i am not sure what to do. i want to go further with my boyfriend but i dont know how far. we like each other alot. can u help?
2006-09-29 08:12:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not do it yet..
But if you must, ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! Correctly!
There are other things that you can do before having intercourse such as kissing and making out (and believe it, these can be A LOT more satisfying for you!).
And no, NOT everybody is doing it.
You won't be with this guy forever, so just save yourself for later on..
WAIT until you are SURE and you feel totally comfortable. Trust me.
Be safe girl!
2006-09-29 08:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old you are first off. I can't reccomend having sex too young it screws you up (from my experience) and peer pressure isn't the best reason to do it.
"like each other a lot" also isn't quite the same as pure love. but then there aren't many people in the world having sex for pure love, it's no longer an expression of love and devotion become more like "something to do when there's nothing on the TV" which is a shame.
you're the only person who can truly know how special you want your life to be,
2006-09-29 15:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by rchlbsxy2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything that you are not comfortable with. Talk to your boyfriend about it, if he cares he will understand and respect your decision. Talk it over discuss it and then try and comprehend whether whatever you do is right and what the implications maybe. Communicating between each other is the best way forward. If unsure dont do anything!! x
2006-09-30 13:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Y! Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are under 16 then wait a while. I have asked some boys if they respect girls who go bit further as soon as they meet or few months later. All of them said no. They like girls who are reserves type and wait. Of course they do not mind if girls let go of them. but it's kind of using the girls for their needs. Like using the toilet. ( sorry for this expression)
2006-09-29 16:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by shiningstar2808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go as far as u want. And if it gets scary really quick then u know not to try that for awhile.
2006-09-29 15:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go further where? Utah? Nevada? Texas? Alaska?
2006-09-29 15:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell him that you won't to raise the bar and move on in your relationship. Because you never know he could be thinking the same thing as you. Good luck
2006-09-29 15:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know when the right time will be.
If you are having doubts, maybe now is not the right time.
Wiat a bit longer, it could make the realtionship stronger, more of a bond between you both
2006-09-29 15:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Rebz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not sure then you're not ready. if you wait then you won't regret it but once you go further you can't make it unhappen. no-one ever regrets waiting and if a guy loves you he'll wait too.
2006-09-29 15:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go all the way...rip his clothes off and climb the flag pole...bark at the moon as he raids you from behind...
by the way, are you old enough to raise the child you may be creating?
THINK ABOUT THAT BEFORE YOU REACH FOR THAT BRA!
2006-09-29 15:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋