heres the situation. Guy at work.Handed him no strings attached sex, which is what i wanted at the time . he Came over it didnt happen.he wanted to get to know me first. since then it has happende a couple of times. he's sent texts saying he wants to make an effort to get to know me etc. i ask him over again. he's always busy. he only replies to text/emails that seems to suit him. i ask him why he says he doesnt meanto its just the way he is. if i dont text/mail him i get nothing, yet continues to look me up and down go out of his way to walk past and smile at me. im confused? he says one thing does another, and acts something else. i cant confront him cos at the end of the day i did only suggest some no strings fun. but now i like him a lot. suggestions?
2006-09-29 08:12:33 · 10 answers · asked by girly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be very careful, you may like him but it sounds to me like he is holding you up to your end of the bargain. I suggest trying to find someone else to have feelings for. :)
2006-09-29 08:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by T C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off , he tried to give you the respect you didn't have for yourself. Try respecting yourself first . Sex with no strings attached means your a cheap un-paid whore who is out for only one thing . To show people how to be a slot without any strings attached . Now you think this is the guy you want . He already knows your MO. You'll do any one that has a penis and not even give it a second thought . You tell me if I came on to you and had sex just right out of the blue . That I was that easy to let you do me on the spot. Would that be a attraction for a future spouse .
He's not answering you because he already got what he wanted from you. Are you Blond ??????
2006-09-29 08:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear u gt ur self into a mess pull urself out ask im the question is he in love with u if not ditch ur feelings for hiim or u will end up being humiliated and hurt
2006-09-29 08:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Charlotte.♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, initially i had the same problem, but mine never worked out for a lack of communication but we figured it out after we broke it off for a while that we really liked each other - for more than just the sex, and it turned out that all we really needed was a break
2006-09-29 08:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by dads_lil_girl_90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably timid about the idea of a workplace relationship. They can end in bad ways ("Never dip your pen in company ink").
2006-09-29 08:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's afraid of committing himself to just you with his "busy" schedule.
2006-09-29 08:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lone Eagle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon,just keep showin' him your t*ts & he'll eventually come around!
2006-09-29 08:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you the truth i think he is really confuseing and you shouldn`t waste your time with him!
2006-09-29 08:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by sugersugersuger4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to here
2006-09-29 08:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's shy. have lunch with him or something.
2006-09-29 08:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋