It's disgusting the way I've let you talk to me, and use me.
It's not going to happen anymore.
I have been with incredible people and even though they've been great, haven't wanted to move forward with them. . .why? because I've loved you. .
You can't treat me the way you have anymore. . . I'm to good for it.
Because I'm not trash.
I deserve better.
I'm curious what you have to say about me to your friends. . .
you know what?
I loved you with all my heart and I tried to make things right.
If anything I am stupid for that.
Treating me like a commodity when I am in fact a beautiful, intelligent woman
is not something I'm willing to accept from anyone.
Even you.
My *** has certainly been used, by you. . .
But, I'm not worthless as a result.
I'm stronger, better, smarter.
If you can't see a good thing, that is your problem, not mine.
If you can't see how insulting, and degrading you have been to me for quite sometime now, and realize that is a justification for my reaction yesterday. . .
than you are plain and simply ignorant.
2006-09-29 07:38:36 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well done sweetie, couldn't of put it beter myself, eventually he'll get whats coming 2 him, he won't c what he has or better yet had until your gone, by then it will b 2 late, people tend 2 take advantage of u when your a nice person, they think they can get away with it, what they don't realize is u shouldn't take kindness 4 a weakness, u did the right thing, hope your having a better day, ttyl.
2006-09-29 08:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl.Thats deep. Im sorry you have had to put up with that kind of ****. Noone should have to. Im glad you are strong enough to let that so called man alone. I hope thats what you are doing. And yes you deserve to be treated like a queen.not a piece of crap. Good for you and dont let your guard down for a second.I wish you all the luck and hope you find a great guy someday soon.
2006-09-29 14:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are looking to have people tell you whether you are right or wrong for saying it - because I believe you know the answer to your own question. The way that you write to "him" says that you know your position is the "right" for you and no one can change that. We don't know the situation (I am guessing he went wrong in your relationship) but you expressed your feelings to this man in clear somewhat poetic form. I don't think you are asking for us to tell you that you were right or not because you and only you can decide that but rather I think you are looking for some stable support with your action... and in that I give you my support, because any person who makes anyone feel less than what they are, deserves to know that they did that, and that the person who was hurt feels the way they do and why. In other words if he hurt you he deserves to know what hurt you and why you are walking away from your words - no one elses.
2006-09-29 14:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bena the bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..you go girl! :)
I think it was the exact right thing to say. It looks like you said what you feel. If he can't accept that..then it's his problem! No one should treat anyone like that..and you did a great job of being firm and not wanting to put up with it.
2006-09-29 14:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rozlyn P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bravo! I am very proud of you. I stayed with someone who treated me like this for 14 years and had 4 kids with him. You go find someone who deserves you and have a great life!
2006-09-29 14:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you nailed it on the head. Now... you just need to come to NYC... and I'll introduce you to a real man.
EDIT - HEY!!! Write to my e-mail address, offensivetoall@yahoo.com
This stupid Yahoo! Answers thing wont let me answer you, it says your address isn't 'confirmed' or something. And I do want to talk to you.
2006-09-29 14:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... that is beautiful what you just said. can i use that on my girlfriend? my girlfriend kinda...slightly treats me like that, well not really. we're just far apart and everything she does wrong seems so terrible. but wen we broke up, i wish i could've sed that to her. but honestly, that's pretty mean. u should break up if u feel dat way. i did and it feels great
2006-09-29 14:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by pogiboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Fory's, Very nicely done.You said what you had to say,in a nicely matter.I don't think i would of been that nice. A Friend...
Clowmy
2006-09-29 14:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the letter it is very heartfelt that is how i felt with my ex bf and that is how he treated me. i wish u all the best and hope u find a better person
2006-09-29 14:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by ama_rea04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you said the right thing. Way to go.
2006-09-29 14:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋