2 diffrent boys want 2 go out with me i like both of them but i dont know who i want 2 be with. 1 is very sweet, but not cute, and the otha is popular and wil make me look good if i go out with them, which do u think would be betta me? popular boy, or not so popular boy!!!!!????
2006-09-30 20:25:04 · 15 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok...
I had to check out how old ya are first.
I find that you are just in highschool...so it's really not that big of a deal...LOL!!!
Go on dates with both of them...
chat on the phone with both of them--
only THEN can you determine which one you are "feelin" more.
If you come to find that you like both fo them equally then....
- you have to decide which is most important to YOU...
1) looking good (choose Mr. Popular)
or
2) feeling good (choose Mr. Nice guy).
2006-09-30 20:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by CutiePatootie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't decide based off of popularity, unless you really are that vain. Which boy will treat you better? Which boy is more tolerable? Which boy won't let you down? As much as you'd hate to not "look good" this unpopular boy seems to have struck some interest in you if you are considering him as well as a popular guy. I'd wager a guess at the fact that you like the way he treats you better, which is what a relationship should be about. Not how you look in the eyes of your peers. The overused cliche that states that the inside is more important than the outside is not a load of crap. It makes you a better person for seeing past popularity into the person's personality. Nobody on Yahoo! Answers can choose for you, and nobody should be choosing for you. Go with the guy you believe will make you happier.
2006-10-01 03:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by kusainezumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the difference between sweet and cute? What is the difference between how you feel and other people's opinion? Does someone make you look would care about you and treat you well? Does people's opinion would determine who you are ? Do you care about what people think or care about your own feeling in this regard? If you figure out those answer by yourself, I think you will know who to go out with. Good Luck! : )
2006-10-01 03:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by Grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety! Popularity is temporary. If your looking 4 sum'in that will last 4 a coupla weeks & that'l leave you with a lot of heart ache then hell go out with Mr popular coz @ sum tym or another he'l meet anotha who'l probably tink wat your tinking, leave you high & dry for her but if your looking 4 happyness & never ending sweetness like the most of us r, take Mr. not so cute who'll make you smile feel that you make a difference in their life.
2006-10-01 04:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Darksword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to you heart and do what feels right. because if you end up going out with the popular one and he isnt the right one for you and you have to dump him for a non popular person i am pretty sure you wont be very liked. but i just say to do what you want to do.
2006-10-01 03:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the popular boy loves you so much more than the not so popular?!try to think whose weighs much heavier in your heart and the way they treat you..the looks is not important but the important thing is the "how he will love you and how he cares for you so much!?"..test their attitudes and let see who wins your heart and anyway, its ur decision and u can only choose one..not both of them cuz if you do, u will hurt them both!..
2006-10-01 03:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by ..bERmzZz.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THat doesn't mean you can only date one of them. As long as you are not exclusive, go on dates with both of them and see how they turn out. Unless you guys talk about being official or exclusive, don't hold back.
2006-10-01 03:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Green thumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not about who's popular, its about who's treat you with respect.The popular boy just probably want to use you think right you will be OK.
2006-10-01 03:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by leeleemd1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the sweet one. Trust me, he will blossom into a hottie and you won't regret your choice. My tip: Be with a man who treats you right and makes you smile!!!
2006-10-01 03:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you're that shallow you should jump in front of a bus
2006-10-01 03:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋