tell them you want to have 2 boyfriends at once and see if they are ok with it.
2006-09-29 07:41:52
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answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7
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OK first off don't be messing around with one or the other until you get your feelings settled. You clearly are not set on the guy you are dating because if you were you would not be thinking about anyone else.
Secondly there is no reason not to be Friends with both at the same time. I say this because you did not use the phrase "going steady" only "going out" with the first guy.
Third, you have to be honest with them both about how you feel about them. Not necessarily about the other guy but to each guy individually.
What I am trying to say is you have to get your own feelings figured out and then tell each one the truth. Don't be fooling around playing the field with two guys at once unless you want to called some very bad things. Things that would be true if you did, not to mention the reputation you would get.
And finally make sure you are not being played by either of them. You don't need to be hurt either.
Good luck.
2006-09-29 14:52:25
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answered by my_iq_135 5
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If you are thinking of leaving one for the other,I just have to say thats the worse thing you could ever do. What excuse are you going to give your present boyfriend??The guy you are with now does not deserve to be tossed aside for the curiosity of a past crush. If "the other" guy didnt like you then whats bringing him around now?? Its because you have a boyfriend and men always want what they cant have.I bet the guy you are with now has liked you for a while and would do anything for you. This other guy will just take what he wants and then let you go.Do what you want your going to anyway,but who am I to judge.
2006-09-29 14:55:16
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answered by Anonymous
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You should pick the one who has the best qualities that you like. If one of them treats you better than the other then that is the guy you want. Go with your instinct and pick the one who cares for YOU the most. You can figure this out by their actions towards you.
2006-09-29 14:44:31
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answered by wakebrder 1
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Go out with both
2006-09-29 14:41:26
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answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6
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i say leave them both alone. you got too many feelings & emotions mixed all up in this triangle. someone is going to get their feelings crushed, and it might be u b/c of the way u been dogging them out, playing the fence.
2006-09-29 14:43:19
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answered by WhosThatGirl? 3
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take what you can get when you can get it,.. be happy that one of the guys is also interested in you,.. the other side of the coin is that neither could be interested in you,..
don't always look for the grass to be greener in another pasture with some-other dude.
use it as an experience,.. i doubt if either guy is "the guy" so just experience life
2006-09-29 14:44:01
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answered by hailey 4
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go out with both of them
2006-09-29 14:41:32
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answered by kevin 4
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go out with both of them then
2006-09-29 15:27:43
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answered by dollface 1
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Date both of them, guys do it all the time.
2006-09-29 14:41:55
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answered by Sailor's Wife 2
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