I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. how do I get her to tell me the truth if I ask her? any other way to find out?
2006-09-30 20:15:19 · 9 answers · asked by dustinr91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, the story is when me & her first started out she waz flurting with this one guy. wich made me a little mad. but i got over it.but 8 months later i hear she's going 2 pizza-hut with him. and when ever I get on the phone her little sis startes yelling you've got a new boy friend( wich I thought waz know big deal) but last night i asked here where she had been all day and she said "it's none of my busness!" wich shocked me cause she's never said that. know i trust her very very much but i met this guy anf i dont trust him with an inch of my life. "I dont know wat 2 do is it all in my head or is their a problem" ifI straight up ask if she's cheating i know she'll lie so wat do i do 2 find out the real truth. I really love this girl and i want her 2 be happy know matter wat even if that means i have 2 leave her. so some on plz help me i'm starting 2 have nightmares!
2006-09-30 20:34:12 · update #1
Hire a private investigator
2006-09-30 20:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I want to know why do you think so?
You should ask her to if she's cheating on you (plain and simple). If she says that she's not cheating on you, and she says that you shouldn't be worrying about this sort of thing (or how dare you ask), then that is basically a confession that she is, or she might say that she doesn't trust you anymore. Same thing. This is another confession. If she she says she is cheating on you, then there is nothing you can do.
Better than Asking her!! In order to find out, ask her to be with you more. Say that you miss her companionship. If she's with you more, then you know that she can't be with someone else. It just wouldn't work.
2006-10-01 03:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to believe exactly what you want to believe. Even if she isn't, and she tells you she's not, you've still got this idea that she is. Are you even going to believe her if she tells you no? There is no other way to find out if she is or isn't unless you want to drive yourself completely crazy trying to catch her. If she is cheating and she has any decency she will let you know. Relationships are built on trust and right now it sounds like you have very little in your girlfriend. Ask yourself if you really want to waste your time second guessing her, relationships are supposed to be fun. Unless you want to turn into Nancy Drew looking for clues as to her faithfulness, I suggest either letting it go or moving on. Good Luck to You!!!!!
2006-10-01 03:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big question is: why do you think that she's cheating on you?
If you don't have trust, then you really don't have a relationship. Would you believe her answer if you asked? Do you really want your jealousy to drive you to "other ways" of finding out?
If you don't trust her and don't believe her, then it's time to END the "relationship" you think you have.
Find someone you can trust. If you aren't able to trust, get some counseling.
2006-10-01 03:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read a statitic that says that if a woman thinks her man is cheating, 9 times out of ten he is. BUT women are nine times as likely to cheat, they just don't get caught. Women are more likely to be found out because they want to be found out. I wouldn't ask her because according to this statistic, she'll lie. I say do some harmless spying. Nothing that would break any provacy laws.
2006-10-01 03:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude check her panties..if she is buying new panties ..she is probably cheating...if there are some stains of a certain sort in them ( you know what kind) well then she is def. cheating. Trust me ..thats the easiest best advice u will get
She wont tell u ..just do a little lookin on ur own
2006-10-01 03:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by shelly h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ur got to be the one to trust
her, if she says shes not cheating than u either say yes u are or i belive u...
2006-10-01 03:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Psycho-Minion(Jeff Hardy Fan) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her. tell how u r feeling and that you want the truth from her and when she tells you the truth believe and if you don't then there no use for you to be her boyfriend becuz u really don't trust her!
2006-10-01 03:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u say she is cheating?
2006-10-01 03:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by rita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋