I have got a curvy/slim figure but I’ve got big boobs for my age making me look like a glamour model in what ever I wear, which I hate and I think its why older men are attracted to me, and some of them can be scary, so I hate walkin places alone due to what I’ve heard on the news, am I just really paranoid?
2006-09-28 05:02:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not at all trying to boast bcuz its a different perspective wen ur in someone elses shoes...and no..i dont av a brother which is why i think i've become paranoid...and i do wear sports bra but it dont work.
2006-09-29 09:55:52 · update #1
no baby girl, you have the right to be. please try not to walk alone.
2006-09-28 05:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.. I bet you get a lot of grief.. not only from men but from other girls your age as well!!!
I developed early (12) and didn't have a lot of guidence and ended up having sex by the time I was 13!!! So... be proud of your body - don't go the slu**y dress look but don't hide them either. And no matter HOW you look girls should never be walking alone going anywhere!!! always go with someone!!! there is safty in numbers!!
You are justifiably paranoid and you should stay that way!!!
it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders!
2006-09-28 05:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your body is what it is and you should be proud of it. There are bras you can get to help minimize the size of your boobs if you think that would help. I don't think you're being paranoid but if you are careful about where and when you are out alone and you take the proper precautions, you should be fine. Remember, it's always better to be safe than sorry.
2006-09-28 05:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by svg7373 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't paranoid. It's a shame that even if you dress for yourself, you have to realize that the image you project creates a cause and effect.
It would be nice if women could dress how they wanted without repercussion but you cant. Men like big boobies. If yours are displayed with cleavage for all the world to see then they are going to look at them and want to touch them.
It's just the nature of the beast.
2006-09-28 05:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Muffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not. If you are survy for your age then I suggest wearing things that will cover you up a little better. No cleavage revealing tops, etc. Not much else you can do but make sure you either dont walk in places where there are few people or dont walk alone.
2006-09-28 05:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be proud of ur body, most girls would kill to look like what ur describing :o) just be careful....no ur not just being paranoid, there are a lot of sick people out there these days, so just be careful. and carrying some pepper spray or a switchbalde wouldnt hurt either...(i carry a switchblade cuz i dont know where to get pepper spry from lol) and never walk alone epecially not at night...good luck and be safe :o)
2006-09-28 05:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, Caution is always the correct answer. The second you let your guard down is when you get takin advantage of. Just don't let it overpower your life. If your looking over your shoulder every 2 seconds, litteraly, you may need to calm down a bit.
2006-09-28 05:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by BigSdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, you can never be too careful in this creepy world with psycho dudes walkin around, i would take someone with you all the time-- do you have a big brother? they'd do the most damage if anything ever happened to you
2006-09-28 05:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you are probably being a little over paranoid BUT there are some weirdos out there.
You should feel good about being attractive rather than freaking out about it.
2006-09-28 05:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't. I was the same way when I was younger. I had a D cup by the time I was 12. I had men as old as 31 hitting on me, drove me bonkers!
2006-09-28 05:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress appropriatly, how old are you? Dress to tone down your chest and wear fitting clothes but not tight. Wear colors like reds, blues, and violets. They are dark enough to tone down your assets but still be pretty, dark colors on bottom. make sure you don't go anywhere dark by yourself. Take a self defense class and just be proud of who you are.
2006-09-28 05:05:55 · answer #11 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋