Theres a bar down the street from my house that I've deemed as "my bar". I freaking love that place and I'm there 3-4 times a week. I don't even go with people anymore as I know I'll have a friend there allready.
Anyhow I recently began dating a bartender there. It's been good times. But now I feel like I'm supposed to be all cool and not available 3-4 times a week but it sucks because I love that bar. I mean he knew I went there all the time but it seems like I should be avoiding it. What do you all think?
2006-09-28 03:57:38 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a thought.... but if he knew you went there regularly have you ever thought he ENJOYS you being there 3 - 4 times a week and doesnt expect that to change just cause you started dating?
Dont change who you are or how you act because of what you THINK is expected. Talk to him, say "Listen I just wanted to be sure you were comfortable with me being here as often as I am now that we are dating" I would be willing to bet hes fine with it.
2006-09-28 04:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 03:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't going there before because of him so don't change your routine. Just because you are dating doesn't mean you are no longer a person with thier own identity.
2006-09-28 04:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's just tapping you instead of the beer keg! maybe you should just break it off clean and let him know that your still his friend but the bar comes first.
2006-09-28 04:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go there i mean now you have 2 reasons to go to the bar to go chill and go see your man
2006-09-28 04:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by babeschick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going. If he has a problem with it, find someone else to date.
2006-09-28 04:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do and don't let the bartender spoil your fun.
2006-09-28 04:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is too much like dating someone at work. I would break it off easy. Let him know you like him so that he isn't spitting in your drinks.
2006-09-28 08:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep going to your bar
2006-09-28 03:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares, do what makes you happy
2006-09-28 04:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋