Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

Im 16 & i live in a small town & things get spread really fast around here & everybody in my family thinks its wrong & most of my friends they wouldn't like not like me cause of it but they would think i was hittin on them...i found out that im bi i had x-perienced with a girl when i was 12 & i liked it & ever since there i have been liking girls & i recently told mi x/mi best friend that i liked girls & ovbisley he didn't care but i feel like im living secretly i hate it...what should i do? im plainin on moving ta florida next year with my x so maybe i can meet new people & i can be with girls & nobody will know & it won't get around to mi family...im just confused because i don't know if maybe im not bi & its just a stage or i really am

2006-09-28 05:05:59 · 12 answers · asked by CuTiE WiD A WhOle LoTtA Bo0ty 2 in Singles & Dating

When my daughter along with her husband and two kids 4 and 2 yrs old opened the attachment that contained the pictures of her kids that I had taken, pornographic pictures of people having sex showed up. I am accused of now looking at porn. I have no pornographic files on my computer. How could this have happed. How can I show that I am innocent.

2006-09-28 05:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by guitar man 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My really close friend, who i like and who knew i liked him, dropped out of school and ever since I've been nagging him about it. I dont think its right to screw up your life and drop out but he supposedly has a reason he dropped out. It isnt a family problem...he just hates people at school. I got mad at him and refused to talk to him for several weeks. I'm kind of okay with the whole situation now but still think it's wrong for him to drop out. He told me that i was the only one who cared if he dropped out or not. Is it wrong that I cared or was I just selfish about letting him go?

2006-09-28 05:05:34 · 16 answers · asked by Snap Skittles 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-28 05:04:04 · 7 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

So this is probably the stupidest question you have heard all week. I was talking to my boyfriend and sent him this pic and we started talking about all kinds of things and then I said to him "God I love you so much". The reply he gave me was "Me too". Does this mean he loves me so much too or does this mean he loves himself so much? So many mixed signals I'm not sure what to think.

2006-09-28 05:03:56 · 14 answers · asked by glittering_angel0 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 05:02:32 · 26 answers · asked by sap 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have got a curvy/slim figure but I’ve got big boobs for my age making me look like a glamour model in what ever I wear, which I hate and I think its why older men are attracted to me, and some of them can be scary, so I hate walkin places alone due to what I’ve heard on the news, am I just really paranoid?

2006-09-28 05:02:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so heres the thing.. my parents found out i've been skippin school with my bf and now i ain't even allowed to see him or talk to him besides in school. we are still 2gether but both our parents don't wanna let us be. we both agreed to runaway but we are only 16 .should we runaway just to be happy?we don't have a job,car or anything. what should we do 4now to get out of our houses?

2006-09-28 05:02:05 · 11 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this kind of question without further explanation is not easy to answer but i'll take my chances (it can be like a fortune cookie), may be somebody can say something inspiring and helpful (and get 10 point by the way)

2006-09-28 05:01:47 · 5 answers · asked by johannsinuhe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A girl & a boy are only good frnd. Nothing special in the relation. What's ur think? Is it possible for a lifelong frndship? Or the frndship turns into love later?

I think it's possible because a true frnd is only a true frnd nothing else.

2006-09-28 05:01:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok there is this guy i like and he is in the 11 grade and im in 9th and he thinks im 2 young 4 him how do i convince him im not 2 young please help he dosent know how much i love him or my feelin im just really embarassed 2 tell him

2006-09-28 05:00:27 · 6 answers · asked by xxholistergurlxx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 04:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by mich 3 in Family

were going to my husbands 30th runion and he was a big shot in highschool and is very outgoing and he is putting on the party , i was very shy and still don't like talking to people , i don't want to ruin his fun what should i do hide in the restroom,i have a 300 dollar dress having my hair makeup and nail done and new boobs and a full face lift but i still feel icky i don't like meeting people what can i do he spent a lot of money on me , i feel bad

2006-09-28 04:59:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend and i fight all the time we fight about everything from sex to football i hate to fight but he seems to always pick them with me. i tried to talk things out but it only makes them worse. he has hit me once or twice but i don't want to break up.. is there anyway to make thing work. we dso love each other..

2006-09-28 04:59:08 · 42 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Singles & Dating

I decided to clear my heart with an old friend, my boyfriend took it in a negative way and moved out. A few days later I told him we can move forward in our relationship because I've taken care of old business. He had already promised his ex he would give her another chance and now he feels he has to stick with that because he gave her his word. He's actually in love with me but won't break his word to the ex. She propose to him, he accepted and they're getting married in 3 weeks. He won't stay away from me. He calls, texts, everyday confessing his love to me. I love him and it hurts because I know he really loves me.

2006-09-28 04:58:29 · 12 answers · asked by sqeaky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just an unscientific survey

2006-09-28 04:57:31 · 16 answers · asked by mindtelepathy 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 04:56:53 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i personally believe that nowadays friendship r not deep and young people r more selfish.

2006-09-28 04:56:18 · 10 answers · asked by chandru 1 in Friends

2006-09-28 04:55:37 · 24 answers · asked by Mark C 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this woman for a week. We have seen each other every single day since last Friday. We are going out again tonight and tommorow night. Given the intensity of the relationship- and how much we click, is it too soon to ask her to spend the night. I'm not talking about sleeping either- I want to make love to her so bad I can't stand it. Any thoughts?

2006-09-28 04:55:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 04:55:24 · 52 answers · asked by strawberry hill 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont mean she died. I have a friend that I have known for 13 years. She lived here for 9 years then moved away. Just recently she came back for about 5 months to stay while her husband was stationed at a base for police academy. In those 5 months we became REALLY close again. My son LOVES her, she came and did everything with us and helped me have a friend again which I dont really have that many anymore. Well of course she had to go back home and I am really sad! I mean really sad. It sucks, its like I had a friend again other than my husband, someone I could talk to everyday and laugh with about girl things and she played with my son all the time etc.. etc.. i just wonder if its not normal to be this sad? It seems weird to me that I am taking it this hard. I am planning on visiting her in about 5 months but I just really wanted her to stay.

2006-09-28 04:54:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK this is the deal me and my b/f was together for about a month before he left to go to the military we got really close while he was here and I decided I would wait for him until he came back. But slowly but surely we started to argue alot we would go 3 or 4 days without talking and when we did talk he was rude and disrespectful and eventually would just hang up on me. I would call his phone and leave messages and he would never return my call. Then I go online one day to his myspace page and it says he is single and he has nothing but females leaving him messages. Not only does he has 1 myspace account he has another that says he is single but that one says he is located in texas where his base is. We have gotten better but I still have not talked to him in over a week we send emails back and forth but thats all. I mean am I going crazy and just over reacting or does it sound like he has found someone to occupy his time and is putting me on the back burner.

2006-09-28 04:53:50 · 17 answers · asked by MizModelMaterial 1 in Singles & Dating

We were together over 10 years, we had children. I confronted him and he admits to being gay. During marriage he tells me he was in love a few times - with men I knew and are also married - had an affair with at least one married guy for about 18 months. Had numerous one night stands. We divorced and he remarried a woman. He now tells our son that he had a bisexual experience and it was a "lapse of judgement and loss of control" and he says he is a bisexual. He seems to think that makes it "better". Don't care if he's gay - I would have supported his lifestyle if that's what he chose. But is he gay or is he bisexual?

2006-09-28 04:53:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met a guy that i was very very attracted to just a week ago today.. the night i met him at the bar we just kinda kept looking at eachother until we finally talked and then on saturday we saw eachother again at the club and i gave him my number. well sunday night he called me and wanted to hang out but i didn't really want to because i didn't feel good so monday he called again and wanted to hang out so i did. we went for a ride on his bullet bike, went to his house, cuddled up on a love sack & watched a movie. we didn't do anything extreme we just kissed a little here and there and it was cute, so here's my question-- do you think after just that amount of time i could already feel something for him and have it be right? i can't get him out of my head and that has never happened in this short amount of time, so please give me some good advise!. serious answers please

2006-09-28 04:53:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy, who I think is awesome for awhile....
Things are going really well. We met through his sister, so I know the family, and hang out with them regularly. It's been great! I have had awesome conversations with this guy about life, and goals, and even marriage and kids. (the stuff you normally avoid talking about because it freaks everyone out!!!) We seem compatable on almost everything, and hold deep respect for eachother's differences.
The thing is, he is finishing his last bit of school right now, and will only be home every other weekend.(I can visit some weekends in between) Then, he will be going directly into the Army, applying as an officer-- not enlisting, but as a career choice.
I will be finishing my master's degree while he is on tour. So, my question is, considering the long distance, could this work?
I know we both are dating to find out if we are right for marriage, but how could we know with the distance involved?

2006-09-28 04:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that I'm pregnant. I haven't told the father yet, but we had already decided to get married before it happened. This wouldn't seem like a big problem but for the fact that he's in the military and will be leaving for a year tour in Iraq in March- right around the time the baby will be born. How do you tell a guy that they're going to have a child that they won't get to see for the first year of it's life?

2006-09-28 04:52:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-28 04:52:47 · 13 answers · asked by rdelgado34 1 in Marriage & Divorce

fingers my anus during oral and/or intercourse - I can't get into either now that I'm constantly worried he's going to invade me. I've mentioned that it's uncomfortable and that I bleed the next day - but it's like he doesn't hear me. I love him and don't want to hurt his feelings, but this has got to stop. How can I tell him, firmly yet with kindness, that I don't enjoy it - and make him hear me?
Serious answers only please.

2006-09-28 04:51:57 · 42 answers · asked by AngG 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm married with one 2 yrs old daughter. i'm 2 years married also. my problem is my wife. she has this attitude that i can't bear. everytime we have a little argument she can't help but end up shouting. which i find very scandalous. just this past few days we also had a little argument and i tried to avoid talking with her. what happened was she keeps on telling our helpers bad things about me. there are some secrets or matters that should be kept only by spouses.. so i decided to tell her frankly that my love for her has gone. since she don't seem to respect me anymore.. and i want a legal separation since there's no absolute divorce here in the philippines. do you think i have a valid reasons or requisites 4 legal separation?

2006-09-28 04:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by $$$ 1 in Marriage & Divorce