Been dating a month and already things have cropped up to work on. The good thing is we work through them very well. We are both very communicative. But isn't it kinda early to have things that needed to be worked on?
I should mention that in that month we spend ALOT of time talking.
2006-09-28 04:05:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you work through it without fighting.. and if you have more fun then work
2006-09-28 04:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm this is a tough one! Yeah its true in fantasy land you woudlnt argue within the first few months. I always feel bad when they call the first few years before your married the 'honeymoon period'! I started arguing with my partner about two months into our relation ship. I though hang on!! wait a minute we are not supposed to be doing this, but trying to work out what your 'supposed' to be doing takes your focus away from wwhat is actuallly going on between the two of you!! Stop worrying about what you should not be doing, there will be alot of times when things get a lot more worse, so start enjoying the fact that you are still at the stage when bneither of you get fed up talking your problems through!!!
Good Luck!!
2006-09-28 11:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its usually not a good sign. There shouldn't be problems so early on. My experience has been that if it starts with problems the problems never seem to stop popping up. This is one of those things that when 2 yrs have passed and your still fighting you look back and say I knew better why did I stay with him.
2006-09-28 11:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking and start making love, having sex. It's good to talk and be communicative, but it's way too early to talk that much. Just enjoy and have fun.
Seriously, just stop being so detailed. If you can't help it, then you know it'll end up just like ur last experience.
A friend
2006-09-28 11:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, But I should have asked this question as I feel the same about my relationship with my g/f.
I suppose it must me when you cant take the hurt anymore. But you always wonder what would fill that hole.So you keep trying and getting more and more hurt in the process.
2006-09-28 11:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its more work than fun, chances are its not a good thing.
2006-09-28 11:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by erica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a test, soo far u guyz are passing just keep going TOGETHER and TOGETHER u'll get through it all trust me its worth it it only makes your relationship stronger!
good luck,
XOXO
2006-09-28 11:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
preety hard
2006-09-28 11:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋