My boyfriend/ baby dad have been together for over 7 years and, we don't communcate like we used to,we barely have sex and when we do is because i initiated. but other than that he won't . we don't talk on the phone like we used to. I think we are just used to eachother. i don't know what to do. he may be cheating for all i know. but i don't even have time to check on that, i work all day and at night i go to school full time and on the weekends i spend all my time with my baby. what can i do ?
2006-09-28 04:10:32 · 9 answers · asked by la nena loca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You already know.
2006-09-28 04:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself one question do you want this relationship if so then talk to him explain how you feel it seems as if both of you have gotten comfortable after 7 years. Get pretty find a babysitter and take him out rekindle the flame see what happens maybe he's feeling neglected by your busy schedule but no matter what you should always communicate with him and he should do the same with you. Tell him how you feel and together try and figure out how to get back on the right track.
2006-09-28 11:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great you're doing all of that but it sounds like that you're relationship is getting boring. The both of y'all need to take some time for each other and spice things up. Y'all should talk about what the problem is between you two.
2006-09-28 11:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not married. How can you expect to be treated like a wife when He doesn't have enough respect for you to marry you, he doesn't respect your child enough to marry their mother. He is not your husband, he is not bound to you. Commited relationships require engagement (without living together) and marriage. He is using you and you are enabling him. If you think he is cheating(how-No Commitment?), then he is.
2006-09-28 11:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask the question, then you probably know the answer......ask him if he is cheating. Ask him if he is bored, maybe he feels left out of your life. Only you can decided what to do.
2006-09-28 11:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look forward to being a single mom.
2006-09-28 11:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when you ask yourself that question.
Give yourself the same advise you would give to someone else in the same circumstances---then listen to yourself.
2006-09-28 11:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by patlrussell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god you ppl if you want good answers then write good short quick questions
2006-09-28 11:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by scouse2026 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is the end of the begining...............
2006-09-28 11:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋