How do I bring it up?

Question

How do I bring up the status with my ex and I without scaring him away? We're sleeping together now but I'm sure we have feelings for each other, but it's just that we agreed to see other people. How can I talk about this with him without getting all relationshipy again? This is really hard.

Answer 1

Not to sound judgemental, but that is why people should not sleep with eachother unless they are in some sort of exclusive relationship. You should talk to him. YOu know deep down how he will react. Remember why you broke up in the first place before you jump in head first. YOu can tell him how you feel and risk him saying no, he prefers your previous arrangements or he could feel the same way, You need to decide if it is worth the risk or if you could live with your feelings. I would take a shot and not waste anymore time wondering. Good luck

Answer 2

Sex is probably clouding your thoughts. Spend time with him without having sex and see what the relationship is like. Let's face it: you two broke up for a reason. Maybe the attraction was purely physical but you both want to be "relationshipy" with someone and you are comfortable and convenient for each other.

Answer 3

Why don't you wait & see what happens next....just "go with the Flow" I know its hard not knowing what the "status" is but sometimes not having it defined makes you understand your relationship better.
Good Luck sweetie

Answer 4

hi :) i think you should take it naturally like some1 just said go with the flow and hopefully it should work out great .but prehaps if you mention it he may get worried and back off a bit ? but its upto you good luck :)

Answer 5

Confess feelings and hope for the best

Answer 6

Just don't do it after sex, sit that cat down make some dinner and do the damn thang