I wanna kiss my boyfriend and we haven't kissed yet, I haven't had my first kiss, and we've been dating for almost 2 months. How do I know if I should kiss him or not? How do I kiss him? How would I know if he wants to kiss me too? Please Help!!
PS-Would it be okay if I asked my bf's best friend if he knew?? I haven't yet but Im wondering if I should.
2006-09-29 08:46:31 · 18 answers · asked by Sally 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lots of intelligent questions to an obviously sensitive situation.
First of all, this is important:
DO NOT ask your bf's best friend if he know!!!! No one except you and your boyfriend should know what either of you are thinking as so long as it relates to anything intimate between you two. If you ask his friend, he's going to gossip about you and eventually there will be a misunderstanding.
Ok, now that I've cleared that up, let's focus on the kissing:
It is important that he kisses you and not vice versa. If you make the move on him, he will not have truly chosen to be intimate with you. Your job is to make him want to seduce you. You can do little things to help him out by being closer to him, but he has to initiate it. The kiss will feel better to you and him if it happens this way. Use your influence into directing his thoughts and his attention to your lips. Girls are very good at doing this.
As for how to kiss him? Well, just focus all of your love, passion, feelings, emotions, and expression into the kiss and believe me, he will feel it.
2006-09-29 08:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw I havent had my first kiss yet either! So I cant give you advice on how to kiss him. But dont feel rushed into it, it will feel right when the time comes. 2 months is a good amount of time, you should feel comfortable and ready when you have your first kiss. I dont think his friend is the best person to ask though, confide in another good friend. Good luck hun, wish me luck too k?
2006-09-29 08:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think should ask his bf cus he'd kno what he likes if they are really that cool. Tha best time to share you 1st kiss is n a special moment, Like if yall was out on a date or just walkin through tha park. You can tell all mens actions from their eyes. Ask him how he feels about you and then you can go form there. Dont be nervous girl cus i wish my first kiss was special..cus when i shared it i lost my virginity to but with a dood i didnt care for.
2006-09-29 08:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by miss_ghetto_star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask his best friend at all because once you let someone into your personal life they'll never leave. Keep your bedroom business between you and that person. Kissing isn't planned, its just something that happens. So don't pla it, just allow it to happen whneevr it does and hopefully it'll be a great experience. Good Luck!
2006-09-29 08:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually in simple terms relax, you won't be able to truly do some thing incorrect, in simple terms be particular you've sparkling breath, seem into his eyes and lean in. right that is a few issues i have discovered out through kissing: -bypass sluggish to commence, you're a lot less likely to sense clumsy and awkward in case you commence with smooth comfortable kisses -USE YOUR fingers no longer in the kiss promptly for sure, yet contact him(no longer his dick quickly). commence through resting your hand on the again of his neck/head, and in case you get extra into it gently tug on his hair(adult males bypass wild). you could also relax a hand on his shoulder or thigh if it makes you extra smooth. -SMILE at him once you pull aside and seem into his eyes good luck, you'd be high quality xx i'm continually chuffed to assist in case you want to examine with me
2016-12-04 01:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if u can kiss him the next time you are alone together. don't ask the friend. he is your bf's friend not yours so just keep it between u and him. if too scared to ask straight out then try kissing him on the cheek and see how that works out.
2006-09-29 08:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should make the first move but if he does not u do it now there is no way he will not want a kiss from u if he likes u
2006-09-29 08:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a frickin KISS! Kisses are meaningless. Just do it.
By the time you're legal, you'll see... kissing is totally first date material.
2006-09-29 08:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to kiss your just kiss him no need to ask suggestion to his friend. Nobody will hesitate to take a kiss from a girl.
2006-09-29 08:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by md m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you want to kiss him. on the lips would be a good start to kissing. nobobys an expert the first time thats how you learn
2006-09-29 08:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Norz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋