Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

My husband is extremely hard to shop for. If there is anything that he ever wants, he just goes out and buys it for himself. I really need some creative ideas that shows thought, but at the same time wont break the bank. It needs to be something specially for him because when I bought a video camera for his B-day, he accused me of buying it for myself. So now the camera sits in a bag in the corner of the bedroom....collecting dust instead of memories.

2006-09-29 09:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currently working out and changing my appearance. I am now biking 10 miles a day and working out on my bowflex. Check out my yahoo 360 photos and please let me what you think of my appearance or think my personality is like? I don't understand what men see for turn offs or turn ons..Am I too Plain?

2006-09-29 08:59:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do u think of it?

2006-09-29 08:59:32 · 15 answers · asked by Sheila 2 in Friends

i have been with my man for 10 yrs and i love him to death but how do i know he really loves me and just there for our kids?

2006-09-29 08:58:23 · 13 answers · asked by CURIOUS1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its nearly time for bed!!! and even tho i will be on my own it will be the highlight of my day!!
whats the highlight of your day?

2006-09-29 08:57:50 · 47 answers · asked by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay I use to date this guy but we broke up after about two months because of his temper. Well we got back together only to be homie lover friends and over 3 years I have gained feelings for him. He recently told me he has a TWO YEAR OLD DAUGHTER!! and the WIFE he was suppose to get a prenup with 3 years ago, he is still married to. I know it sounds like a bit much but he just told me he LOVES me about a month ago(do you know how long I've been waiting to here that) he lives out of state and only calls when he's in town, so how can he love me and what is keeping him from calling me >he says he lives alone! Why am I fighting myself,why can't I let him go???

2006-09-29 08:55:37 · 25 answers · asked by Mycan Moneek 2 in Singles & Dating

please don't get me wrong. our realationship is very strong. we have very open minded about it. we call each other when we are not apart, and texting each other all the time. we say i love you and miss you very time we speak to each other. we even leave notes in each other car/truck to let each know we are thinking of each other. when i am off at night, we have a movie night and we do it as family. we campout in living room. we try to go on dates but finding a babysister is hard. we do alot w/ each other and doing stuff. its just that finding time to have sex is hard. even at times he past out too. an for me to be a stay home mom/housewife, now way, done that years ago and i hate it and i got depress over it. besides we have to many bills for to quit my job. just got new house and truck. thats y we both work. its how can i get my mojo back. how can i get my motavtion back up to speed. not thinking other crap too. please help.

2006-09-29 08:54:50 · 6 answers · asked by gabriella9902 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-29 08:53:47 · 19 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking someoneold enough to be my mom, but maybe someone a few years older then me, I don't know why but I always seem to fall for those kinda of girls, I like the maturaty, it seems that younger girls just don't have that or something, like they're kinda screwy (mental not sexual) or something I don't know how to put it

2006-09-29 08:53:01 · 23 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my bf so much..we've been together for years. I want to express to him how much I truly appreciate him, and I'd like to hear from other guys what are those little things that your girlfriend has done for you that really made you feel special. And for those of you with dirty minds...I don't mean sex either. I want to do something that is beyond that or buying something expensive.

ex. One time when he was coming home from work..I was so happy to see him that I ran to greet him before he got to the door. He told me later..that it really made him feel good.

2006-09-29 08:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by Sydney 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Time stands still again
And everytime you take a breathe
I don't breath
The mintues seem like hours
And the hours like days
But with you
It doesn't exist

The second go by
But the clock doesn't move
That's when I know I'm with you
The leaves have begin to fall
They bleed red,orange,and yellow
But with you
They don't exist

The world's chaos
Is at my front door
Your hand in mine, makes mes care less
The smell of change is here
I can feel it
But with you
It doesn't exist

When I'm with you
I never want to leave
It's the only heaven
I could dream
Time stands still again
And now I know I'm with you.


I'm no Poe, but like me and my best friend, who I'm IN love with, got into a fight the other night where she told me she didn't want to be friends anymore, and I just can't do that. So I read some of the other YAHOO Q's and saw that a poem was a good "I'm Sorry" so what do you guys think about this?

2006-09-29 08:51:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Despite my attempts, she never allowed me to have sex with her during our teenage. We are early 30 now. Due to various reasons, our love did not materialize and she has been married to another man,who became my friend later, and I am also married now. Almost after 12 years, she suddenly called me and said she wants me and wants to have a baby from me.( note that she doesn't have any child). She said she did not forget our love, she forced me to Kiss her also. But i am reluctant to cheat my wife and the innocent man, who believes me. What should i do now?, - Jack

2006-09-29 08:51:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my husband more than life itself. But he's frustrating because he's a closed book so to speak. He works very long hours and when he comes home, he doesn't seem to have much to say to me. He's very quiet. Sometimes i wonder how we ever fell in love he's always been like this. But now i'm starting to feel alone in the marriage. He won't go to marriage counseling. Is there any hope left? plus, we are TTC and now i'm worried because I feel like even though i'm married...i'll be a single mother. it's making me have doubts. anyone else have this issue?

2006-09-29 08:51:50 · 6 answers · asked by Andrea G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with him for 6 months and he likes to be bound and gaged is this normal im old fashiond and it kinda freaks me out i know this is a different generation.

2006-09-29 08:51:06 · 30 answers · asked by missluvsharleys 1 in Singles & Dating

She shows me these advertisements every week with this glazed look in her eyes. She mutters "SALE" and "1/2 OFF!", and sometimes she just says "BOGO, BOGO". What does that mean? Should I be fearful?

2006-09-29 08:50:15 · 14 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-29 08:49:56 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can throw something out on this site that is actually funny, and I get all of 10 answers that say your stupid or you've been reported....But the chick that held her son still so family members could kick the poor kid in the nuts gets like 50 responses of people all wanting to help.....She needs to be reported, right to the Dept. of Children & Families!

2006-09-29 08:49:41 · 17 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Singles & Dating

It was fun at first but my social life is now starting to suffer....!

2006-09-29 08:49:28 · 20 answers · asked by woo hoo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 08:49:01 · 10 answers · asked by jazzigreen 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 08:48:52 · 18 answers · asked by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 in Singles & Dating

So I'm curious as to what you girls think about the new femme look guys are slowly starting to use; think long-ish shaggy hair hanging in the eyes, tight pants, studded belts low on the hips, and dare I say it, eyeliner on boys.

I think it's hot but am I alone?

2006-09-29 08:48:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We recently got custody a year and a half ago of my step-children due to lack of parenting on their mothers side. The daughter became sexually active at age 13 with boys in their early 20's. We've since moved her in with us, now she's 2 months shy of her 16th birthday and she's got the "itch" again (no, not STD, just the itch to become active again). We do not allow her to be with her boyfriend without us they do not spend any alone time together, yet she's found a way to be sexually active with him with us sitting right in the room watching movies with her and her boyfriend. How do we stop this from happening? If we forbid her to see him, she'll run away like she did at her mothers house. She's been an angel in the year and a half she's been with us up until now. Do we need to now sit inbetween them while watching TV, do we make them sit across the table from each other at dinner? This is insane, how do these kids get so freaking bold???

2006-09-29 08:48:44 · 14 answers · asked by Heather S 4 in Family

I couldn't help it. It just slipped-out of me like, in a high pitched squealing sound. My female co-worker Carla heard it and I watched her from the corner of my eye in embarrassment staring at me. She seemed very confused at what happened and then disappeared. What makes it worse is that; it smelled really bad like rotten eggs or like something died in my a&&.

Now, please understand; I have a crush on her and have been wanting to ask her out for quite some time now but have been waiting for the right moment. If you watch "The Office" she kind of looks like the character "Angela" but a lot very sweet. Do you think I should still go after her or not.

2006-09-29 08:48:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cannt tell if my "friend" is gay or not..... hes is wearing pink underwear and very short shorts. and a tight shirt that says "spank me". is this a premature self or just GAY.

2006-09-29 08:48:31 · 6 answers · asked by sky illumination 2 in Friends

I some help or advice. I have been going out with my bf for almost 3 years now. In the beginning, it was a beautiful relationship, he treated me like his little princess. Lately(past 5 months) he has been hanging out with a different crowd, I do know them but they arent a good influence. He started out smoking pot once in a while, but now he has tried mushrooms and worst of all...cocaine.
He is not the same guy I started out with, he doesent treat me like anything now. We dont ever do anything as a couple, hes not as sweet and caring and attentive as he used to be. He has also lied to me. About clubbing(grinding with random girl) and doign more cocaine. I have talked to him but he just keeps hurting me. I really need some advice because I still love him with all my heart I just want my boyfriend back.

2006-09-29 08:48:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 08:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Like at the bars...some women are horny, and want to go home with a guy...other girls have no intentions of hooking up....so what i propose is that girls who are out looking to hook up should have to wear a certain outfit (preferable a skirt and a skimpy top), so us guys dont have to waste our time hitting on women that dont wanna hook up. We can just go right over to the ones wearing the outfit and give it a go. Does this sound resonable?? This will be extra helpful at last call, when everyone is scrambling around the bar tossing up a "hail mary" and hoping they score!

2006-09-29 08:47:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a marriage of 4 years, I have 3 kids ages 17,14,and 9 he has 3 ages 17,15 and 13 (two live in another city) My husband has very bad communication skills. He is VERY controlling and overbearing. It's either his way or none. Wants to be heard, but won't listen. His two oldest children refuse to visit, my oldest has moved with his father. We constantly argue. We've had verbal and physical altercations in the past. I work two jobs to support the family to his one and continue everyday chores as if I'm single. In the beginning I saw this characteristic of him, but thought that because "I" was different from the others, that he would learn from me and change. It's only gotten worse and I'm ready to seperate for good after multiple threats of leaving in the past. He says that if I leave then that means a divorce is next, I dont want a divorce, I love him, but I need him to see where he is wrong. Counseling is scheduled, but I fear that it will be all an act on his part.

2006-09-29 08:47:25 · 18 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in order for this to work out my future wife lives in peru located in southamerica im a usa citizen i will like advise on this matter so i won't do a mistake well thanks i was already married but we don't live together anymore it was 5 years ago we got married in peru do you think this is a problem with INS service well thanks yahoo answers

2006-09-29 08:47:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna kiss my boyfriend and we haven't kissed yet, I haven't had my first kiss, and we've been dating for almost 2 months. How do I know if I should kiss him or not? How do I kiss him? How would I know if he wants to kiss me too? Please Help!!
PS-Would it be okay if I asked my bf's best friend if he knew?? I haven't yet but Im wondering if I should.

2006-09-29 08:46:31 · 18 answers · asked by Sally 3 in Singles & Dating