ive been with him for 6 months and he likes to be bound and gaged is this normal im old fashiond and it kinda freaks me out i know this is a different generation.
2006-09-29 08:51:06 · 30 answers · asked by missluvsharleys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Woohooo sounds good to me. Why is it all the freaky men get the old fashioned women?? I wish my man let me do that to him and vice versa. Trying different things is great. You are lucky..hahahaha And yes its normal.
2006-09-29 08:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, this is not normal. It suggests sum significant problems in terms of self-image, previous childhood abude, inadequate sexual education, and a desire for female domination - often, but not always going back to the dominent female of the childhood years. If you really like him, go with him into counselling. If this freaks you out too much - throw him back into the pool. He won't change in marriage no matter what promises he makes w/o therapy.
2006-09-29 15:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wierd, actuallly. Despite the humorous depictions in the media, and its "taboo" effect in society-- It does show that there is an underlying psychological issue, not just a kinky little sex preference. My wife was horrified to walk in on her father who died of a heart attack trying to tie himself up for sexual arousal. After the death her mother disclosed that her father always requested to be tied up, and the mother wouldnt do it. It turns out there were a myriad of psychological issues at play here with parental alcoholism and sexual abuse when her father was a child. Its unhealthy. If you love him, help him get help.
2006-09-29 15:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you could have a lot of fun with this. It's time to let your freaky side out. Once he's tied and gagged bring another girl in to play with you and only you, drip hot candle wax on him, step on him, smother him, tie him face down and drill him with a strap-on, put a blindfold on him and introduce his body to assorted tastes, smells and touches. Do whatever you want.
2006-09-29 16:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by rjinsanjo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its weird. Maybe if you don't like to be with this guy, just bind him up, gag him and walk away and never come back to him. Maybe he would like to be in prison for life! Nobody would hear from him (gag) and he would be confined (bound) then he could always have everything he wants.
2006-09-29 15:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by dumb 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No.. not if its done occasionally.. now if its the ONLY way he can achieve sexual satisfaction then yes.. he should see someone about it.
BUT.. no matter what is seems that you are having a problem with it so maybe you should be thinking of ending the relationship and finding someone who's activities are more in line with your own.
don't be emabarassed.. thats what dating is about.. finding someone who 'does it' for you.. and this guy... just .... doesn't.
2006-09-29 15:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not comfortable with it, then stop dating him. He will find someone who is into that and they will live happily ever after. You need to be on the same page when it comes to sexual things. Don't make someone feel bad about their preferences.
2006-09-29 15:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i believe that wanting to be tied up is a pretty normal fantasy for both men and women; i wouldn't worry about it too much, unless you really don't like it, or he is so obssessive about it that he never wants to do anything else; it's your call. everybody's different; his fantasy about being tied up is not weird, but if it doesn't do it for you, there could be a problem.
2006-09-29 15:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is pretty low-key in terms of fetishes unless he can't go without it then it's a problem
he just likes the feeling of being dominated and out of control - and i say just as nomal as liking the feeling of being in charge
2006-09-29 15:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me is not weird, it sounds like a lot of fun to me. At least he is honest enough to tell you what he likes, you should tell him what you like too, this makes for a healthy relationship.
2006-09-29 15:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋