Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

Talk to me about this great obsession with porn. What is it exactly that allows you to look the love of your life in the eyes and tell you they are madly in love with you...only to be on the computer an hour later looking at porn? Is it really and truly something seperate from your partner? i mean, do you guys compare us to the porn stars..or wish that's what you had instead....give me any thoughts and input...thank you (do you still love us the same?)

2006-09-28 04:51:30 · 14 answers · asked by justpeachy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 04:50:57 · 5 answers · asked by Cocolocococ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-28 04:50:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband gave me sausages and pre- made hamburger patties for our 4th anniversary! Can anyone beat that or at least come close?

2006-09-28 04:50:04 · 26 answers · asked by cats/eyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 04:49:49 · 17 answers · asked by philanthropic 1 in Singles & Dating

my gfriend boobs r getting biger day by day & we dont make love that often.
is it normal?or should i suspect infidelity.

2006-09-28 04:49:44 · 21 answers · asked by fortune 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 04:49:40 · 11 answers · asked by Cocolocococ 2 in Family

I am 21 and have recently decided to try dating (for the first time - especially now that i have graduated). Since i have not been interested in this aspect, just wanted some advice from both genders on what is the best way?

2006-09-28 04:48:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy has been chasing me for years!!i really like him but ive heard that hes a player. Does he really like me as hes been chasing me for so long or is it all about the chase and nothing else?

2006-09-28 04:48:33 · 13 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 04:48:25 · 23 answers · asked by X.hel.X 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 04:48:21 · 11 answers · asked by kkj 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 2.5 yr old step daughter, and i can't seem to bond with her, even though she lived with me her whole life (2) I get so impatient with her, and i see my self often getting irritated at her. I have a daughter of my own who is the same age, and i look at her in differnt way. I don't get impatient with her, and i'm not irritated by her crying when she does. On the other hand, step daughter tantrums drive me nuts (her crying does) My husband says and has seen that i often baby (as he calls it) my daughter more then my step daughter (which is more like mine) I don't know why i feel this way, and what i should do. I want to have the same bond with my step kid, as i do with my biological kid..what should i do?? am i crazy to think this way?? help me How long does it take to bond with your stepchild?? should i go and see counsler??

2006-09-28 04:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by kayt 1 in Family

2006-09-28 04:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by natasha 3 in Singles & Dating

Do guys like it when a girl plays hard-to-get? What are some things I should do?

2006-09-28 04:46:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 04:46:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in love with a girl i introduce my friend to her i dont know that my friend.want to love her then in two weeks time i see my friend in love with her then i decided to STOP LOVING HER.................

2006-09-28 04:46:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my husband has ben together 13 years we have 3 beauitful children but lately I have been talking to another man and I have felling in love with him. No I have not slept with this man, we just have a really good time together. My husband and me just dont have fun or he does tell me he loves me or anything at all. He's become very boring.Please help I don't know what to do.

2006-09-28 04:46:03 · 15 answers · asked by rivasw2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex is getting served papers today for full custody and I am soooooo scared....I understand (logically) that if he tries something, he can be in trouble. I am just wondering if there is anyone else out there that feels or has felt this way? I am a nervous wreck, shaking, clammy palms, and I am watching the clock to see when it is getting close to him getting off of work and being there when it is served.......he is going to be livid. I cannot get a protective order unless, he makes threats, what if that is too late?

2006-09-28 04:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by NolaDawn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

As you already know, my relationship sucks. I have a large pregnant girlfriend who beats me up physically and verbally and I work at the post office.

I found a used condom under the sofa 2 days ago after coming home from work. I asked and suspect my girlfriend cheating on me, and about the used condom, and she turned the used condom against me, saying Im cheating on her with a GUY, cause no way the condom is mine...its one of those extra magnum condoms. I need to be 100% sure she is cheating on me. What can I do now?

2006-09-28 04:43:20 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am engaged 2 a great man. I am so much in love with him & I think about him all the time. He likes 2 talk friendly with girls. When we go 2 the store together I always noticed him being overly friendly with girls. He is in his late 30's & I am in my mid 30's. Sometimes some of these girls look like they are teenagers. But I feel threatened by it. He also travels for work & I fear he is going 2 be friendly with girls out of town & they might missunderstand him. He even asked one girl at a store what church she goes to & he told me that she was cute then he said not as cute as me. Then the next day he went to the same store to buy something 4 me. He was looking at her hard. She looks like a teenager. He tells me that he will never leave me & that I am the best think that has ever happened 2 him & that he loves me more than anything. But I am still worried. I saw an email address he hid from me in his room. I didn't ask. I fear he has email addresses that I don' know about. I'm sad.

2006-09-28 04:43:01 · 27 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Weddings

but I have been in 3 long term relationships, one was almost 8 years, I wanted kids he didn't (I knew he didn't want kids when we started dating)I thought I could change his mind, and his job paid him alot and we went on great trips....the second was 3 years and now this one has been 4 years. I am 44 years old, single own my own home. Have a great job as a SLP, I stay in great shape and I am not bad to look at. WHY won't any of these guys marry me? Is it something I am doing wrong? Should I push them? Do I leave them sooner to give myself a chance to meet somebody else? Maybe guys in Madison Wi just like to be single? Help I need advice.

2006-09-28 04:42:58 · 25 answers · asked by Ames 1 in Singles & Dating

He is nice and handsome Guys.

2006-09-28 04:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so i have been wit this guy for 7 1/2 years (off and on). He has been good to me and bad. Same with me. We tried living together 3 times... Now in the 3rd. Things have gotten bad between us. We can fight and call each other names one day and be lovey dovy the next.. Do i leave him?... The catch is I am now 2 months pregnant!

2006-09-28 04:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a female, 5'7 125 lbs perfect BMI. My wedding is December 16th. There are a few places I would like to lose a little womanly fat like on my tummy, my bum, and my thighs. I did the Body for Life program during the summer so I have some muscles already (especially on my arms) and I don't want them to get any bigger, so I am not going to weight train. If I do a 1,500 calorie diet, take Tonalin CLA, and do my Gazelle for an hour every other day, will I lose a little weight? I just want to get rid of that last body fat, I'm not looking for major weight loss I know I'm healthy.

2006-09-28 04:41:46 · 25 answers · asked by tulsawhite 2 in Weddings

2006-09-28 04:41:37 · 3 answers · asked by airam_k 2 in Friends

if they stand & do.....does that not drip onto their pants ...coz they don't have penis like us ?? right ?

2006-09-28 04:41:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How is your relationship? I love hearing stories about these type of relationships.

2006-09-28 04:41:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im falling for a black girl

is their anything i should know ???

2006-09-28 04:41:17 · 9 answers · asked by lordfatrat 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 04:41:13 · 14 answers · asked by fatboy 1 in Singles & Dating

okay... my fiance and I have an amazing realtionship. Everything about it is perfect...except one thing. Rationally I know that men look at porn, and it has nothing to do with their partner. But on a day to day basis, I find myslef worried sick that he is looking at porn and getting himself off to the images of other women. I want to fix the problem in me, but I can seem to.... How do i fix myself??Do you think counseling would help me ?

2006-09-28 04:40:35 · 12 answers · asked by justpeachy 1 in Marriage & Divorce