20:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you tell your boyfriend that he's unappreciating you when he's just going to yell at you in the end and get all pissed off at your opinions?? Because he thinks that whatever you think or say is wrong??

2006-09-30 19:19:57 · 22 answers · asked by bratworth 2 in Singles & Dating