2006-09-29 08:48:52 · 18 answers · asked by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ATTENTION: most men NOT all
2006-09-29 09:01:36 · update #1
thats just how men are. they are childish and a kid at heart with a menatlity for sex constantly. men dont start maturing until they lost something important in their life or better yet that still wont change them, i think its mainly testosterone over acting and they cant manage to control it..
2006-09-29 08:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by fable f 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
There are men and there are boys, or "man-child" (adolescent men) Many guys do mature and lead healthy lives, most even marry. The others unfortunately, are longtime adolescents who usually do not mature until after age 50. I dated one, for nearly a year. And then finally wised up... long after he opened admitted his childishness. Any wonder he'd only experienced extensive live-in relationships: RED FLAG.
Truth is, many guys either forgot how to be a man, or frankly don't care. And don't buy the excuse "I grew up without a father, so that's why..blah blah"
Some guys are just emotionally immature, meaning they have difficulty processing things of the personal or relation matter. They are not Relationship nor marriage material. So avoid them at all costs. Other guys eventually mature -at a later stage- and finally get it. It's both biological and genetic.
2015-12-28 15:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "The Enlightened Stepmother" by Perdita Norwood as a first step. Realize there are things you cannot control in this relationship. Find out what power the ex is holding over your man - is it visitation ("if you don't do exactly what I say, you'll never see your kids again!")? Is it child support ("I'll call the support agency and have a warrant issued!")? does he know what his rights are? (my husband's ex used to have him running scared mostly because she acted like she knew what the legal rules were, but was making them up to browbeat him into submission. Boy was she pissed off when I showed him what the REAL laws were!) Read his divorce papers - some of that stuff (who does pickup/drop off, and visitation schedules) should be spelled out in the divorce/custody papers. SHOW them to your man, and ask him why his ex is allowed to modify a court order? His ex has castrated him. It takes a while, and gentle encouragment from you, for him to get his balls back from her. But it can be done.
2016-03-18 02:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most women try to take on the role of a mother, particularly if we sense any inaptitude or immaturity. Look for a confident and mature man and you shouldn't have that problem in an overall sense.
2006-09-29 09:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
ive been told that those kind of men are just looking for a replacemnet for thier mommies. the signs include not holding a steady job, being financially depentent on you and not opening up when you need them to. these type of men arent in tune with their emotions as a result of something lacking in their relationship with their parents. not all men are like that though. there are some that are honest with themselves and are responsible and reliable. you just gotta look out for them!
2006-09-29 08:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by Candymoonangel 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Ma, What's that? What's that?
2006-09-29 09:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Because some men never grow up, they are perpetual children.
2006-09-29 08:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Quit dating children.
My man is very mature. You've been making some bad choices.
2006-09-29 08:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nightwalker 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Sometimes it's because they're treated like children. Treat them like a man and maybe they'll act like one.
2006-09-29 08:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Because men never grow up thats why.
2006-09-29 08:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋