theres this girl in two of my classes, and we sit by each other in one of them. We talk before/after class sometimes, I am not entirely sure if she likes me like I like her, but she looks at me every now and then. But I would like to ask her out somewhere outside of school or for her #, but I am not sure how she feels about me and I dont know how to take it there exactly....can someone help me out w/ advice??
2006-09-30 19:28:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try not to stress over it too much or make it too much a a "romantic" thing or a "who likes who" type of thing. There is so much pressure nowadays for things to have to be that way. Just talk to her as often as possible, genuinely and casually, and be yourself.... that way she can get to know you a bit more and not feel like you're just another guy who is trying to hit on her. And in getting to know her a little more, you too can decide for yourself if you're even interested in her as much as you think you are now. You should play it out long enough in the beginning - you want to get to know each other a little better and let her see what a great guy you are - but you'll have to judge when is too long - or else she's liable to see you as only friend material. If and when you do decide to ask her out, she may be more likely to say yes if it sounds like a situation where there's not too much expectations (for instance, if you ask her out for coffee or to study together or to some daytime event, as opposed to "dinner and a movie"). If she is attracted to you, she'll be glad you asked her and say yes to pretty much anything you ask her out to, but if she's not and you just go out as friends, there is still the chance that she may become attracted to you through getting to know you more... But if you start out by asking her out with a romantic implication first, you're taking that risk of guessing that she's attracted to you - and if she's not, you lose any further opportunity. Good luck.
2006-09-30 20:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Angelwings 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can't decide how everybody feels, so you should only care about what you feel. If you like this girl, simply ask her for her number DURING school. Never wait for the perfect time, because there is never one. After she gives it to you, ALWAYS take time to talk to her and make her feel important. That way, you will gain her admiration, and plus your relationship with her will go a few steps faster.
2006-10-01 02:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the girl then you should go up to her and tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way about and then also see if you guys have the same things in common then the chemistry should build from there.
2006-10-01 02:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is Get To Know Her......the better you get to know her first the more comfortable the both of you will be when you ask her...and by getting to know her better you will know if shes really what your looking for in a date!
2006-10-01 02:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by jlp165 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and ask her if she would like to go out with you sometime. thats the only way to find out if she likes you .and if you want to impress her send her some roses to school and she would think you was sweet and wouldnt pass up the offer of wanting to go out with you. only thing you need to do is be confindent in your self. and she will respect you.
2006-10-01 02:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write in a piece of paper your phone number and ask her to call you you need some help for homework
2006-10-01 02:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by dancingwiththestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pop the collars up on your lacoste and pour your heart out.
2006-10-01 02:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by idunno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. find out, talk to her friends, get to know her more then see if she likes you too =)
2006-10-01 02:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by BABBYK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her after school, or if u ever get her phone #, its that simple
2006-10-01 02:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expose yourself to her and wink.
2006-10-01 02:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Sheriff Leane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋