Hey guys:
I'm 25 and he just turned 28. I met him on a personal's site and it was love at first sight. We have EVERYTHING in common. We've been together for about 6 mos and and he asked me to move in after 2-3 months of dating. He said he has never asked anyone to move in with him EVER. I know its crazy. We just connect and love eachother insanely. He used to be a party-animal or atleast was, before I met him. He obviously had many gf's that he partied hard with. (From the pics he showed me). He even had a fiance for 2 years that he partied sooo much with. All he did was party.. go to clubs, bars, meets girls at bars. I love to party and always did before I met him. Now... after he met me, he doesn't want to go out anymore. He wants to go out camping, fishing, mountain biking, cruises and occasional bar even a very low-key lounge & stay in & watch movies which is really nice. But why not party anymore? Is it me?? Why the sudden change?? Its so frustrating...
2006-09-28 04:10:14 · 22 answers · asked by Jenna S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some guys just come to that stage where their partying days are over...he may want to settle down with you now and take a back seat on the partying because he's me someone like you who has alot in common...it is fun to go out biking or fishing and the odd bar, i would seriously think about moving in though...it may be too soon, it's up to you, but once you live with them you can see them for who they really are....thats not a bad thing but after 3 months and he's asking you to move in is a bit soon...it's your life hun....but i think he has met his soul mate and wants to spend quality time with you instead of roaring round a club sniffing for birds..be complimented....go with the flow and enjoy your relationship
2006-09-28 04:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has apparently found the woman of his dreams (YOU). and he don't need to go to the parties and stuff anymore.. If you need to drink buy some for at home .enjoy the camping and fishing and all the other stuff he wants to do with you.
did you pay attention to him when you were out partying or were you running all over the place talking to everyone else..
He is done looking for his right person he has found it in you.. figure out if he is the right person for you and just enjoy what he is wanting to do with you.. he wants you to himself.
don't give up your friends for anyone person though.. keep in touch have a day that you can do things together.. but you must communicate with him and ask him these questions. are you ready to settle down is the biggest question here, he is..
2006-09-28 04:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hes found true love with you, and doesnt have the need to be out partying anymore - he was prob only a party animal as he was looking for women and had nothing better to do,
What you've listed as what he now wants to do is quite romantic and together kinda hobbies - Id be flattered if I were you.
You need to reach a comprimise with him if you want to continue going out - just explain that you need to have a few wild nights and ask him to come with you xx
2006-09-28 04:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
it sounds to me that he has found the person that he wants to settle down with you are lucky most guy dont ever grow up
i know you must feel down about the fact that he spent all of his time clubbing with the others but he might not of be faithful and he may of been still looking for the one untill he met you and now he has relized that theres more to life then clubbing like spending quailty time with you
you may not feel it but your lucky to have a man who wants to spend his time with you and not looking at other people
i hope my comment helped in any way
2006-09-28 04:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by flowerpot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me like he is ready to settle down a little. Happens to the best of us ;) even me well almost I still party every other weekend ;P
2006-09-28 04:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's tired of partying! My husband was the same. He was in a rock band, was out every week and now is bored with it. It's not you - he's just grown up.
2006-09-28 04:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he went partying to meet girls, which might be what led to the breakup between him and his fiancee. Now that he has you, he doesn't need to meet girls.
2006-09-28 04:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probally to old for that now just talk to him now he grew up and so should u he is a adult i mean it is good to party but it would be a lil childish to go to parties and you are out there with lil kids it wouldnt make to much sence
2006-09-28 04:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by SiSi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be flattered instead of upset.He's comfortable w/ you.He'd rather be alone w/ you than out "partying" with his buddies.Most women would kill for that situation.
2006-09-28 04:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its u - he wants to settle down - no more crazy romance - just like the good ol' movies - he cud propose if hes goin like this
2006-09-28 04:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Syed Umair S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋