We broke up because of a silly reason, I left her, tried to rebuilt the relationship later, she didn't want to try again, but askef for time for herself, and in the mean time she was saying I was not available but I was not taken and for 2 and 1/2 months I tried everything to have her back and I couldn't. We finally split and she asked me to not to contact her, that she may contact me in 6 months if she was still missing me. On week 3 she called me using an excuse that was not important enough to break the silence she asked to have between the two of us, and said that she was missing me and then took what she said back right away. 3 more weeks has passed and haven't heard from her. I think if I call her and I go after her as I was in the 2 and 1/2 months I will lose her forever, I think she just wants me to being after her like some of the ones she used to date. I do like her and I think I still love her. Is the fact of not contacting her working on my favor?
2006-09-29 08:12:26 · 12 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I still love her and I want to be with her, should I remain in silence and wait for another call (I think that if she wants me, she will come to me, that's why I am saying that). Why this would be happening if she didn't want to be together when I asked her time ago.
2006-09-29 08:14:34 · update #1
She doesn't want you back that bad, she is just liking the fact that you are still around in case she gets lonely. That's why she is afraid to let you go, she wants something more, but if she doesnt get it than her back-up plan (you) is gone.... sorry man. You deserve better!
2006-09-29 08:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by imix3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't contact her. She will contact you. However, you can put your pride aside, and try to make it work. If she doesn't want to get back together, well then never call her again. Why did she call you? Was she lonely? Was she drunk? In reality, at this point, what do you have to lose? You're not with her or talking to her. So if she says "no" is it going to make a big difference? And if she does say no, then don't ever bother her again. Don't even pick up her calls.
2006-09-29 15:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay look here now you will get over it.Right now it seems really bad,If your a young guy, live and let live.Time will heal the wounds but you need to take time now and see if you want to chase after her and play her game or take time to breath and take care of you keep occupied start hanging with your boys and enjoy your freedom.Remember what's for you is for you and if she 's for you you guys will find back each other.Don't run into another relationship but have fun date and make friends and time will heal your wounds.Take time for yourself and meet new people enjoy life and if it's meant to be it will be.That's something no one can stop.Don't force it however.
2006-09-29 15:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by prettydre25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on there is someone for every one and she is loving the fact tha you are chasing her, once she realized what a good thing she lost she will come back, but then maybe it wasnt meant to be god always has a plan for your good, but right now your sprung you will get over her
2006-09-29 15:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by ljeh1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not contact her. Don't play her game cause thats all this is. She doesn't know what she wants. And if she doesn't know for sure if she wants you, then the relationship probably isn't worth another shot at. Good Luck!
2006-09-29 15:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Scarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You THINK you still love her.
You might want to continue to THINK about that because most girls don't like that sort of uncertainty.
It sounds like she just likes you around for her lonely nights. I suggest you keep moving and stop waiting around for her.
2006-09-29 15:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there's nothing there for you. Get on with your life and find yourself a new girl. You don't need the hide and seek you guys are playing now.
2006-09-29 15:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advice i can give you is:
just wait she'll call you! if you dont thik about her maybe time will past by and she'll be waiting at your door ready to take you back
2006-09-29 15:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She asked you to leave her alone so just do that. If she wants you whe will contact you
2006-09-29 15:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on to someone else.
2006-09-29 15:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Privatize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋