Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

I just met this guy and have started to really get attached to him and now he tells me he's got a job offer 7 hours away. He already works out of town for most of the week and I don't get to see him much and I don't want him to go. He hasn't decided what to do yet. He says he'd be home almost every weekend but that isn't enough for me. Am I being selfish for not wanting him to go?

2006-09-29 08:22:57 · 22 answers · asked by countrygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

We are having our first kid. What are your favorite baby names?

2006-09-29 08:21:49 · 34 answers · asked by joelrnic 2 in Family

The first week we did it a few times, then it was lucky if we did it more then one time in a month afterwards. Sex was used as a way to control my mind, and make me feel extremely guilty. Wife turned out to have a severe mental illness, and was using me as a fix. She was not capable of love because she does not understand the concept. I'm a mess now and I want to know what a normal marriage should be like.

2006-09-29 08:21:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A man was in his front yard mowing the grass when his neighbor,

an attractive blond, came out of the house and went straight to the mailbox.

She opened it and slammed it shut and stormed back into the house.

A little later, she came out of her house again, went to the mail box

and again opened it, slammed it shut and angrily went back into her

house.

As the man was getting ready to edge the lawn, here she came again,

marched to the mail box, opened it, slammed it shut-harder than ever.

Puzzled by her actions the man asked her, "Is something wrong?" To which

she replied, There certainly is!"

(Are you ready? .... this is a beauty.....)























"My stupid computer keeps saying, 'You've got mail'."

2006-09-29 08:21:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is getting on my nerves about getting a job. I recently got laid off and while looking for work I realized something. Why doesn't he just find a job that pays more? He has an opportunity to go overseas and make 80,000 a year tax free and I think he should take it to support us. What do you think?

2006-09-29 08:21:18 · 16 answers · asked by Elizabeth W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this is what i've noticed...the married women who say that their marriage are perfect, their husbands are mostly cheating on them...or on yahoo answers when they ask is it true that your marriae is the happiest or how did it last so long, it's mostly the women who answers! men and women see things so differently! this woman 2 weeks ago told me that she has never been so happy, i saw he today, well the day b4 yesterday her hubby left her for another woman! why are some of us so blind? have you guys noticed that by any chance??

2006-09-29 08:20:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you lived with your boyfriend who makes messes and leave them for you to clean up. And is always making comments about putting you out?

2006-09-29 08:19:09 · 31 answers · asked by Mia W 2 in Singles & Dating

Women have you pushed a man into a wall to make out with him
I am not into pain
i am not into degradation or humilation

i would find it hot if a woman pushed me up against a wall rather forcefully (not hard enough to be painful) to make out with me

Am i alone in this ?

2006-09-29 08:17:44 · 20 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

before they let her out?
I have some ladies in mind, but the usual getting drunk & banging each other is getting old.
Any ideas?

2006-09-29 08:17:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

But we have different friends and I'm afraid that I won't fit in with his group of friends (who is very close by the way). Don't get me wrong. They're just more social than I am. What should I do?

2006-09-29 08:17:20 · 13 answers · asked by Sophia's Mommy 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 08:16:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one hot, other sweet, and the lastis funny

2006-09-29 08:16:51 · 24 answers · asked by dollface 1 in Singles & Dating

my old BFFL screwed me over.i keep trying to get over him.He lives right behind my house. ikeepthinkingbout everyting that happened. i have recurring dreams where we are friends again & everything is back to normal.but it's not and i wake up a lot crying because i wish it was real.i shouldn't be so upset about it because my conscious knows he's a jerk.but my subconscious doesn't agree.

i just dont know what to do to forget someone. he lives right behind my house and i can't even stand this house anymore.

i guess i just don't know what to do anymore. the dreams haven't stopped for 4months. and i thought i would be at peace with everything once his girlfriend finally broke up with him. but i don't think she knows. i don't think she will let it sink in because she was in denail about so many things. she was with him for like 4 years and now i keep thinking about him and the love for so much that we shared. i miss playing guitar togerhter. what do i do? i love(d)? him.

2006-09-29 08:15:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

...turns over this new leaf...he's talking about a future, moving away, building some sort of sustainability for my mom to prepare her for me leaving, what the????

I was planning to leave him...now what? This is frustrating, cause I love him, but couldn't deal with him any more...so i started making plans and all....

2006-09-29 08:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Singles & Dating

My son will be 21 on Oct 3, he was murdered about two months ago. I would like to know what would be approaite to put on his grave? He liked hunting and fishing.

2006-09-29 08:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by virginia w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does anyone know of a good site to buy music downloads. I don't want there to be any restrictions such as how
many computers I can put the songs on. I want the songs to be just as if I had ripped them off a cd and I can do anything with them. Are there any sites like that? I don't like I-tunes.

Also, how much do they cost? Or are there places to do memberships that are payed each month.

I want it from a place where I buy it and not anything illegal.

2006-09-29 08:14:24 · 4 answers · asked by Josh 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 08:13:59 · 16 answers · asked by kathleen h 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your favorite thing about your spouse and the thing u hate most? Whats the most irritating thing they do? My favorite thing is my hubby is like 6 ft 2 and weighs 200 lbs- big man and works hard for a living. It amazes me how someone so big and strong can bend steel with his hands yet feel like satin on my skin SO his gentleness is my most favorite. Worse? Hmmmmm he snores like a buzz saw! Irritating? EWWWWWWW when he takes a hot bath- he like brushes his teeth while he is in the tub and ummm spits in the water? NASTY! Then he wants me to join him? NOT! lol

2006-09-29 08:13:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband did something that he knew was going to cause me to be upset.Without going into detail he's done this in the past to me he'll make a decision without consulting with me first.And this time he really caught me off guard and I reacted in a way that wasn't lady-like.To be blunt I cursed at him and he didn't get upset right away.The following day he brought it to my attention and of course we started to argue about it.In the midst of the argument he told me that if I ever cursed at him again he was going to punch me.Well this isn't the first time he's threatened to hit me and he can't understand why I would be a little bit bothered by the fact.That someone who professes to love you would actually afflict harm on you.That just doesn't sit well with me it doesn't matter how angry we both might make each other.It should never come down to violence.Not to mention I did apologize to him for cursing at him.Anyway I would love to know how would you feel if you were in my shoes?

2006-09-29 08:13:58 · 12 answers · asked by brooklyncrazysexycool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband an I have been together for 4 years but only married 14 months. The other day he said he was no longer in love with me but still loved me. Of course i'm devistated because he is the love of my life and i don't understand all this. First off we've fought a lot lately because he spends most of his time on the computer. but his reasoning is because he's unhappy with the fact that we had to move back into my parents house to save money because his job was ending. we agreed to stay there and save up to relocate. now that we have the money he says he's not in love with me. What can I do to show him every relationship has ruts and thats what this is. up until last week he sent me regular text messages saying he loved and adored me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. That is how i still feel. needledd to say he moved out and wants to try a trial separation, to see if his feelings retrun. Please help me!!!!!!!! i want my husband the love of my life back.

2006-09-29 08:13:55 · 6 answers · asked by Mrs. Sunshine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

heres the situation. Guy at work.Handed him no strings attached sex, which is what i wanted at the time . he Came over it didnt happen.he wanted to get to know me first. since then it has happende a couple of times. he's sent texts saying he wants to make an effort to get to know me etc. i ask him over again. he's always busy. he only replies to text/emails that seems to suit him. i ask him why he says he doesnt meanto its just the way he is. if i dont text/mail him i get nothing, yet continues to look me up and down go out of his way to walk past and smile at me. im confused? he says one thing does another, and acts something else. i cant confront him cos at the end of the day i did only suggest some no strings fun. but now i like him a lot. suggestions?

2006-09-29 08:12:33 · 10 answers · asked by girly 1 in Singles & Dating

We broke up because of a silly reason, I left her, tried to rebuilt the relationship later, she didn't want to try again, but askef for time for herself, and in the mean time she was saying I was not available but I was not taken and for 2 and 1/2 months I tried everything to have her back and I couldn't. We finally split and she asked me to not to contact her, that she may contact me in 6 months if she was still missing me. On week 3 she called me using an excuse that was not important enough to break the silence she asked to have between the two of us, and said that she was missing me and then took what she said back right away. 3 more weeks has passed and haven't heard from her. I think if I call her and I go after her as I was in the 2 and 1/2 months I will lose her forever, I think she just wants me to being after her like some of the ones she used to date. I do like her and I think I still love her. Is the fact of not contacting her working on my favor?

2006-09-29 08:12:26 · 12 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am not sure what to do. i want to go further with my boyfriend but i dont know how far. we like each other alot. can u help?

2006-09-29 08:12:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was caught in an emergency (of which I was not responsible) and asked my boyfriend of almost two years to lend me £330, repayable in three months, to avoid the bailiffs.
I work very hard as a Teacher Assistant – a very fulfilling, but modestly paid job, and a job for which I’m overqualified. My boyfriend, who successfully runs two businesses, promptly lent the money. However, he started questioning my lifestyle choices so abusively, that I didn’t have an option but to send him back the money and face the removals people as well as the threat of the county court. He didn’t want to see me under the argument that “your court problems are yours – not mine”. He also let me know that he changed the lock of his flat, so I couldn’t use the key.
Before, he had offered me “treats” by far more expensive than this loam. I accepted some, but refused most of them, simply because I didn’t need all the things he was offering.
And yet, he still professes to love me. Shall I believe him?

2006-09-29 08:12:08 · 6 answers · asked by doidabel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today in Math class my ex Matt was looking at me like one of those movie type guys u know the look in romantic movies like I'm with a girl that I like butt not as much as I like u. Yeah he was giving me that look. He is daiting his ex gf Sara and I don't know why he would be giving me that look if he likes her. What do u think? And whats that look for? He brokeup with me.

2006-09-29 08:11:55 · 9 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

im not happy at work with my job but dont know what to do about it

2006-09-29 08:11:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Girls: what would be the best gift a guy could ever give you. For any occasion like your birthday, and why? Also, what have you gotten from a guy that you loved? Guys: What have you given a girl..or your GF and she absolutely loved it? And what do you think is the perfect gift to give a girl?

2006-09-29 08:11:33 · 4 answers · asked by Rozlyn P 2 in Singles & Dating

small diamond tension ting

2006-09-29 08:11:20 · 5 answers · asked by chris t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I bring up the status with my ex and I without scaring him away? We're sleeping together now but I'm sure we have feelings for each other, but it's just that we agreed to see other people. How can I talk about this with him without getting all relationshipy again? This is really hard.

2006-09-29 08:11:13 · 6 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been going out with this guy for 8 months now and it was great at first but now it seems boring we always have fun he's always been talking to me but lately i feel like he's always hiding something from me should i just ask?

2006-09-29 08:11:07 · 15 answers · asked by Elisia Z 1 in Other - Family & Relationships