My boyfriend and i are deeply in love...but when ever we have sex it's less than a minute.... He's getting really bumbed out about it and i told him that it's fine, we'll get through this...we are a very strong couple...I sugested that we put off sex...because there might be too much pressure or nerves, for im his first sexual partner....I want him to be totally comfortable.....is there anything i can do to help him??
2006-09-30 19:41:21 · 24 answers · asked by Jvana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have had previous troubles with him getting hard.. it was related to masterbation, and the loss of sensitivity down there...so he stopped...he got hard, we "assumed the position"....no movement or nothing we were just getting comfortable.. he came. We normaly just stick to fore play. I never get done..im too hard to do, but its not like i dont get attention..Then he gets off but im still in the mood and he's not the rest of the night.....that's the problem with him jacking off before we have sex, like some people have suggested....He's worried that im going to leave him, im not.... I'm willing to do anything for him... Help?! please!!
2006-09-30 20:16:11 · update #1
worrying about the problem cause more of a problem than the problem. performance anxiety can contribute to premature ejaculation and even ED. the more he worries about it the more it is likely to happen. take a weekend and check into a motel. spend and entire day together without clothes. several times during the day lay in bed and caress each other anywhere except the genitals. get more and more intimate with each session stopping when you or he starts getting too excited. when you finally get to the point that you are ready to have sex make sure that he does not ejaculate too soon. you do this by stopping what ever activity you are doing and take a break for a few minutes. if necessary pinch his penis between your thumb and finger just behind the head making sure you have crimped the urethra closed. this will prevent him from climaxing and help him gain control over his ejaculations.
2006-09-30 20:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, but it also depends on the race and sex of a baby. Both of my sons were born at 36 1/2 weeks and they both weighed over 7lbs. Both of them had to stay in NICU for over a week, because their lungs weren't fully developed. Even though they were premature only by a week or two they still had respiratory problems. The nurses at the hospital told me that African American girls tend to do the best as preemies and Caucasian males tend to have the most difficult time. At 8 months survival rate is extremely high, so even if the baby doesn't look exactly like a term baby it can still survive. Sometimes they keep the baby in the hospital until it would be considered "term".
2016-03-27 00:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite easy if you know what you're doing. Believe it or not, I've learned a lot of interesting sex tips from porn stars. One of the reasons why there's pre-mature ejaculation is because he's just too excited and he has to 'cool down' just a a bit.
You and your partner have to be fully relaxed and just take your time. My best advice at this is time not to go too quickly when you start having sex. It's not a race, it's sex.
2006-09-30 20:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by mrgoodbar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs time to climatize... you know what I mean, spend time in the box and don't move around.... you need to work with him, take it slow... practice by just putting it in and just laying there.. no play, no foreplay just get him in there and just talk.. in know that sounds weird but give it a try... he is new to this... he also needs to be working out, jogging, etc... be in good shape... start slow and if he feels he is getting close to cumming stop... hold still that is when he learns to control the sensation...
this problem is also related to how hot a girl is between the legs..... so congratulations.. he is going to have to work to get you pleased... remember you are the one that controls the situation till he can take the reigns...
2006-09-30 19:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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These include the start-and-stop method and the squeeze technique. A combination of these techniques along with sexual counselling and medication (either using an anaesthetic cream or an oral tablet) is recommended.
2016-02-14 17:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just not ready for sex, and you shouldn't push him! Pressured sex is very unhealthy; and obviously he is overly pre-mature to perform it. If you two are so deeply in love that you want to have sex with each other, why don't you two get engaged and then that way it'll be safer and right? Just try waiting awhile and see how good your relationship gets: that should decide whether or not he's ready for sex.
2006-09-30 19:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
research the subject on yahoo search and you will find a bunch of web sites that wil give you both some pointers that will help..go for the free or stuff costing less than 60 bucks.. that include excercises.. stay away from the drugs those are only temporary... the excercises may have long term benefits.. best of luck.. early intervention and a loving woman will make this a thing of the past...
2006-09-30 19:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-03-31 22:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Seriously, if it's always like that, make him finish at least once before you actually have intercourse. There are also lotions out there that sorta numb things a little, but if you use too much, he won't feel a thing.
2006-09-30 20:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please I don`t want others to suffer from situation as I am suffering. In my question I have not mentioned duration. because I think people will consider it unbelieveable but it is true. I am suffering from this for more than nine years. i am 30 now. the situation I mentioned is steadily following me.
when I got admission in University. I felt no love response. I downed with this. yet i am not finished with this.
2006-09-30 21:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by banyamin12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋