2006-09-28 04:02:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take him back to "Rember when we first met"?
You have to re-visit the first time we fell in love from time to time to help the man remember about his first love feelings.
Men are tunnelled visioned and can actually go back to the first moments when he was challenged to get your attention, love, and interest.
Make some targets for him to hit the bullseye.
2006-09-28 04:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound like a obvious question but do you pay for him?? It's always nice to have someone spend money on ya, but when you expect it, then it's a little rude. Maybe if you explained a little more about the situation we could get a better idea of what you mean.
2006-09-28 04:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a vague question. first u need to include: 1) does he have money to spend that he refuses to? 2) are the 2 of u in a position where money is not an object? 3) are u asking for money to be spent on things u NEED or things u WANT. give examples.
2006-09-28 04:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused, do you have no access to money to buy the things you need for yourself? Or is this just you wanting him to take you out more and buy you more presents kind of a thing?
2006-09-28 04:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend his money for him. When he notices the new little bobbles and clothing, appliances etc...
Just tell him that you helped him out getting the things that would please you since he obviously hasn't a clue as demonstrated by the lack of gift giving.
2006-09-28 04:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you buy him alot of stuff, and he doesn't know how it feels to be neglected. If your constantly picking him up little nic nacs when you go out, your always reminding him you care. Quit doing that for him, and he will see how it feels. Save the money you spend on him, and spend it on yourself.
This is how my man and I used to be, I did this and it worked!
2006-09-28 04:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't change a married man.
AND you sound pretty selfish and self centered AND materialistic. Does he love you? Does he treat you right? That's what matters.
if you need material things, get a job and buy them for yourself.
2006-09-28 04:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a feeling ur looking for excuses to cheat on ur hubby. but in actual fact he should buy u things from time to time, but do u buy him things?, marraiage is give and take, not take take take. stop complaining about ur husband and look into ur own attitude. have a talk with him and try to resolve matters.
2006-09-28 05:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this talk with him before we got married. Now he spends his/our money wisely.
2006-09-28 04:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by **What??** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change him. If he is also not spending on himself he is a thrifty family man.
2006-09-28 05:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋