why do men think its ok to cheat?

Answer 1

If men are cheating, the question is, who are they cheating with? I am guessing that most the time it is a woman, so would that not mean that women think cheating is okay too? It is not all men or all women, but there are way too many of both that cheat. All you have to do is read these questions to see that just as many women are cheating or thinking of cheating as guys, so lets play fair...

Answer 2

I don't, I'm a man, so I think the question might be flawed on some fundamental level.

Perhaps you intended to ask why some people think it is okay to cheat? Cheating is not just a man thing, by the way. I never cheated on anyone, but I've been cheated on. I gave up exclusive dating for quite a while becaue of it.

I think some people think it's okay to cheat because they don't understand what it does to their partner. My wife has this problem a little bit, althogh she's never cheated on me. Since she's never been cheated on, she doesn't understand how it can hurt me when she's flirting with another guy, or how it can be any sort of a problem when a guy flirts with her and she flirst back. But she respects that it is a problem, even if she doens't understand it, and doesn't do it. (anymore)

Answer 3

I don't necessarily think that men think its ok to cheat, sometimes they just cannot control themselves---they see something they like, something that looks good, (mind you men are way more visual than women), or they see their perfect woman, the only thing is, she is not with them----or they see someone who has the qualities that are missing in their woman/relationship and they act upon that-----everyone needs comfort, acceptance and security, and i know that there are a lot of women out there who cheat on their men, so it does go both ways---i think that people who cheat do not think before they act, and that they want to go back to their wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend/ etc, but then once the trust is gone it is hard to get back, sometimes never---that is why they don't want to get caught or come clean-----i dont really think that anyone intends to hurt the other one, but that is always how it turns out-----but here is one thing i know from personal experiences with my family and friends------once guys are cheated on, they will rarely take the girl back because their pride and ego and reputation is ruined----with the girls i know who have been cheated on, most of them took their men back, and i am not really sure why---i my man cheated on me, i would dump his *** in a hurry, and never speak to him again.........but this is just my 2cents!

Answer 4

It's more women out in population than guys. Some don't thinks it's ok to cheat but with these women today are woring more semore clothing and hellish so it makes it hard for a guy not to sometime he wont's to feel attract to another women but you can help him by telling him how wonderful he is to you and if he don't cheat on cherish him cause he is a good guy but some of the women wants a bad guy and that why he's cheating maybe date some one you don't like and watch how much he will love you

Answer 5

Both sides cheat, women used to forgive and forget (in the days when the man was the sole provider) that might be why it has enabled the men not to really second guess his actions

when or if caught, its seems to be a double standard
in the reputation one receives, the man is a stud and the woman a ****

and women turn on other women.. case in point, that whore stole my man when she had NO clue he was attached,
it may have been easier to make up with the straying cad when the other women took the blame

Answer 6

Not all men think its ok to cheat

Answer 7

We don't, we trick ourselves into rationalizing it sometimes. Don't forget, just because you may have not, women cheat too. There was a question to that effect this morning, and plenty of women came forward and admitted they had cheated.

In a normal person, cheating is a symptom, nothing more. It's an attempt to fill a emotional void of some kind. One persons fulfillment is anothers void. Don't judge, it's not becoming. I know it causes pain, but there is pain for the cheater, just a different kind of pain.

Answer 8

Yeah, I like the generalization considering the fact that is is a fact than women cheat just as much as men do.

Answer 9

Men don't. But some people do. Men and women. Gender has nothing to do with it. But I've never known anyone to cheat when trhey're truly happy. There is usually something lacking in their lives.

Answer 10

Men are attracted by site. Women are attracted by emotions.Men cheat because they see some hot lady flirting with them. Women cheat because there husband does not pay attention to them and some guy does, then she she jumps in the sack with him. Remember guys cheat but they have some cheating with them.