He told me he is confident to get beautiful gal for gf. I no longer know if he still loves me or not. I find tat he still prefers smaller sized gals, prettier & cute ones. I no longer know or understand why he is still stickin with me. Cos he has been correctin me, physically & characteristics. I told him my confidence dipped cos of his criticisms. He tells me not to blame my low self-esteem at him. No matter hw fierce our quarrels are, I would not criticize him the way he criticize me. I really don’t understand why he would do this to me.
Ever since we quarrel on last sat, he refused to c me (even tho I waited for 1.5hrs at his hse void deck) or talked to me. We only communicate thru msn. He said he love me still. But he wants to think if we are compatible or nt & to him, he cant stand my losin temper (despite I told him I will change).
I dunno shld i continue the rs or nt. cos the quarrel on sat is the last straw. I hate him for hurtin me & yet I cant bear to end tis 1.5yr rs
2006-09-29 07:35:54 · 3 answers · asked by ID t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Personally, i feel that you have to decide if you want to continue the relationship with him. I noticed that both of you quarrel and he refused to see you even though you waited for him at his house void deck.
Even you may not like it but I think what he have said to you can be really hurtful. Ask yourself when both of you reconciled, will the relationship be the same as before. I don't think so, I believe there are more quarrel in future and it will eventually lead to a breakoff in this relationship. But the decison is yours to made. Lastly I hope that you remember one thing, you must be yourself and not change yourself coz your bf wants you to be like others. if we really love someone, we have to accept her/him the way they are and not try to change them.
2006-09-29 21:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone constantly makes you feel bad about yourself, it's time to end the relationship.
2006-09-29 07:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve better. go out and do something nice for yourself, hair nails new outfit and shoes then go out and enjoy a day for yourself and when he do finally see you he would then realize what he will miss when your gone.
2006-09-29 08:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋