I am 21 and have recently decided to try dating (for the first time - especially now that i have graduated). Since i have not been interested in this aspect, just wanted some advice from both genders on what is the best way?
2006-09-28 04:48:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good sex skills
2006-09-28 04:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When going to a bar or where there are other people smile at all of the ones that you think are attractive and if they respond go over to them and introduce yourself. If you don't have the courage straight away then keep looking at them and if they keep looking back know then you have a good chance of not being rejected and go for it. Or you could just hand out your phone number to them all!!!!!
2006-09-28 05:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself!! have some fun! Go out with your friends and if you see someone you like just go over and talk to her. If she knocks you back, so what, everyone has been knocked back at some point or other. Just pick yourself up and move on. You don't need to use cheesey lines, money, designer labels, nothing, just be you and then you'll attract someone who genuinely likes you. Don't make it into a big issue just have fun and good luck!! x
2006-09-28 05:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Oldfruit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first and foremost you have to look the part. lets keep it real here, first impressions are everything and looks are important. dont be a scrub. second, try a group date with a bunch of your friends and a group of girls from work, school, whatever. DONT DRINK TOO MUCH! cant stress that enough. be interesting and just say hi to girls. whats the worst that can happen? she says no? big deal right?
2006-09-28 04:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smell nice! you have to be clean ( most important )
Complements are nice but no cheesy chat up lines, and just be natural, thats the only way you'll find someone who you will truly get along with.
2006-09-28 04:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by AMY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident and feel good about yourself, girls will notice that and one thing will lead to another.... don't act like a perv cause that's a total turn off..... a good sense of humour is a plus and being sweet is another turn on :)
2006-09-28 04:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by malteser*_* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shower, wear deodorant, brush your teeth and for God's sake, change your underwear! There is nothing nastier than skids marks in some guy's drawers.
Oh, and be nice and polite and stuff. Chicks dig it. And don't call women "chicks."
2006-09-28 04:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Muffin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and be funny, girls love funny men, smell good.....you have to be clean, I like a man to smell fresh as a daisy! Nails........please always remember you must have clean, short nails! (unless you work with soil, bricks etc...then of course it's quite hunky to have rough hands)
All the usual stuff like, honesty, clean teeth, breath and if your a good cook well your sorted!!!
2006-09-28 04:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be what ever u are. dont try to imitate someone or dont try to be over polite.be a natural guy,greet them talk to them that's it some or the other will defnitely feel intrested and dates with u.all the best
2006-09-28 04:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by naresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rub lard all over ya body dye ya hair pink and wear a pirates eye patch and flip flops you aint going to pull any ladys but you will deffinatly attract them
2006-09-28 04:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by axemanjase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all women are attracted to a guy that is himself, dont try and be something your not, sex skills have nothing to do with it because that is something you explore with each other and learn new things exploring each other. So be yourself and you will have nothing to worry about ;-)
Good luck babe
2006-09-28 04:54:04 · answer #11 · answered by Secretguk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋