i have a problem. my ex fiance is trying to get back with me but i am talking to someone else. my ex knows about the other person i am talking to, but the person i am talking to doesnt know about my ex. i need help quick they both are coming home this month and they both want to get with me badly. i still have a little bit of feelings for my ex and i am not sure how i feel about the other guy cuz i havent seen him in 2 years.
this question is for me
2006-09-30 19:25:01 · 13 answers · asked by crazygurlizsexy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see how you feel with each guy....it's your life that is involved here and you really have to look out for yourself...since this is the time in your life when you need to be thinking about how or who you will be spending your time....try to pull back and just observe each guy and his behavior toward you like you would look if the guy was interested in someone who you love...like a sister or daughter...somewhat withdrawn and from that point of view see which one is most "right" for you at this point in time....remember that there might be someone else that comes along that will eliminate both of these guys as potential marriage partners....
2006-09-30 19:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings for a previous bf why are you seeking a new bf? It sounds like you want a monogomous relationship with one guy. Is the ex-bf really an ex? You need to make up your mind whether the Ex is an Ex or not. If not, then don't start looking elsewhere.
2006-10-01 02:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by penquin44240 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there's a committment involved, why do either of them need to be told anything about each other. Okay, so your ex knows; does that mean you still answer to him? You say you have feelings for you ex, and that you're Talking to this other guy. Doesn't sound like anything too serious, just tell both that you're seeing other people & that's all they need to know.
2006-10-01 02:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason your ex is your ex. Leave it that way....If you broke up with him you'll do it again.....if he broke up with you he'll do it again.....if his "stuff" was just so good you got to have it one more time then you will have to tell the other guy about him.....if not leave him alone and tell the other guy that your crazy ex won't leave you alone that way if he does come back knocking on your door when he's there it won't look like you're cheating
2006-10-01 02:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by kim 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to calm down and close your eyes to think about both of them.
Make a list of what you like and dislike about them.
See them and tell them you need some time, don't tell them about the other guy, let them believe there's just one of them but tell them it's confused in your head and you need some time to think.
That way after you saw both of them you can make your decision
Good luck !
2006-10-01 02:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by BleedingAngelSecretWounds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice for you is that you should be honest with your ex fiance
and tell him the truth that you've moved on and that you are currently dating someone already
2006-10-01 02:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell yr ex. u have moved on/found someone new, and u 2 can just be friends
2006-10-01 02:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the other guy about your ex
2006-10-01 02:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by John K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give yourself to any of them, they have both been gone, and so just be friends, and be smarter, please or you will be hurt...your ex- is and ex for some reason...don't give another chance..
2006-10-01 02:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the new fella about your ex or else dump them both
2006-10-01 02:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋