...turns over this new leaf...he's talking about a future, moving away, building some sort of sustainability for my mom to prepare her for me leaving, what the????
I was planning to leave him...now what? This is frustrating, cause I love him, but couldn't deal with him any more...so i started making plans and all....
2006-09-29 08:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you love him, but cannot deal with him anymore (let him know in details what you cannot deal with). After talking, come to a conclusion if this relationship is worth another try. Figure out if the issues you have with him can be resolved. If it's possible they can, give it another try. If you have positively made up your mind that you cannot deal with it/him anymore, let him know how you feel and tell him that it's best if you go your separate ways. If you don't think you two can make it work, explain to him why you feel that way so he have a clear understanding as to why you chose to end the relationship.
2006-09-29 08:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think hes changed for good? Is it an act? He probably knew things were going down hill when he made this turn. Is it worth ur future? Keep your dreams and don't let urself be sold short cuase someone eles. If he wasn't making u happy and hes still not then move on.. Otherwise tell him you need time and space.. U will usually see the true colors then..
2006-09-29 15:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Me C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously if you have to think about leaving him he isn't the guy for you.. If you really wants to be with him you will make things work instead of the other way around... Like you said you can't deal with him anymore so why still stay?? You will just get hurt and also your boyfriend....
2006-09-29 15:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know about your plans. If you were not happy, how come you will be happy. Just because he makes the plans, doesn't mean that the life will change. Be reasonable.
Good luck,
Svetlana
2006-09-29 15:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by Svetlana G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that he is serious in his plans to make a future with you, stay with him for awhile and see where it leads.
2006-09-29 15:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with him if you love him people change all the time but it's something they have to want not be forced into changing
2006-09-29 15:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by babigrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him. If he was the right guy for you, you'd never want to leave.
2006-09-29 15:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by hellfirsthand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue on with your plans before it gets more serious.
2006-09-29 15:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait awhile before you do anything and see were that takes you!
2006-09-29 15:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by Myastar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋