Okay I use to date this guy but we broke up after about two months because of his temper. Well we got back together only to be homie lover friends and over 3 years I have gained feelings for him. He recently told me he has a TWO YEAR OLD DAUGHTER!! and the WIFE he was suppose to get a prenup with 3 years ago, he is still married to. I know it sounds like a bit much but he just told me he LOVES me about a month ago(do you know how long I've been waiting to here that) he lives out of state and only calls when he's in town, so how can he love me and what is keeping him from calling me >he says he lives alone! Why am I fighting myself,why can't I let him go???
2006-09-29 08:55:37 · 25 answers · asked by Mycan Moneek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIRL LISTEN UP!!! STOP BEING HIS ON CALL IDIOT!!! EITHER HE'S GONNA BE WITH YOU OR HE'S NOT!!! GET THE STRAIGHT SH** FROM HIM!!! AREN'T YOU TIRED OF THAT BULLSHIT WAITING GAME??? WHILE YOU'RE OUT HERE WAITING< WHERE THE F**K IS HE??? HUH??? HE JUST MIGHT BE DOING HER!!! WAKE UP SWEETE!!!
2006-09-29 09:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He must be putting the dick down proper for you to go back to a dude who had a temper and then three years later tells you he has a child and is still married. You need to find it in yourself to stop depending on this dude for love and affection you need to love yourself more before you get hurt by this guy it sounds like you probably all ready are! This guy is a f***ing loser leave him alone! I dated a guy who constantly lied to me or I found out he wasn't telling the whole truth about something new and he would always come up with that I Love You B.S. You don't need a man to Love you when you're not happy. And how can you love someone you really don't know, you really can't say you know him when he didn't tell you all this from jump, if he has this family he's been lying to you about and if he doesn't call unless he's in town and you can't call him he probably still has that family in whatever town he lives in. Sweety, You need to get a grip and realize that this guy is using you for the sex!
2006-09-29 16:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you call him? Have you ever been to his home? Why didn't he tell you? Honestly, He's shady. I don't know why you can't let him go, but you probably have some insecurity issues that you need to deal with. You need to find out whether or not this is how it's going to be always. And if it is, are you going to settle for it? I feel like you are wasting valuable time on someone who in the end, will end up being nothing to you. What exactly does he do for you? You don't see him all the time. You don't speak to him all the time. He doesn't live in your state. So what exactly does he do for you? It seems like he just comes around when he's in town, gives you what you want, and leaves. What type of relationship do you want? It seems like what you two have is not a relationship, it seems like an affair. And no offense, I'm not trying to be mean. I just want you to look at the way it is.
2006-09-29 16:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you always want what you cant have... and that something you just cant have, for the simple fact he does not live near you... and you knoe what he has no intention's on leaving his wife because as much as he denies loving her he does because it does not take a person three years to divorce someone and he does live with his wife... he doesnt love you... he loves what you are giving him... come honey you have to be smarter than that dont be naive or gullible becuz even though it feels good to hear those words why did it take him so long and why do you want to hear it from someone who is basically neglected you and only using you as his doormate cuz im pretty sure he doesnt check up on you he only calls you when he is need to see you and get sum WAKE UP
2006-09-29 16:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a wife, you really need to not speak to him ever again. Tell him that he is never allowed to contact you again. Then if he does, do not fight or chat, just hang up. He obviously does not respect his wife or any other women, because if he did, he would not continue this with you. If you continue, you will end up like his wife. You are a homewrecker if you shoose to continue this. This is the reason why you NEVER date a person who is sill married, even if they are divorcing.. Until the divorce is final, you don't date them.
2006-09-29 16:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I'm a guy, I don't have an answer but an opinion, well. us men are very different from women, women fell in love through "words." and "touch",
in short "emotions", does that answer the question why you can't let him go.
Us "men" are preoccupied with looks. uh? and heart?
you can check out the book " He's not into you" by Greg
there are pitfalls and dangers of Love
Be Careful
2006-09-29 16:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lee, Marvin Tang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Nia 24
2006-09-29 16:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to let him go and move on, never be second best.I think hes using you and you can find better- someone who will give you what you need or your time not there's..He's a liar and a cheat why would you want him if he cheats on his wife hes going to cheat on you. I always think of karma what comes around goes around.....
2006-09-29 16:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking at the reason your life will be so screwed up next year. If you waste any more time with Mr. Dysfunction, You are crazy
2006-09-29 16:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
You should have seen through him 3 years ago, and you also should have not let him rob you of your self-respect.
I would say that lack of self respect on your part is why you are holding onto this irresponsible loser.
Move on!
2006-09-29 16:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you don't believe that you are worth more than that!!
You want to be with him because he isn't availbale to you-if he became 100% available, you wouldn't want him anymore, because you wouldn't be able to trust him.
You need to start to realize that you are worth more than a part time relationship with a man that obviously isn't faithful.
2006-09-29 16:08:32 · answer #11 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋