Do guys like it when a girl plays hard-to-get? What are some things I should do?
2006-09-28 04:46:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, not really. and i don't like easy girls either. sometime when playing game. you'll be the one on the losing end. being truethfull and honest would make relationship stronger.
2006-09-28 04:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to get, but obtainable. Remember, we live in a world where if you aren't playing hard to get, and you're actually not interested but trying not to say so, we can be sued for sexual harassment. Make it VERY obvious that you're interested. I mean VERY. Tease, then be shy, then tease a little further, then be shy.
One thing a girl did once that drove me nutz was wearing a skirt, she invited me in, and then sat in such a way that I could see some of her leg, and as we were kissing, she'd guide my hand on her leg, but when I got to he hem of her skirt, she'd stop me, and pull away, and we'd end up sitting on different chairs again, where she would sit in such a way that I could see more of her leg. After a while, her or I would have to get up for something or other, and we'd end up making out again, and every time she let me get a little further up her skirt, and every time she sat down let me see a little further up, until after a while, I found out what she was wearing under it, and after that it wasn't long before she wasn't wearing anything under it at all... and then the fun really started.
One last word of caution, if you're playing hard to get, stop things six steps away from your hard limits if you have any. Remember, you've just spent hours using "no" as a game to try and get him to "make" you say yes, so when you start to say no seriously, he has absolutely no way of knowing you're serious this time, so he's going to go one step further, then one step further, and it might take him a few minutes to go, "Oh, wait, she's not saying yes now..."
2006-09-28 12:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some not all some guys like a challenge and when girls play hard to get it turns them on, While some just dont like a challenge and think other easier girls are there.
2006-09-28 12:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be yourself. Second consider the guy, is he a player? If by hard to get you mean holding out then what for just go down for count, be a slut. But if it means wanting a meaningful relationship then let the normal course run until you feel real emotion and attachment and he proves he is ready to love and appreciated you. However, if you just want to get laid to prove something then be sure to take precaution and have safe sex. Good luck but better yet use your brain, I was going to say "use your head" but I did not want to be misunderstood.
2006-09-28 11:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sailorman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play too hard to get, otherwise personally i would think that you don't want anything.....There's ways and means of playing hard to get, don't ignore the guy, play things subtly as in a little bit of flirting..... if you play too hard to get he will look somewhere else......
That's my personal opinion as a guy.
2006-09-28 11:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by troubled guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different guys have different taste, so i believe it really depends on the type of guy u r into. being a shy guy myself, my personal preference is to have an acknowledgement of my chances wit a certain person. so, my advice to u is to give a JUST ADEQUATE amount of attention to guys. that way, u convey a 2-piece message, i'll like to get acquainted with u but no, i'm not desperate.
2006-09-28 12:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by phaleg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you should do:
1) Write a suicide note.
2) Get naked.
3) Turn on your ceiling fan.
4) Set up a webcam so I can watch.
5) Hang yourself from it.
I think this would be a very entertaining course of actions.
2006-09-28 11:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The longer you make me wait for "IT" the less interested I get. What are you hideing you have to play a game. If you say you don't have anything to hide why do women wear make-up?
2006-09-28 11:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Steve G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant decide somethin like that on (GUYS) it all depends on the guy ur tryin to impress some do some hate it like if u tease to much theyll just give up and move on but if u do it just a lil everynow and then then it should work
2006-09-28 11:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your willing to give in eventually. It's one thing to test the waters with him and another to leave him out to sea.
2006-09-28 11:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋