Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

About 2 weeks ago she sent me an IM calling me a bi**h then sent another saying "that's right I called you a bi**h what you going to do about it?" She did it because I didn't voice message with her because I don't have speakers or anything. I just ignored the comments and let my husband try to expalin what happened to her, but she didn't think she had done anything wrong! I chose to ignore her and not escalate the situation. Last night she IMd me again saying "I was right when I called it the last time. You still are." I haven't even talked to her. I have spent the entire 3 years of my marriage trying to establish a good relationship with this woman, and I've done nothing to justify her behavior. Now my husband is furious with her and I think that by doing this she's ruined their relationship, which wasn't great to begin with. Please someone tell me why she could be acting this way and what should I do about it?

2006-09-29 07:41:49 · 21 answers · asked by brainy_blonde 3 in Family

who is the prettiest girl you have ever seen in your life,,,,,,you can have more than one!!!

2006-09-29 07:41:30 · 11 answers · asked by shosho 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfreind wnat to elope on my 18th birthday but every one says we should until we're ready whats ready?

2006-09-29 07:40:58 · 34 answers · asked by tabbypickel 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is 16, has a baby by a 27 year old, who has a kid with her 26 year old sister. he even beats on my friend. her mom wont do any thing. i try to tell her she dont need that sh**... she's only 16!!! she wont listen to me...she says she loves him. any ideas on what i should do? should i let her deal with it? i love her, shes my friend, i dont want anything to happen to her...

2006-09-29 07:40:31 · 5 answers · asked by alisha 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have liked the guy i am NOT going out with for awhile but he didn`t like me then. the other guy i have not liked very long but once i started liking him we started going out! o yeah and they both like me!

2006-09-29 07:40:09 · 20 answers · asked by sugersugersuger4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 07:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by Elisia Z 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 07:39:27 · 4 answers · asked by Ash 3 in Friends

well, i have been in one relationship, a loooong one. and i just got out of it. i always feel that i HAVE to keep her happy. like i HAVE to buy her flowers, i HAVE to keep her spirits up. but i feel like i'm the only one doing those things. even in marriage noh? the guy works hard and he also has to do everything 2 make his wife happy? i guess i just answered my question, its a stereotype? and then like... i do watever she says and i ask her some stuff and she does it too. damn i lost my point lol. well, i know that the thing in england was all about chivalry n stuff, but im iz american! hate it! why cant a girl cater to a man? i bet that is purdy rare

2006-09-29 07:39:07 · 7 answers · asked by pogiboy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 07:38:51 · 7 answers · asked by Asilos Magdalena 1 in Friends

It's disgusting the way I've let you talk to me, and use me.
It's not going to happen anymore.
I have been with incredible people and even though they've been great, haven't wanted to move forward with them. . .why? because I've loved you. .
You can't treat me the way you have anymore. . . I'm to good for it.
Because I'm not trash.
I deserve better.
I'm curious what you have to say about me to your friends. . .
you know what?
I loved you with all my heart and I tried to make things right.
If anything I am stupid for that.
Treating me like a commodity when I am in fact a beautiful, intelligent woman
is not something I'm willing to accept from anyone.
Even you.
My *** has certainly been used, by you. . .
But, I'm not worthless as a result.
I'm stronger, better, smarter.
If you can't see a good thing, that is your problem, not mine.
If you can't see how insulting, and degrading you have been to me for quite sometime now, and realize that is a justification for my reaction yesterday. . .
than you are plain and simply ignorant.

2006-09-29 07:38:36 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 07:38:27 · 20 answers · asked by Zebra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend plays video games ALL THE TIME! It doesn't really bother me, except for when I want to talk and all he wants to do is play his game. Or when I'm over at his house and he plays his game instead of talking to me and just chilling with me. I don't want him to stop playing video games completely, but I'm sick of always feeling like the video games are more important that I am.

2006-09-29 07:38:05 · 16 answers · asked by mandarin 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 07:37:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do they have that year round? are selling it yet??..i heart that stuff!!!

2006-09-29 07:36:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If the bride has no father or significant male in her life- who does she or can she do the father daughter dance with? Can a brother or the grooms father take that place?

2006-09-29 07:36:25 · 23 answers · asked by glorymomof3 6 in Weddings

I mean, it's like electric! but in other areas, you can't stand each other...

2006-09-29 07:36:19 · 9 answers · asked by Jmyooooh 4 in Singles & Dating

He told me he is confident to get beautiful gal for gf. I no longer know if he still loves me or not. I find tat he still prefers smaller sized gals, prettier & cute ones. I no longer know or understand why he is still stickin with me. Cos he has been correctin me, physically & characteristics. I told him my confidence dipped cos of his criticisms. He tells me not to blame my low self-esteem at him. No matter hw fierce our quarrels are, I would not criticize him the way he criticize me. I really don’t understand why he would do this to me.

Ever since we quarrel on last sat, he refused to c me (even tho I waited for 1.5hrs at his hse void deck) or talked to me. We only communicate thru msn. He said he love me still. But he wants to think if we are compatible or nt & to him, he cant stand my losin temper (despite I told him I will change).

I dunno shld i continue the rs or nt. cos the quarrel on sat is the last straw. I hate him for hurtin me & yet I cant bear to end tis 1.5yr rs

2006-09-29 07:35:54 · 3 answers · asked by ID t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's fun and all that but she can be mean. She has a wicked laugh and everything...

2006-09-29 07:35:53 · 4 answers · asked by kickrox80 2 in Friends

A prisoner escapes from prison where he had been for 5 years. On the run, he finds a house and breaks into it.

He finds a young couple in bed.

He gets the guy out of bed, ties him up on a chair, and then ties the woman to the bed.

He then gets on top of her kissing her on the neck, she is squirming and whimpering, then she starts shaking her head.

Abruptly the prisoner gets up, and goes into the bathroom.

While he is there, the husband tells his wife: "Listen, this guy is a prisoner, look at his clothes! He probably spent a lot of time in prison, and has not seen a woman in years.

Whatever he wants don't resist, don't complain, just do what he tells you, and we might get out of this alive. Be strong,
honey. I love you"

To which the wife responds: "Honey, he was not kissing my neck. he was whispering in my ear.

He told me that he found you very sexy, and asked if we kept any Vaseline in the bathroom. Be strong, honey. I love you too..."

2006-09-29 07:35:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 07:35:22 · 2 answers · asked by goodguy2463 1 in Family

It's our 1 year anniversary, and i would really like to plan something nice to show him how much he means to me? Anyone else got any suggestions that have proved successful for them before?

2006-09-29 07:35:01 · 4 answers · asked by lizie159 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my 9 yrs anniversary is coming up this weekend.. what do i get my wonderful wife .. and i do i get her to try something new in bed to celebrate.. like a bj or anal??? if she don't want to its alright but i just think we should do something different to spice things up after 9 yrs of the same thing.. any ideas

2006-09-29 07:34:20 · 6 answers · asked by astrodog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I get my daughter to understand that I'm not raciest but only concerned about how black men see women ,I have good friends that are black but every one of them have one or two girls on the side married or not.
so you see it's not racism as much as an objection to a lifestyle
does this wash?

2006-09-29 07:34:10 · 49 answers · asked by c.hill24 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-29 07:33:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought a computer from a coworker 2 mths ago.The agreement was that she will give me a computer with some specific specs and that I will pay her $50 per mth untilI would have completed paying $250. So far I have pay her $100. However, i observed just after i collected the system that it does not have the specs that we agreed on. her brother is a computer technician and she said that she will have him look at it. I took the computer at her brother's house 3 weeks now. Since then she nor her brother has not told me anything about the computer. However, I've seen her attitude chaning around the office. She has become very snobbisn and evil around the office(not kidding). And almost to the point where she is not doing work. This week I've realsied that she has stopped talking to me. I cant even ask her anything work related mutchless about the computer that her brother has for 3 weeks now and mind you Im paying for it.
What should I do?

2006-09-29 07:33:05 · 24 answers · asked by viddy 2 in Friends

2006-09-29 07:32:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am totally allergic to sea food

2006-09-29 07:31:32 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a freshman+just arrived in this school. everything was pretty cool, w/ my friends and everything... until this ugly fat girl decided to hate me for no reason. it might be over a boy just because i danced w/ him...
she doesn't like me or maybe she's just jealous.
her friends give me dirty looks+bump into me in the hall. what should i do?? ignore them? start a fight? try to talk? HELP! i don't want to be hated by the whole school because of them!

2006-09-29 07:31:25 · 15 answers · asked by baby french girl livin in da usa 2 in Friends

2006-09-29 07:29:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://www.thestarlitecafe.com/poems/102/poem_8365344.html

plz read it and tell me what do you think ..

2006-09-29 07:29:41 · 1 answers · asked by ahazem02 1 in Singles & Dating