i personally believe that nowadays friendship r not deep and young people r more selfish.
2006-09-28 04:56:18 · 10 answers · asked by chandru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is all in how you look at it and how the people involved define friendship. It is best not to try to apply outdated standards of conduct and morality to today's youth. They face challenges and social and cultural influences we would have thought impossible a few years ago. Best to confine your rules to you and the people with whom you deal or you will end up that old man at the end of the road screaming about the good old days and how kids today don't appreciate anything. Do you remember what you thought of that person when you were young?
2006-09-28 05:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When choosing "true" friendships...set standards.
There is a difference in being friendly with someone, and true friendship.
In order to have "true" friendships, you must be willing to give of yourself, and you also have the right to expect the same in return.
It often takes time to develop "true" long lasting friendships.
Teenagers sometimes take their friends for granted, but as they move into adulthood, they realize how important it is to have "true" friendships.
You will make many friends in your life, and if you have just 2-3 "true" life long friendships...count yourself blessed.
Good Luck and remember..you are your own "best" friend..so love yourself....your one of a kind!
2006-09-28 12:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by swampfox conservative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with u.... true friends are those who help u in need, do not stop keeping in touch and never forget about uor ignore u... that is so weird that even friends that everyone has known for ages, since a liitle kid, r leaving u and dissapoints u very fast and it really hurts.... who knows how can u find friends now? my opinion is to look for the person that'll have the same tastes, a bit similarity with ur personality, etc. that way there won't be a lot of arguements about misunderstanding each other...
2006-09-28 12:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal_Grape 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with u. Today young people are more selfish because 2day competetion is in always. HONEST peoples r being backward in all ways. HONESTY has no more value. Frankly look around u, the cheaters r there getting ever success. There r exceptional also. But this is the real fact. So, one frnd is there not in frnds need but in their own need. He/She had 2 become successful anyway.
2006-09-28 12:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by RIMA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship is true, but not the people.
2006-09-28 11:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'v come2realise that2 most of them are jus users.
2006-09-28 11:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, i agree with you 100%
2006-09-28 11:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont belive in true friends any more or true love
2006-09-28 11:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by bonnie3bd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you.
2006-09-28 11:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Muffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ı guess you're right, but to some extent only!
2006-09-28 11:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋