Family & Relationships - 28 September 2006

He won't let me being too friendly with men and believe the thing called "friendship", cos all of my male friends just want to eat me or steal me away.

2006-09-28 04:11:17 · 28 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I am Planning a beach wedding. I can not afford a Reception at the Beach. I*m inviting my parents and Grandparens along with his and out Bridal Party. we will return home that weekend or following weekend for out reception. My Question is, when Sending Out the Wedding Invites, how to I make People under stand that they are only invited to the reception and not the wedding?

2006-09-28 04:11:01 · 11 answers · asked by missak 1 in Weddings

2006-09-28 04:10:51 · 53 answers · asked by flowerpot 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend/ baby dad have been together for over 7 years and, we don't communcate like we used to,we barely have sex and when we do is because i initiated. but other than that he won't . we don't talk on the phone like we used to. I think we are just used to eachother. i don't know what to do. he may be cheating for all i know. but i don't even have time to check on that, i work all day and at night i go to school full time and on the weekends i spend all my time with my baby. what can i do ?

2006-09-28 04:10:32 · 9 answers · asked by la nena loca 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey guys:
I'm 25 and he just turned 28. I met him on a personal's site and it was love at first sight. We have EVERYTHING in common. We've been together for about 6 mos and and he asked me to move in after 2-3 months of dating. He said he has never asked anyone to move in with him EVER. I know its crazy. We just connect and love eachother insanely. He used to be a party-animal or atleast was, before I met him. He obviously had many gf's that he partied hard with. (From the pics he showed me). He even had a fiance for 2 years that he partied sooo much with. All he did was party.. go to clubs, bars, meets girls at bars. I love to party and always did before I met him. Now... after he met me, he doesn't want to go out anymore. He wants to go out camping, fishing, mountain biking, cruises and occasional bar even a very low-key lounge & stay in & watch movies which is really nice. But why not party anymore? Is it me?? Why the sudden change?? Its so frustrating...

2006-09-28 04:10:14 · 22 answers · asked by Jenna S 2 in Singles & Dating

I need help ammediately! Me and my brothers and sisters are living with this man and woman! They child abuse us! Anyway, my youngest brother has bad asthma and 2 days ago he fainted, at first he was caughing and choking, then he fainted, and stopped breathing! My oldest brother that has to live here tried to run him to the hospital, except he didn't know the way there, and he had to walk there. He was gone for 2 days now! We hadn't heard of any news about our brother! What should we do? Could someone please help me? anyone? Do you think he started breathing again yet? Can someone please walk me through this and help me with each step of what to do? Thanks to all those who do try to help me. Your nice! Just e-mail me if you wanna talk or help!

2006-09-28 04:10:03 · 7 answers · asked by Keven K 1 in Family

She is letting her fifteen year old daughter's nineteen year old boyfriend sleep over. My brother walked in on them and called his mom and my sister in law got pissed so she threw my brother out. I know my sister in law is cheating on him too, she receives Flowers at work and her my space page says she's single. She is just using him too, he pays all the bills and picks the kids up from their activities because her fat a** is too lazy too do anything. My brother is a good looking guy and she is so overweight and wears sweat pants where ever she goes. She hangs out with her daughter and I know she is buying them booze and who knows what else. She needs to grow up and stop acting like a best friend to her daughter. If I call child services will her kids be taken away to a foster home? I want to get help for my neice before she ends up pregnant.

2006-09-28 04:09:58 · 5 answers · asked by GIngin 3 in Family

I REALLY WANT HIM BACK BUT HE SAYS I DO NOT LOVE HIM HOW CAN I MAKE HIM TRUST ME

2006-09-28 04:08:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Was just wondering

2006-09-28 04:08:29 · 7 answers · asked by billyboy 1 in Singles & Dating

Got a friend that was supposed to buy 2 items in a recipe. I bought the other 4 items like weeks ago. These items have not been easy to find. I keep asking her if she bought them and she says, "no." Then makes up 20 excuses as to why she hadn't done so yet. We need these items in like a week. Would you buy the other 2 items and not share or would you go ahead and keep waiting for her to buy them. I don't want to make her mad, but I MUST have these items on time. I just don't think it's right for me to buy everything and her to do nothing. Best advice…10 points in 4 hours.

2006-09-28 04:08:13 · 14 answers · asked by ☮ Erica ☮ 5 in Friends

why are people so uptight about underage drinking? honestly we are just have fun. is it really hirting anyone? no..so wtf is the big deal? & parnets do you allow your kids to drink underage? if not why?..my parents let me drink and im not dead..and im not talking about drinking and driving..i know thats bad..im talkign about at partys

2006-09-28 04:07:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2 months ago I moved into a brand new house that I'm leasing.One of the stipulations of the lease is no pets allowed.Now keep in mind my husband is fully aware of this.And what does he decide to do but bring home a very large great dane.We've had pets in the past and I tolerated them because he wanted them.But this time I said no,because I always end up having to take care of them.And not to mention our landlord said no pets allowed.My idiotic husband doesn't seem to care and he doesn't understand why I'm so furious with him.He's done this several times in the past he'll make a decision without consulting with me first.It's as if my opinion doesn't matter and i'm just an after thought.I tried to explain how I feel about what he's done.But he doesn't get it so my question to everyone is this.Do I have a right to be mad about this?Because I see it as blatant disrespect towards me anyway I'm curious to see just how many people think I'm right or wrong.

2006-09-28 04:06:32 · 28 answers · asked by brooklyncrazysexycool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

careing and loving daughter and every time i come to spend time with her dauther her mom gets jeolous of me because her daugther brags to her mother about how much fun she had her mom is a sagataruis she does not go to work but takes money from her boyfriend i really cared about her daughter but why would her mom show anger towards me being with her daughter? what should i do her mom hung the phone up on me because i told her jthat her own daughter said that you are jelous of me! i was hurt about the disrepect! why owuld she treat me like thta i am a leo the lion i do not deserve this type of treatment! do u think that god will punish her one day for treating me lke i am a bad person when really i am a sweet person! i cared about her mom but soon as she started treating me bad beacause i care about her own daughter!

2006-09-28 04:05:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Been dating a month and already things have cropped up to work on. The good thing is we work through them very well. We are both very communicative. But isn't it kinda early to have things that needed to be worked on?

I should mention that in that month we spend ALOT of time talking.

2006-09-28 04:05:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My very close friend recently discovered that her husband of 9 years (together 13 years), has been having an affair with an ex girlfriend. She found the ex's number on his phone at 3:20 a.m. and called back the next day and heard his ex's name on the voicemail. The ex finally answered after about a week of dodging her and told her everything. How they neve stopped seeing eachother from 13 years ago. They may have a 7 year old daughter together. Actually the ex has been with her own husband for 12 years and he has no clue that their daughter may not be his. The ex says that she still loves my friend's husband and she finds it heard to stay away from him. Meanwhile my friend's husband is taking this to the grave with him and he won't admit anything! not even knowing how his ex got his number. He tells my friend that the ex is must be crazy. We both know that his ex is not lying because she know too many details about their life, homes, events etc. What should she do? She has 3 small kid

2006-09-28 04:04:57 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Consider how you solve your problems, like when your car does not start, for example you probably behave the same way every time? How do you solve a specific problem??

2006-09-28 04:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by PrincessJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

with my new boyfriend. My Ex-Husband is mad about this, but there is really nothing he can do about it. I divorced him because he was boring and I was getting tired of him. Do you think that this is wrong that I use the Child Support Check to have fun. ( I have a good job so I can support my daughter)

2006-09-28 04:03:55 · 56 answers · asked by Cindy 1 in Singles & Dating

DOSE IT DEPEND ON HOW MANY KIDS SHE HAS AND THE AGES OF THE CHILDRENS?

2006-09-28 04:03:27 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I started goin' out yesterday. We really like eachother. So, how do we make the relationship last a long time?

2006-09-28 04:03:23 · 8 answers · asked by actress267 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-28 04:02:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I woke up this morning to my son complaining of a sore throat...he just wanted to stay home and play the new video game my ex was kind enough to send home with him. Then I stepped in the shower (on a little green soldier, that hurt) only to find that my littlest one used all my shampoo while he was playing in there last night. So I washed my hair with body soap, got dressed, tried to find my keys for 20 minutes then ran down the driveway with my son yelling that he hates me. I'm the worst mother in the world for making him go to school. Wait it gets better...now I'm on my way to a job interview, I spill coffee down my shirt so I stop to clean up and realize that I also have my underwear on inside out, not that that matters...it just added to my flustered state of mind. he,he,he and they offered me the job...what was that about heaven after a little hell? Anyone else start their day the way I do?

2006-09-28 04:02:45 · 7 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband's ex girlfriend keeps calling him from time to time, saying that she misses him, what should I do?
My husband's ex-girlfriend calls him from time to time and tells him that she thinks about him all the time and wants to know if that matters to him? She asks him if he will take her back? and I might add that this is the same girl that cheated on him with my ex-boyfriend YES!!! My ex and I broke up after 4 years, because she cheated on my husband with him and as fate would have it my husband and I ended up together married now for over a year and have a 1 year old little boy together! I told me ex- to just stay away and he has, he has moved on and it was hard for him but he has.but, my husband's ex will not move on she keeps popping up! My husband has told her over and over that he wants nothing to do with her, and that he is happily married and loves his wife and child What should I do? He has already had to get his cell number changed! now she is calling him at work SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME???? I love my husband and trust him, but I dont want her in our family picture!!!!

2006-09-28 04:01:26 · 32 answers · asked by YOUKNOWYOUWANNAKNOW 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-28 04:00:28 · 25 answers · asked by KelBean 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a question, do you still get Oral sex from your b-friend or husband the older you get?

2006-09-28 04:00:25 · 9 answers · asked by John M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We Are between 30-40 and this is our first date.

2006-09-28 04:00:25 · 11 answers · asked by yasmin n 1 in Singles & Dating

He has a great job, college grad and wants kids and LOVES me to death. I love him like a best friend and enjoy spending time with him but don't really want to rip his clothes off. What should I do?

2006-09-28 03:59:35 · 9 answers · asked by Amy Soprano 1 in Singles & Dating

He will not even speak up on my behalf,even when Ive done nothing wrong. That really bothers me and almost makes me resent him. Its as if Im in this alone. This has been an issue since we were married. On holidays, we go our separate ways if they arent speaking to me. This makes me even more angry that he wont choose to stick by me! I need honest answers. Am I asking too much?

2006-09-28 03:59:16 · 29 answers · asked by careful 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got a text off a lad i have been meeting he sent it night it said

'can i meet you one day this week?'

So i text him this morning saying 'you wanna meet up tonight?'

and he sent on back saying 'think so'

whats that meant to mean? what do i put back to that?

He wanted to meet last night but i had already gone out thats why i asked him if he wanted to meet tonight confused!

2006-09-28 03:57:40 · 29 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres a bar down the street from my house that I've deemed as "my bar". I freaking love that place and I'm there 3-4 times a week. I don't even go with people anymore as I know I'll have a friend there allready.
Anyhow I recently began dating a bartender there. It's been good times. But now I feel like I'm supposed to be all cool and not available 3-4 times a week but it sucks because I love that bar. I mean he knew I went there all the time but it seems like I should be avoiding it. What do you all think?

2006-09-28 03:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Singles & Dating

beauty, heart, mind, spirit etc,... what do females do that make u angry . And if you really love the family how would you show her that u care about her what would your actions prove!!!!

2006-09-28 03:57:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating