i have been with my man for 10 yrs and i love him to death but how do i know he really loves me and just there for our kids?
2006-09-29 08:58:23 · 13 answers · asked by CURIOUS1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You just called him "my man" and that says a lot. You feel passion from him and that wouldn't come through if he didn't love you girl. I have heard and read a hundred men say that their presence IS their expression of love, but we girls need to HEAR it. Have you asked him? Does he tell you he loves you? Do you believe him? You've got to take him at his word. Does he have stars in his eyes? Sounds like love to me all around but you can only really know by that feeling he gives you deep inside and by asking him and believing his answer.
2006-09-29 09:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if all, every person is unique and with that being said, everyone has a different way of expressing their love and as well as emotions. Some might say "I Love You", while others do things to show you rather than say it. For example, maybe he takes you and the Family out on Saturdays as his way of showing that he loves you, or letting you buy a blouse you always wanted, or putting food on the table so your Family can eat, or waking up in the morning to go to work to push your Family forward. Sometimes, it's those small ordinary things that say "I Love you". Husbands may not always say or express it with hugs and kisses but with actions, they do, you just have to take the time and notice.
2006-09-29 16:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. People show love in different ways. For example, a person might show love through "acts of service" like taking out the garbage or doing laundry. Another person might show love through physical acts, like hugging and kissing and holding hands. It just depends on how he is wired. Reading the book together and you'll both learn a lot about each other.
2006-09-29 16:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by L S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he can answer this question, but after 10 years I would put money on it. Although I dont have much to go on 10 years is a goldne anniversary these days. Hope you guys enjoy another 10 , what the hell 20
2006-09-29 16:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh. that's a hard one. seems like you would know if he were only there for the kids--seems like he wouldn't be that attentive to you or nice to you, maybe even completely ignore you if he were only there for the kids; why do you have this fear or doubt? perhaps you need to explore what is making you doubt his love for you. if he's faithful and affectionate and tries to support you and the family, i wouldn't worry about it too much. if there are some signs that are bothering you, you need to think about what they are. for sure you might need to rekindle the romance after 10 years--good luck!
p.s. there is always the option of talking to him about it!
2006-09-29 16:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the old song said, "It's in his kiss." I believe the song went Platinum so the advice must be good.
Guys don't nomrally stick around for young kids if the momma isn't a hot Mama.
2006-09-29 16:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is genuinely concerned about you and puts you first in the relaionship, and if he protects you and provides for you and wants to spend time with you, you know he loves you.
2006-09-29 19:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope your married. You have been with him for 10 years and you have to question if he loves you or not? Wow you sound pretty dumb.
2006-09-29 16:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by MizModelMaterial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is really stars in his eyes, if he is good to you, respect you, and doesn't cheat, HE LOVES YOU.
2006-09-29 16:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Artist: Kathy Young
Title: A Thousand Stars
A thousand stars in the sky like the stars in your eyes
They say to me that there’ll never be
No other love like you-oo for me-e-e
A thousand stars in the sky make me realize
You are the one love that I’ll adore
Tell me you love me
Tell me you’re mine once more (once more, once mo-o-ore)
Each night I count the stars in the sky
Hoping that you aren’t telling me lies
You’re with me tonight, I’m captured by your charms
Oh, pretty baby, won’t you hold me in your arms?
A thousand stars in the sky make me realize
You are the one love that I’ll adore
Tell me you love me
Tell me you’re mine once more (once more, once mo-o-ore)
Each night I count the stars in the sky
Hoping that you aren’t telling me lies
You’re with me tonight, I’m captured by your charms
Oh, pretty baby, won’t you hold me in your arms?
A thousand stars in the sky make me realize
You are the one love that I’ll adore
Tell me you love me
Tell me you’re mine once mo-o-re (I-I-I’m yours)
2006-09-29 16:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋