As you already know, my relationship sucks. I have a large pregnant girlfriend who beats me up physically and verbally and I work at the post office.
I found a used condom under the sofa 2 days ago after coming home from work. I asked and suspect my girlfriend cheating on me, and about the used condom, and she turned the used condom against me, saying Im cheating on her with a GUY, cause no way the condom is mine...its one of those extra magnum condoms. I need to be 100% sure she is cheating on me. What can I do now?
2006-09-28 04:43:20 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHAT? She makes no sense. This question is so easy to answer. She's cheating, u need to leave her. Pregnant or not. You still need to be in your childs life, no doubt. (GET A DNA TEST 1st THOUGH cuz it seems like she's shady) But u dont deserve to be in any relationship where u r being abused and u r being cheated on. Please. Know your own self-worth and let her know that you r letting her GO.
2006-09-28 04:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much more percentage can you get? Of course she is cheating, if its not your condom, and you haven't had any guest that might of did the dirty on your couch, then you can't be more sure than you already are. Sorry, but the truth is the truth. The bad thing I can see, is how long has this been going on, she's pregnant (by who). Let her go, when the baby is born, get a DNA, if the baby is yours, be a good father and support it. Get on with your life, don't set back and let someone sh*t all over you! Good luck and take care of you!
2006-09-28 04:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship sucks, why are still in it? Leave her and get on with it. You can still be there for the child; but if you and her don't get along that is no place for a child to be. First of all it sounds like she has some serious issues. Yes she probably did cheat on you; are you even sure it is your baby? You can't be 100% sure without catching her with him. I would say move on, make sure the baby is yours and if so just be a good Daddy.
2006-09-28 04:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is get your nuts out of her purse. Start acting like a man. Take control of your relationship. Don't go on Yahoo Questions and ask what to do. You are pathetic.
She makes a good point though. I myself wonder if the condom was a from a guy you were with.
2006-09-28 04:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Husker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF it's NOT yours, you know dang well it's her's!! Why let her play games, if you know?? Just because she's pregnant, you don't have to stay with her. Let the condom user be there for her!! As for you being gay.......that's only what you really know. Does it or would it matter if you were? NO!!
If she beats you up, get the hell out of there. Stand on your own 2 feet......be a man! She's a cheat so why wonder longer!!
2006-09-28 04:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? You need to end this relationship. You already know that she is cheating on you and that the condom wasn't yours. That is all you need to know. Don't try to do the "right" thing and stay together for the baby, its not worth it and it will only get worse. Leave your girlfriend and move on with your life. Be there for your child but no one has to put up with that!
2006-09-28 04:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's gay.
She doesn't seem to like YOU very much.
Don't let her beat you up! Stand up for yourself, man!
Or else your apt to go postal and shoot everyone!
Ask her friends if she's cheating. They won't look you in the eye if it's true or they'll have a "deer-in-the-headlights" look as they try to convince you she's not cheating . . . that will mean she is. Sorry, pal. You need a paternity test if you find out she's cheating on you. : (
And get that crazy some counseling before she beats the crap out of your baby, too! It's your responsibility to protect your kid!
2006-09-28 04:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mary* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be real with her sit her down and talk. You need to find out if she has been sleeping around on you because if she has you don't know if that baby is yours or some other guys. If you love her and want it to work you gotta find out the truth no matter what it takes. Follow your heart has she changed? Mabey she didnt cheat mabey she did..... You have to find out. Get the comdom tested. Its alot of money but it would be worth it in the end.
2006-09-28 04:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by I love you! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look out for any abnormal behaviours, like coming home late or go out late night. Then ask two questions. Firstly ask about something in the past that you had the answer, look into her eyes see if its rolls to the left or right. And ask her about the suspicious behaviour that she had. And see if the eye ball rolls and stay at the same same side, if its different, that means she is creating stories for you to enjoy!
2006-09-28 04:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by highdesire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I have no freakin idea what in the hell to tell you...You could contact Maury and have a paternity test done but I am willing to bet that the baby isn't yours or the guy she has been cheating with! Good Luck, I think you are gonna need it!
2006-09-28 04:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋